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lookingInCville

25 / m / bisexual / single

Charlottesville, Virginia, United States

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humorous, genuine, and geeky

My self-summary Propose an edit

These profiles don't do people justice. They polarize the entire dating experience.

I am the kind of guy who loves life and the things within. I am a pantheist and fairly serious about it. Extremely open-minded towards everyone and thing except for people who make constant irrational choices to harm themselves and those around them.

I am an easy going, if not shy, guy until you get to know me. I am often an advice giver to both straight, gay, and bi friends. I seem to help way more people then people are willing to help me out. I am introspective and have a very deep understanding of who I am.

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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I am working as a software applications engineer for a government contract company right outside Charlottesville, VA. It is a kinda stressful job at times, but it pays well, and I like what I do, most of the time.

I am planning on going to school again soon, and possibly moving from this ass-backwards city. I am tired of being fixated in one place and would love to meet people from around here who are into hiking, camping, or traveling. Looking mostly for friends, since meeting people for dating hasn't been working out for me these last 2 years.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

* According to my roommate: "Being Money, and not even knowing it!"
* Digital Art (if I can find the time and not have it be work related)
* Being patient
* Making people feel comfortable
* Programming in a multitude of languages
* Critiquing art
* Improvising on the fly
* Being a wonderful friend

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

From what they have said initially to me from meeting me:

That I am very approachable and easy going although I can sometimes come across as a shy guy. But I warm up pretty quickly.

"Oh, you are cuter then your pictures", is a pretty common one. I guess a lot of people seem to get the wrong impression about me right away. Not sure if it is because I seem very plain in appearance or not.

Either way, a lot of people have very different first impressions of me maybe because most people are a bit suspicious of people who are straightforward or honest. And I can't really stand people who claim that they are too "real" or speak their "mind"... usually these people only talk without thinking about what they are about to say. It doesn't really get my attention, in-fact I tend to just stop talking to those people altogether.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books::
Lucky Wonder Boy,
The Hobbit,
The Lord of the Rings,
Tales of the White Wolf,
America the Book,
Starship Troopers,
Just for fun,
Masters of Doom,
Lurker at the Threshold,
Eats Shoots and Leaves,
The Toybox,
The Redwall Series,
HP Lovecraft's works,
and more...
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Movies::
Mystery Science Theature 3000,
Fight Club,
the Matrix trilogy,
Animatrix,
Trigun,
Deep Rising,
Blade 2,
Mission Impossible 2,
Kung Pow,
Fist of Legend,
The Crow,
Amelie,
Seven,
Sin City,
Jacob's Ladder,
the Frighteners,
Lord of the Rings,
Naked Gun,
Aliens,
Ronin,
Equalibrium,
Boondock Saints,
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels,
Snatch,
Army of Darkness,
Evil Dead 2,
Batman Begins,
Hot Shots Part Deus,
High Fidelity,
Appleseed,
Slither,
Day & Night Watch,
The departed,
Hot Fuzz,
and More...
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Music::
Accumen Nation,
3 Doors Down,
A Perfect Circle,
Alice In Chains,
Apartment 26,
At the Drive-In,
Audioslave,
Brand New,
Breaking Benjamin,
Chevelle,
Disturbed,
Evanescence,
Fall Out Boy,
Glassjaw,
Gorillaz,
Gravity Kills,
Incubus,
Linkin Park,
Lostprophets,
Nine Inch Nails,
Panic! At The Disco,
Papa Roach,
Puddle of Mud,
Red Hot Chili Peppers,
Slipknot,
Staind,
Stone Temple Pilots,
System of a Down,
Taking Back Sunday,
Taproot,
The Offspring,
The Smashing Pumpkins,
The Used,
Three Days Grace,
Weezer,
Yellowcard,
Serj Tankain,
And More...
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Food:: Chocolate Pie is my favorite dessert. I am quickly becoming one of those people who hates fast food. I love Mexican food, not really surprising since I grew up in Southern California. I like to try new things. I am a fan of Japanese, Chinese, Italian, and Southern foods.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

1. Family
2. Friends
3. Something new to learn
4. The internet
5. The outdoors
6. Good food

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

+ My emotional well being
+ My health
+ Code
+ Sex/Whom with; relationships?
+ Gender identity
+ Politics
+ Art
+ My friends
+ Iori

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

One of these:

1. At home relaxing after a busy week of work. This might involve being alone or with friends having something to drink while playing board or video games or watching movies.

2. Out doing something crazy with my roommate, which has happened a lot lately. Not exactly predictable.

3. Hanging out with friends doing something like watching a movie and getting dinner.

4. Doing something outdoorsy, doesn't happen enough.

5. Cruising the interwebs.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I am not a very private person once you get to know me, but putting myself out there on the internet isn't a good idea. So, I wont. Get to know me.

You should message me if Propose an edit

+ You can garner my interest
+ I can understand what you are trying to type to me (grammar people!)
+ PLEASE include why specifically you find me _________, not just that you find me _________, but also the specific WHY... you will be 10 times more likely to get a response.
+ Not going to assume I will travel hundreds of miles to be with you
+ Not bi-polar, sorry, I seem to attract bi-polar people like a magnet and it has never worked out
+ Like wine
+ Are easy to talk to about any and everything
+ Being able to run 2-3 miles is a huge plus
+ health conscious is a plus
+ I am not interested in a relationship with someone too old or too young. Sorry, but things get weird fast.

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Developing into my own |
I have been asked how my sketching practices have been going. Well, I ended up on iScribble to have "fun" while drawing, since I couldn't get the motivation to do it on my own. Anyways, here is almost an entire weeks worth of scribbles. You can sort...

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How Well We Know him

lookingInCville: 551 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$50,000-$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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