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30 New York, NY Cis Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer

Cis Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:51am
Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Middle Eastern, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Swedish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Critical thinker.

Lover of puns.


My own biggest critic.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to balance different aspects of myself, most commonly the "ambitious me" who want to excel and do a lot of hard work and the "childish me" who is somewhat of a hedonist and wants to "live the life" and play all the time.
Both are important and deserve their due.

Riding bicycle, wall climbing, playing squash.

Studying Swedish.

Cooking and baking.


Helping Spotify deliver free music to people, hopefully making them happy and turning the world into a better place in the process.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and communication.


Calling out on bullshit.

Making my friends laugh (at the very least at me if not with me :)

Also less important things such as Math, logic and rational thinking (although those help all of the above)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My cool T-Shirt

That my name is pronounced differently that what they have thought.

Eloquence (or at at least me attempting eloquence)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Podcasts (entertaining):
Welcome to Nightvale, Thrilling Adventure Hour

Hardcore History, Invisibilia, Partially Examined Life

Books (series):
Song of Ice and Fire, Dune, Amber (Although it's funny that recently I've been reading a lot of Karlsson, Alfons and Pippi)

Books (singles):
Any Discworld novel, Stories of Your Life and Others, Ender's Game

Neil Gaiman, Ursula K. Le Guin, Robert A. Heinlein

/r/comics, /r/bestof, /r/firstworldanarchists

It used to be that /r/twoxchromosomes was included of the list, but since it became default, it has really gone downhill... T__T

Sandman, Order of the Stick (I have them all hardcover, so I allow myself to put it here), Scott Pilgrim vs. the World

The Oatmeal, Sinfest, XKCD

Music: (changes frequently)
The Fratellis, Dresden Dolls (and Amanda Fucking Palmer), FirstAidKit

Food: I'm an omnomnomnivore but three favorites are:
Avocados, Tomatoes, Mangos

Movies: (changes frequently)
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Flight of Dragons (childhood nostalgy), The Prestige.

TV Shows:
House of Cards, The Walking Dead, Parks and Recreation
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Others to care for.

2. The rush of wind as I ride my bicycle really really fast

3. Physically exhausting my body with various activities

4. Soaking in a hot bath from time to time after being particularly physically exhausted (or if I've got the blues)

5. Cooking and eating delicious food, preferably at the company of friends.

6. The satisfaction of solving a challenging problem after dealing with it for a long time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature. I'm a fan and a student of it. It fascinates me daily.

How to better communicate with people.

Feminism and some hard questions it raises in relationships and life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking for the following week, hosting dinner with friends, playing boardgames, watching a movie, drinking mead
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really scared to get lost.
I used to get lost just because I feared getting lost.
Smarphone + GoogleMaps has made my life better.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should definitely message me if you think that this is amusing:

Q: What is brown and sticky?
A: A stick