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35 M San Francisco, CA

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  • Ages 25–42
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Today – 6:24am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids

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My self-summary
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I've just returned to San Francisco after moving to Baltimore for a while. I'm a scientist, which is a big part of who I am, not just how I make a living.

I'm pretty serious about good food. I'm a great vegetarian cook (really, cook who happens to be vegetarian; I've impressed both vegans and committed carnivores, sometimes at the same time). I'm still working my way through the new restaurants that opened since I left San Francisco and I'd love to hear suggestions...

I enjoy going out at night--especially for live music, which pretty much needs to be part of my life. I travel quite a bit, often for work, but it sometimes lines up with fun too. I've been doing a lot of yoga lately.
What I’m doing with my life
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Telling useful stories about the world.
I’m really good at
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Abstraction, which serves me better in some things than in others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The long hair, or perhaps the glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The City and the City. Half-made World. Cloud Atlas. A Visit from the Goon Squad. The Blind Assassin. Middlesex. Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity. Midnight's Children. One Hundred Years of Solitude. Master and Margarita. Herman Hesse's books.

Primer. Amores Perros. City of God. Brick. Lost in Translation. The Devil's Backbone. Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang. The Conformist. The Hunger.

Amanda Palmer / Dresden Dolls. Ladytron. Psy'Aviah, Ayria, Neuroticfish, Assemblage 23, Covenant. Mahler, Shostakovich.

I don't exactly have a favorite--nearly anything can be done well, and I'm always interested in something new. I'm vegetarian but I don't think of that as a limitation. I still miss the produce from California...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One thing: non-attachment.

And a sense of irony.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...deep in some elaborate cooking project. I know people who say that cooking is much like labwork. I think the difference is that cooking usually works, even though it's a bit different every time, but experiments somehow fail even when you're doing everything the same.
You should message me if
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…you want to show me your favorite amazing things around here, or go look for them together.