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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 7
Straight, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
hi love ~ okc name: lorenwhat

I value intelligence
intelligent is different from smart.
smart is dry in comparison. I associate smart with erudite or nerdy (nerdy's fun too though). I equate intelligence with honesty, empathy, kindness, playfulness, humor (not necessarily funny but able to laugh) and a proclivity to embrace self evolution

it must begin with friendship
I'm looking for actively maturing friends who are intellectually awake, live life from an integral perspective, pursue conscious personal development …and love adventure on any scale. reasonable, yeah?

I'm a person of intellect, humor, empathy, service & accommodation, play...
what's a hüman with no hümor??
I love challenging myself to try new things. I'm very handy crafty artistic musical and all that

life •is• but a dream

if I've viewed your profile but haven't messaged, it doesn't mean I'm disinterested; just means I haven't messaged yet. it »is« okay if You message me first
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
doing my subtle humble parts in helping humanity amble forward in whichever ways it's ready «!» il est mutuelle

this moment in my life feels like what I'm calling a "root chakra experience" aka the survival game. my life ended and started from nearly nothing a year ago and I'm presently re-learning how to survive in SF and I'm rockin it ¡! fun times !¡

I'm a dream artist
as are You
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm rather agile; shoulda been a gymnast.
my control of language is equally lithe.
adept at terseness
and not stating the obvious
being gracious
holding space
holding You
I probably have more patience than You
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
silliest question; You know better than I
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
boox: healthy!
what helps me progress in the moment, develops emotional intelligence, expands empathy, imparts applicable wisdom. I'm recently becoming familiar with NVC.
legacy favorites: Illusions, Siddhartha, The Prophet, The Alchemist, Testimony of Light
…I really miss having someone to read aloud to

movies: intelligent & creative!
The Fall, What Dreams May Come, Waking Life, I Heart Huckabees, Holy Mountain, Santa Sangre, Death to Smoochy. directors Terry Gilliam & Guillermo del Toro

foods: healthy!
I prefer self-made salads to be the majority of my diet but I have a hard time being in the kitchen that often and for that long, so it usually ends up being convenient vegetarian things like burritos

music: pretty & upbeat!
listen to Starlight in Daden by Ekova

also I'm learning to play ukulele, bass guitar & relearning guitar so I've been diggin grooooovy tunes lately

tv & news = 100% unhealthy. You simply don't understand how propaganda worx. if You believe You do, I'd like to hold conversation with You

radiolab, moth
…podcasts are dangerous because there's sooooo much good stuff it can easily vacuum my time
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
c, h, a, n, g, e (the only constant)

opportunities to help
kind, appreciative, generous, loving, soulful, intelligent, playful friends
new experiences
people to dialogue concepts with
affection ...though it's been years
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the fabric and construct of experience and reality, from the biggest pictures to the most subtle & imperceivable details


what it means to have a humanimal experience in contrast with nonphysical or other biological experiences
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wandering & wondering
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
we have a high %

if You're kind, gentle, peaceful, helpful

You have that rare præternormal intelligence

You prefer cats

You haven't given up on your glorious majestic heart

You have a kissing & cuddling addiction

You grok the difference between desires versus needs in relationships …in life

3 out of 7 will suffice