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lost_dm

29 Stockholm, Sweden Cis Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer

Cis Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 6:49am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Geek. Ethical non-monogamist.
Problem solver.

Critical thinker who is not afraid to introspect and change his opinions if necessary.

Feminist in the making. An ally.
While the world is far from perfect, I try to at least make my own environment equal, respectful and safe for everyone.

My own biggest critic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recently discovered the wonderful world of podcasts. Now listens to them at any otherwise "dead" time.

Sometimes I am in a social mood at which point I would prefer to do anything with human interaction: Dancing, playing, cooking/eating (a great bond-building activity) or just hang out.

Sometimes I am an introvert and would prefer to remain isolated in my inner world with a good book, podcast. video game or just my thoughts.

Studying Swedish.

I really love to ride bicycle - especially when it is sunny, especially in the forest.

Cooking and baking. I'm happy Sweden has so many national food days - it gives me a lot of excuses ^_^

Playing boardgames.

"Jack-of-all-trades, master of few" software engineer in the field of DevOps.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener who looks for the nuances - I'm trying to confirm that I what I think the other person means and how they feel match reality by asking them.

I'm very careful not to cross personal boundaries and space by asking for consent (in anything, not just physical intimacy)

I strive to be transparent and honest about what I want/feel.
I perceive confusion and misunderstandings as a source of many problems and I try hard to eliminate those.

Making my friends laugh, even on account of myself if need be.

I'm an awesome friend. Ask any one of my friends (Note that they might be biased).

Also less important things such as Math, logic and rational thinking (although those help the the above)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Shyness, baldness, desperate attempts at eloquence, no sense of color matching (I am colorblind) and if I am on a good day - intelligence (emotional and the less important kind).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Podcasts (entertaining):
Welcome to Nightvale, Thrilling Adventure Hour

Podcasts(Educational):
Hardcore History, Invisibilia, Partially Examined Life

Books (series):
Song of Ice and Fire, Dune, Amber (Although it's funny that recently I've been reading a lot of Karlsson, Alfons and Pippi)

Books (singles):
Any Discworld novel, Stories of Your Life and Others, Ender's Game

Authors:
Neil Gaiman, Ursula K. Le Guin, Robert A. Heinlein

Subreddits:
/r/comics, /r/bestof, /r/firstworldanarchists

It used to be that /r/twoxchromosomes was included of the list, but since it became default, it has really gone downhill... T__T

Comics:
Sandman, Order of the Stick (I have them all hardcover, so I allow myself to put it here), Scott Pilgrim vs. the World

Webcomics:
The Oatmeal, Sinfest, XKCD

Music: (changes frequently)
The Fratellis, Dresden Dolls (and Amanda Fucking Palmer), FirstAidKit

Food: I'm an omnomnomnivore but three favorites are:
Avocados, Tomatoes, Mangos

Movies: (changes frequently)
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Flight of Dragons (childhood nostalgy), The Prestige.

TV Shows:
House of Cards, The Walking Dead, Parks and Recreation
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'll just state six important things

1. Human interaction and touch (I <3 Cuddles)

2. The rush of wind as I ride my bicycle really really fast

3. Soaking in a hot bath for the better part of an hour when I feel down

4. Walking out in nature, even if the weather is terrible, swimming outdoors on every sane opportunity.

5. Cooking and eating delicious food, preferably with a large company of friends.

6. The satisfaction of solving a challenging problem after dealing with it for a long time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Swedish language.

Human nature. I'm a fan and a student of it. It fascinates me daily.

How to better communicate with people.

Feminism and some hard questions it raises in relationships and life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking for the following week, hosting dinner with friends, playing boardgames, watching a movie, drinking mead
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really scared to get lost.

Sometimes, I get lost just because I have a panic attack because I fear getting lost, and I start making irrational choices and taking random turns and directions.

Smarphone + GoogleMaps has made my life good.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* It's Tuesday between 16:00 - 20:00 or Saturday 10:00 - 13:00

* We engage in similar interests/hobbies and you think it will be cool to do so together in some way

* You like me so far! I am always happy to surround myself with people who like me, and for some reason I tend to like them back.

* I sent you a message first. I probably want to hear back, even if it is "not interested". I am aware though of the problem where some people are flooded with messages and it is unreasonable to expect an answer. I do not feel like you owe me anything and will not take offense if you do not reply. Nor will I keep sending you messages in a creepy/stalking fashion - I consider that harassment.