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38 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 29
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
hi love! okc name: lorenwhat

romance can't be forced
it must begin with friendship
I'm looking for actively maturing friends for whom long-term relationships come easy, are intellectually awake, live life from an integral perspective, pursue conscious personal development …and love adventure on any scale. reasonable, yeah?

I'm a person of intellect, humor, empathy, service & accommodation, play...
I love challenging myself to try new things.
I've only been monogamous and so far I prefer it BUT I'm open to experiment if that's where love takes me

if I've viewed your profile but haven't messaged yet, it doesn't mean I'm disinterested, just means I haven't messaged yet. it »is« okay if You message me first

this is a very light profile compared to the one I replaced with it. if You'd like to read the director's cut You really don't knowhat You're asking for, but ask …and I'll deliver with alacrity

^ mobile version omits hyperlinx
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
doing my subtle humble parts in helping humanity amble forward in whichever ways it's ready «!» il est mutuelle

this moment in my life feels like what I'm calling a "root chakra experience" aka the survival game. my life started from nearly nothing about a year ago and I'm presently re-learning how to survive in SF ¡! fun times !¡

I'm a dream artist
as are You
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm rather agile; shoulda been a gymnast.
my control of language is equally lithe.
adept at terseness
and not stating the obvious
being gracious
holding space
holding You
I probably have more patience than You
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
silliest question; You know better than I
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
boox: healthy. what helps me progress in the moment, opens emotional intelligence, further expands empathy, imparts applicable wisdom. I'd like someone to practice NVC with.
legacy favorites: Illusions, Siddhartha, The Prophet, The Alchemist, Testimony of Light

movies: intelligent & creative.
The Fall, What Dreams May Come, Waking Life, I Heart Huckabees, Holy Mountain, Santa Sangre, Death to Smoochy. directors Terry Gilliam & Guillermo del Toro

foods: healthy! I prefer self-made salads to be the majority of my diet but I have a hard time being in the kitchen that often and for that long, so it usually ends up being convenient vegetarian things like burritos

music: pretty & upbeat. listen to Starlight in Daden by Ekova

also I'm learning to play the bass guitar (& ukulele & relearning guitar) so I've been diggin grooooovy tunes lately

tv & news = 100% unhealthy. You simply don't understand how propaganda worx. if You believe You do, I'd like to hold conversation with You
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
c, h, a, n, g, e (the only constant)

opportunities to help
friends who help me up
new experiences
people to dialogue concepts with
affection ...though it's been years
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the fabric and construct of experience and reality, from the biggest pictures to the most subtle & imperceivable details
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wandering & wondering
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
what is shyness?
shyness is thoroughly misunderstood
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if You're kind, gentle, peaceful, helpful

You have that rare prætermammalian intelligence

You haven't given up on your glorious majestic heart

You have a kissing & cuddling addiction

You grok the difference between desires versus needs in relationships …in life

3 out of 5 will suffice