Hey there, So just gonna go right for the points. I work A LOT! I don't have much free time. If you think that you are someone that knows the difference between quality time and quantity of time feel free to message me.
I'm looking for something real and long term. heavy drinkers, or addicts are instant deal breakers for me.

I am currently working as a chef and manager at a locally owned cafe. I love my job!
I am also a massage therapist on the side.
There is more to me then just work though. All ya gotta do is ask...

I'd like to think that i'm a good listener. I'm really good at just being there to lean on or talk to. I am understanding to a fault. I always look at both sides of the coin which can either be a blessing or a curse. It just depends on what the subject is.

my eyes
i'm a realist

Ok, so too many books to mention. Bastard out of Carolina, by Dorthey Allison, The bell jar by sylvia plath
I don't watch tv very much. It's on for background when I sleep.
My taste in music is very eclectic. Just about anything goes for me with very few exceptions.
Flavor and taste changes often. I love to explore new tastes, flovors and will try just about anything once.

1. Good friends/family
2. My 2 cats
3. A good book
4. Good music
5. seeing the ocean, hearing the waves crashing on shore. LOVE IT!
6. Coffee. Gotta have it.

I spend alot of time thinkin about my mom right now. I miss her so much. I also spend alot of time thinking about the fate of our country and lifestyles.
About the expectations that everyone has of you. About the expectations that i have of others as well. About living up to the expectations that i have for myself.
I wonder if I will be succesful in acheving my goals and living by my principles to the best of my ability.
I think about others who are less fourtunate than I am and i wonder where all the help has gone. That as a sociity have be become selfish?
There is so much more that i think about as well. it depends on alot of different things.

good lord. This changes weekly for me. I'm either working, out with friends, hanging w family or just chilling at home. Just depends on my mood.

Like everyone else in the world, I am my own worst enemy.
If i get to know you then maybe i'll tell ya more. ;)

you should message me if you are an honest person. If you know what the true meaning of friendship is. If you would like to know more about me cause i can be very vague when it comes to filling these things out. I'm always open to meeting new people. But, if you are in a commited relationship, married or anything of the sort then please do not contact me.