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lordlnyc

56 M Jamaica, NY

I’m looking for

  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Aug 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a kinky (into BDSM - I am a top), queer friendly, polyamorous (poly) person. I am ethnically Jewish but not a practicing Jew.

I am look for a female who is polyamorous, kinky, and also queer friendly, bisexual a plus. Race and SIZE not important.

I am also seeking new friends.

I am a "cat person" who currently does not have a cat because I lost my Bustopher back in February 2008.

I had the most wonderful primary partner in the world, but I lost her to Colon Cancer in June of 2005

From My Facebook Profile:
I'm a GLBTQ/Human rights activist, a kinkster(top), Polyamorous, Computer programmer specialist.

I like activism: Polyamory, LGBTQ, BDSM, Pro Choice, Marriage Equality, Human Rights Equality, Racial Equality.
Oh yes Science Fiction.

In 2012: I went to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force's National Conference on LGBT Equality called: Creating Change

I am kind, helpful, and friendly
What I’m doing with my life
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When I am not hard at work (as a Computer Programmer/DBA), I am hard at work as a GLBT community activist. Both of these parts of my life have gotten very busy and are Competing for my time :-).

I also have been traveling a lot to see friends and going to Sci-fi conventions. I currently go to Arisia, Boskone, and Lunacon. I also would like to add Balticon, Albacon and Pi_con to the list.

I would also like to once again also go to a Loving More East Coast polyamory conference/Retreat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being an activist
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Any books by Gerry Bartlett, Jacqueline Carey, Cecilia Tan , Susan Wright, and KT Pinto.

Movie: 12 Angry Men (1957), Alice In Wonderland, Big, Brigadoon, Caddy Shack, Catch Me If You Can, A Clockwork Orange, "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", Fahrenheit 451, Forrest Gump, Frida, Goonies, Harry Potter, Interview with the Vampire, The Last Emperor, Miracle on 34th Street (1947), Monty Python, Moulin Rouge, The Pianist, Planet of the Apes, The Producers, The Princess Bride, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Shawshank Redemption, The Shining, Shrek, Slaughterhouse Five, Soylet Green, Spaceballs, All Star Trek movies, A Time To Kill, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (1971), The Wizard of Oz (1939)

From My Facebook Profile:

Movies: 12 Angry Men (1957), Alice In Wonderland, Big, Brigadoon, Caddy Shack, Catch Me If You Can, A Clockwork Orange, "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", Fahrenheit 451, Forrest Gump, Frida, Goonies, Harry Potter, Interview with the Vampire, The Last Emperor, Miracle on 34th Street (1947), Monty Python, Moulin Rouge, The Pianist, Planet of the Apes, The Producers, The Princess Bride, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Shawshank Redemption, The Shining, Shrek, Slaughterhouse Five, Soylet Green, Spaceballs, All Star Trek movies, A Time To Kill, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (1971), The Wizard of Oz (1939).

TV Shows: NCIS, Eureka.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, food, water, friends, love, YOU!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and Everything. :-)

I am think of all my friends that are sick.

I am also missing my life partner and love of my life Brenda Howard who I lost to Colon Cancer back on 6/28/2005.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sorry to say currently I am home on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have not had a drink of [alcohol] in over 20 years (January 1 1989) .
You should message me if
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You want to say hi, specially if you know me (tell me how).
If you want to know me more.
If you want to ask me a Question (any question is fine).