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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:59pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
username: lorenwhat

I'm looking for an actively maturing person who's serious about long-term relationships, is intellectually awake, lives life from an integral perspective, pursues conscious personal development …and loves adventure on any scale. reasonable, yeah?

I have a rather unique but simple perspective of reality which is difficult to describe in few enough words to not deter readers. I'm a person of empathy, service & accommodation. I love challenging myself to try new things ~ let's PLAY

I've only been monogamous and so far I prefer it, but I'm open to experiment if that's where love takes me

if I've viewed your profile but haven't messaged yet, doesn't mean I'm disinterested, just means I haven't messaged yet. I won't fuss too much if You message me first

a friend said my profile was literally literarily too much so what You're reading is a light version. if You'd like to read the director's cut You really don't know what You're asking for, but ask

…and I'll deliver with alacrity
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
doing my part to subtly help humanity move forward in whichever ways it's ready for «~» it's mutual

I'm a dream artist

so are You
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm rather agile; should've been a gymnast.
my control of language is equally lithe.
adept at terseness
and not stating the obvious
being gracious
holding space
holding You
I probably have more patience than You

I'm learning how to torture procrastination « if You can understand that …I'm impressed!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
silliest question; You know better than I
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
boox: whatever's helping me progress in the moment. I'd like someone to practice Nonviolent Communication with.
legacy favorites: Illusions, Siddhartha, The Prophet, The Alchemist, Testimony of Light

movies: the most intelligent & creative.
The Fall, What Dreams May Come, Waking Life, I Heart Huckabees, Holy Mountain, Santa Sangre, Death to Smoochy. directors Terry Gilliam & Guillermo del Toro

foods: healthy, preeze. raw vegan with sporadic naughty exceptions

music: pretty does it. my roommate says the music I listen to sounds good when she's *not* stoned. heard of Ekova?

tv & news = You simply don't understand how propaganda worx. if You really do, I'd like to hold conversation with You
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
c, h, a, n, g, e

...the only constant

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the fabric and construct of reality and experience, from the biggest pictures to the most subtle & imperceivable details
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wandering & wondering
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
what is shyness?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have that rare prætercosmic intelligence

You haven't given up on your glorious majestic heart

You have a kissing & cuddling addiction

You grok the difference between desires versus needs in relationships …in life