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44 Cary, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:15am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'm a bit burnt out on the whole online dating scene... I'm still looking, but passively. If you are interested, drop me a note. I usually respond to message that appear to be looking for more than just sex.
If you have no interested in spending time learning about me as an individual or if you are in a close relationship, please do not message.

I'm quiet, curious, independent, and open minded. I like knowing what I'm doing, but enjoy surprises. I enjoy engaging my mind, learning new things, expanding my horizons. Hiking/walking, kayaking, swimming, bowling, photography, and various crafts/hobbies fill my free time. I try to be direct and accept people for who they are.

I'm looking for someone to share some adventures, fun, laughter, or more. My ideal guy, like me, has a busy, active life and an active mind. I'm open to friendship growing into something more, but I'm not looking for a husband.

Things I'm not looking for - one night stand/booty call, men in closed relationships, & game players.

Thanks for checking me out.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working & having fun, but always learning. I've been with my current company since I was in college, working on different projects, learning new technologies/skills.
In my down time, I play with warm glass (fused & lampworking), make jewelry, explore digital photography, put together puzzles, play board games, watch movies, read, walk/hike, swim, bowl & when its warmer, kayak.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am very logical... if logical people drive you nuts, then I'm not for you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - Casablanca, Princess Bride, WALL-E, Blazing Saddles
TV - Cosmos, Through the Wormhole, Big Bang Theory, Eureka, Looney Tunes, Dr Who,
Books - Stranger in a Strange Land, The Outsiders, Hitchhiker Guide to the Galaxy Trilogy
Games - Roll for the Galaxy, ViceRoy, Galaxy Trucker, Cribbage, King of Tokyo, Masons
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the basics (air, water, food, sleep)
- friends
- good dark chocolate
- comfortable shoes
- mental entertainment/distractions
- respect & being valued
You should message me if
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If your looking for a unique individual for friendship, friends with benefits, or dating ....