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lost_dm

29 M Stockholm, Sweden

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:55am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
An advanced student of inter-personal communication (thanks, Cliff Pervocracy!)

Feminist in the making.

Strive to be an ally.

While the world is far from perfect, I try to at least make my own
environment equal, respectful and safe for everyone.

Love solving problems, critical thinking and am not afraid to introspect and change my opinions if necessary.

My own biggest critic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying Swedish very intensely (sex timmar på SFI, 1.5 timmar på en privat kurs, 1 tim språkutbyte varje vecka. Också läsa barnböcker och tittar svenska teve :)

Ideally, I'd like to use my spare time to do social things with people - be it something engaging like cooking food together (and eating it), dancing, cycling etc - or just hang out and have fika ^_^

I really love to ride bicycle and cook / bake. I'm happy Sweden has so many national food days - it gives me a lot of accuses ^_^

I also have some geeky hobbies including board games and Starcraft 2.

Job-wise: "Jack-of-all-trades, master of few" software engineer in the field of DevOps.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating with people. I'm a good listener who looks for the nuances - I'm trying to confirm that I what I think the other person means and how they feel match reality by asking them. I'm very careful not to cross personal boundaries and space by asking for consent
I strive to be transparent and honest about what I want/feel.
I perceive confusion and misunderstandings as a source of many problems and I try hard to eliminate those.

Making my friends laugh, even on account of myself if need be.

I'm an awesome friend. Ask any one of my friends (Note that they might be biased).

Also less important things such as Math, logic and rational thinking (although those help the former)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll answer this personality-wise which is more interesting:

I would have to say that I come of as a calculated person. People notice that I think about what I'm gonna say and how exactly I'm gonna say it.

"The different between the right words and the almost-right words is the difference between lightning and lightning bug"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
To avoid making this too crowded with name-dropping, I'll just pick three titles which are among my favourites for each category.

Books (series):
Song of Ice and Fire, Dune, Amber (Although it's funny that recently I've been reading a lot of Karlsson, Alfons and Pippi)

Books (singles):
Any Discworld novel, Stories of Your Life and Others, Ender's Game

Authors:
Neil Gaiman, Ursula K. Le Guin, Robert A. Heinlein

Comics:
Sandman, Order of the Stick (I have them all hardcover, so I allow myself to put it here), Scott Pilgrim vs. the World

Webcomics:
The Oatmeal, Sinfest, XKCD

Music: (changes frequently)
The Fratellis, Dresden Dolls (and Amanda Fucking Palmer), FirstAidKit

Food (I'm an omnomnomnivore) but three favorites are:
Avocados, Tomatoes, Mangos

Movies: (changes frequently)
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Flight of Dragons (childhood nostalgy), The Prestige.

TV Shows:
House of Cards, The Walking Dead, Brooklyn Nine-Nine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'll just state six important things

1. Human interaction and touch (I <3 Cuddles)

2. The rush of wind as I ride my bicycle really really fast

3. Soaking in a hot-tub for the better part of an hour when I feel down

4. Walking out in nature, even if the weather is terrible, swimming outdoors on every sane oppertunity.

5. Cooking and eating delicious food, preferably with a large company of friends.

6. The satisfaction of solving a challenging problem after dealing with it for a long time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Swedish language.

Human nature. I'm a fan and a student of it. It fascinates me daily.

How to better communicate with people.

Feminism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fredagsmys!

Although ideally I have arranged friends to come over and cook dinner together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really scared to get lost.

Sometimes, I get lost just because I have a panic attack because I fear getting lost, and I start making irrational choices and taking random turns and directions.

Smarphone + GoogleMaps has made my life good.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should always message me. Especially if you this far :)
I'd love to hear from you ^_^

Even if you decided not to message me - send me a message telling me why (wonder if anyone gonna follow through with that)