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33 F Herndon, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
May 11, 2007
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese, Spanish, German

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My self-summary
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I'm an adventuress above all. I want to have an interesting life. I will talk to almost anyone once. I read a lot and love trivia, though I don't collect tons of trivia on any one genre. (For instance, I can tell you many things about China, wher I have never been, but remember few details about the X-Files, a show I watched religiously.) My IM ettiquette is terrible here. Sorry, can't be helped.

I'm a gamer geek. I listen to classic rock, country rock, hard rock but I'm not really into music. I'm a fearless pagan who will try any ritual (almost) or go to allegedly haunted sites at particularly haunted times. I wouldn't be pagan if I didn't like conspiracy theories so much. It's easier and more fun for me to talk about conspiracy theories than spirituality.

I went to college in Germany for 3 years (classes in english so my German is limited to ordering food) and then 2 in DC. I hate DC. Now I go to online classes. I may never finish with school! I am pretty embarassed about my job right now and am desperately seeking a new one. (It would be less desperate if I didn't get paid so much. Then I could just take something else, but as it is I don't want to take a pay cut.)

And here are my interests from livejournal! (Because that is how I think the search function here works.) What, you want me to put all this in sentences?!!

chaos, costume, counterterrorism, crowley, demonic dungeons, enlightenment, espionage, evil, exploring, fighter chick, fishnet, folklore, gaming, geeking out, goth, haunted, hedgewitch, herbs, knotwork, LARP, legend, magick, medieval, mind control, money, nobility, occult, ocean, otherkin (I am NOT an otherkin!! Or a FURRY. So don't ask me about that CSI episode, I haven't seen it.), patricia mckillip, psychics, sca, secret weapons, self-sufficiency, servitors, sex, sorcery, spells, spies, stamina, subliminal messages, sword and board, swords, tanith lee, thoughtforms, tim powers, trees, urban legends, wars, weapons, werewolves, wilderness, witchcraft, witches' brew, world domination,

and more just for here:

flogging, flogging molly, BDSM, S&M, kill them all, rage, inhuman, dexter,

My nickname is Never and sometimes that's how I sign my e-mail.

I am paradoxical, independent, and spontaneous
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy LARP locally. I'm a bit of a goth wannabe, and I intend to go out to more bars as soon as my schedule lets me.

I'm a swordswoman in the SCA at Ponte Alto. I tend to fantasize about violence, not sex. I like sex, but it's not always on my mind like violence is. If I thought about sex instead of I'd be one frustrated woman.

I'm working. Where are all the 18 to 35 year olds? I'll come to anything I think might be entertaining. I throw parties too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at being myself. Sometimes I'm pretty good at being somebody else. I love to read, garden (especially herbs) and ride my bicycle. Magick. Debate. Knowing things like current events.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Dark brown, deep-set eyes that have a lost look to them. Why do I always look lost? I don't know. I don't FEEL lost. Next, probably the voice since it reflects my personality and my feelings at the time. Sometimes I have a very low but melodious voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Science fiction and fantasy. No, I'm not a Trekkie. I've read a lot of other stuff too since when I want to know about something I pick up a book and slog through whatever I can find on it. Best books right now...anything by Tanith Lee and Kushiel's Dart not the whole Kushiel series. Obscure stuff. Heinlein. Movies: Boondock Saints, Gilgamesh, Devil Lady, Helsing not Van Helsing, Kiddy Grade Music: Rolling Stones, Disturbed, Three Days Grace, Evanescence Foods: sushi, coffee, tea, bubble tea, cherries
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Violence. Yes, sometimes it disturbs me the amount of time I spend thinking about violence. Usually it's the kind of violence where somebody is tied up or there is a hostage situation. Let's not over-analyze this.

I also think about my future. The environment. Zombie invasions, but I guess with that we're back to daydreaming. I think I would enjoy a zombie invasion up until my arms got tired.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are no typical Friday nights.

Probably out with friends. Possibly staying in, cooking Asian food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not willing to admit anything very private here until I get an idea of who is on OkCupid. Oh, and that I need to get laid.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to talk. Or if you're a headhunter wanting to offer me employment. If you have a problem or you want to ask if a book is good. Things like that. Or if you want to date or talk about the occult, or if you think you already know me. Or if you want to know what it all means.