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24 Alameda, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 1:11pm
Black, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Open relationship
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A friend told me I was doing this all wrong, so I'm taking her advice/help. (0.o) So here's what you need to know about me:

I'm a nice guy, the kind of guy who "ends up in the friend-zone" and doesn't care. The guy who drives for an hour to visit a friend who was crying, who'll bring you homemade minestrone if you're sick without asking. I'll be the first to tell you something is probably a bad idea, then jump off a 40ft cliff with you. I'll never lie to you, unless you know I'm doing it and don't care.
I dance because I feel like you can express more, in 5 minutes on the dance floor than in an hour's conversation,
I smile at as many people as I can because I know chances are they'll smile back and their brain will give them alittle boost because of it.
I'm shy and confident all at the same time.
And sometimes I'll sing just because "I've got sunshine on a cloudy day""and rain drops keep falling on my head, but that doesn't mean that I am dead"and"I can see clearly now"so"I wrote these these words in open honesty"."The only problem is, I'm not your ordinary, average Romeo" Sometime songs are the words I need. I am an unabashed, cheesy, weird goofball with a healthy helping of nerdtastic for good measure

I'm happy, and I know where I want my life to go and I know what stops I want to make along the way. The rest... well I leave that up to the universe and maybe a co-pilot.

At this moment in my life... I'm still enjoying meeting new people, friends and lovers, living life to the utmost but really in the end...what I want is
And with any luck one of these days I'll run into this: type of girl

So ladies, gentleman, I invite you to join me for the ride, come say hi, stay for a while, pop in for a minute or a season. I want to see the world, and I don't mind if it's one friendly face at a time!

I'm an ISTJ aka The Guardian and I approve this message.

Update, I've been gone from the site for a long time, I just sort of got too busy for it...:( SO I'd like to apologize to anyone I may have left hanging in PMs and I'll try and apologize again more intimately later. But Important things have happened! I now have a girlfriend, a rather wonderful lass she swells my heart and organs. I speak of course of my brain... but point is I now have different goals on this site.
It's very sad but I've managed to start dating a very pretty, fairly short girl who not only loves me but loves women as well. I'm sure I can suffer through this but to help her cope we've talked about it and We think that there might be a wonderful girl somewhere out there for us/her! so if you think that might be you please read on and shoot me/us an email:)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm majoring in economics and doing a bunch of fun classes like tango and violin to balance things out.:D
in my leisure time I enjoy being lazy(watching movies/shows), sketching, going for walks, playing Frisbee golf, photographing the city, gaming/hanging out with friends:), singing, and my all time favorite; having a girl's night and watching a movie, or listening to music and talking.

And when I'm not in SF, I'm either back in my home town checking on the house, visiting my mother and friends or slacking my wanderlust.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am passionate and I'm (told I'm) pretty good at photography, blues/other partner dancing, massage and hugging:) singing motown while doing various activities. Having weird as fuck dreams.

And while they might not be my strong suits I love:
driving & traveling :)--------------listening, and offering advice
debating---------------------------- throwing a party
being a gentleman? I try, but really you decide if I succeed:)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, people seem to love playing with my hair, not that i'm complaining:).
My Large massage prone hands, my smile.
oh and sometimes my camera :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
hunger games---------------------------A Year of Living Biblically
Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy series-----------Xanth Series
Illusions---------------------------------------The Psychopath Test
The host------------------------Malazan Book of the Fallen series
ultimate guide to cunnilingus:)-----------------------Sex at Dawn
Human Sexuality text book-----------------------------------Bonk
(I was going to school to be a sex therapist at one point )
War of Gifts------------------Going Solo, The rise of single living
When You Are Engulfed In Flames-------------------Hаrry Potter
Advertising Concepts---------------African-American economics

matrix----------------------------------------------Spirited Away
ratatouille------------------------------------------The Dark Knight
James bond movies------------------- The Pursuit of Happyness
10 items or less----------------------------------- 7 Pounds
Hitch------------------------------------------------The Bucket List
Tyler Perry movies--------------------------------Chaos Theory
Five People You Meet in Heaven------------------I Robot
Iron Man--------------------------------------------Mulan
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog------------------- X-Men Movies
Firefly: move and show-------------------------- Book of Kells
How to Train Your Dragon------------------------Treasure Planet
what dreams may come--------------------------5th Element
Pirates of the Caribbean--------------------------Forrest Gump

White Collar---------------------------------------Bones
Colbert Report------------------------------------Spy
Once upon a time---------------------------------Grimm
The Simpsons-------------------------------------Southpark
Avatar: the Air Bender--------------------------The IT Crowd
Black Adder----------------------------------------Dresden Files
Doll House ----------------------------------------Mushi-Shi
skins------------------------------------------------Doctor Who

Beethoven----------------------------------------Linkin Park
Coldplay-------------------------------------------James Brown
Mackelmore---------------------------------------Marvin Gaye
Bassnectar---------------------------------------- Al Green
Disney Songs-------------------------------------The Beatles
Musicals------------------------------------------- Chopin
Fort Minor----------------------------------------- Eminem
Atmosphere-------------------------------------- John Mayer
Rebelution--------------------------------------- Sweatshop Union

Savage love-------------------the moth
This american life-------------philosophy bites
intro to psychology
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Friends and Family, Or a "community"

My camera, even when I can't save the pictures I still enjoy taking them:

My Hands, I LOVE to fiddle and tinker and fuss and worry things, so I'm always messing around with my hands. Eventually I decided to put them to good use! I am now a certified massage Practitioner!

Traveling, Somewhere anywhere, doesn't matter where or how long as long as I at least get to a different area code every couple months, otherwise I just get restless. Like a pup stuck in a house.

A Book, don't care if I only read it once a month for 5 minutes, I still need that print.


singing and dancing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who I am and where I'm going in life
getting to my homework
what it means to be happy
how to make and meet more friends in the city
racial, sex related, religion related issues (like green lantern being white in the new movie)
who I would "gay marry if gay marriage was mandatory" (i'm watching "totally biased" lol)
what kind of pirate I would be
how to make my kids into ninja/companion/genius
the perfect heist/date/vacation/dinner
how I'm alot like Ted from HIMYM
What I want in my future house
my new motorcycle
zombie apocalypse exit strategies
what my, occasionally, crazy weird dreams mean.

every once in a while I think of and write a bad/cheesy poem
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends/trying to get them out of their apartments, working, walking/frolfing in GG park, going to the movies, at Friday Night Waltz, doing homework.

these days generally I'm working, then coming home for a could rounds of video games with my girl and the house mate. Followed swiftly by food and sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I don't have many secrets if any... I get a little excited when I find a profile on here with a High match (80+), more than 400 questions answered and a fun nerdy profile. It always feels like it could be the start of a grand... something! lol

I'm good friends with all my Exs although a couple of them can still be alittle challenging to be around for too long and most of my relationships have been 8+months.
You should message me if
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Breaking news: I'm learning american sign language or as the gangster kids call it ASL. and would love to learn it through immersion with someone deaf or fluent. If that's you pretty please hit me up!

I've edited this as I now have a fairly wonderful girlfriend in my life which tends to make me a little more boring. If you have a new activity you think would be fun and you're interested in making a couple friends.
Or if you'd like an in to some of the Bay's dance scene we have our fingers in a couple pies:) We're also looking to meet a wonderful individual who has some interest in being a "unicorn" and joining us for some more NSFW fun, but that has to go through the miss:)

Soo, to recap inf you're new to the area and love dance/ adventures of some kind or if you like alternative pleasures do get in touch;)

OH and IF you like my profile please give me a rating, for my personal edification:) I might even say hi.