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tactile, introspective, and deeply cynical

My self-summary Propose an edit

i'm dreamy and music-obsessed. i like to pretend i'm open minded, but in reality i'm hopelessly cynical and opinionated, and liable to shout when anyone disagrees with my libertarian views.. but apart from that i'm lovely, honest!

i try to write, read frequently, play guitar badly, and make horrible electronic music. i'm a cybergoth, so i'm usually wearing black and looking like i just stumbled out of a dystopian future.

i'm in an open relationship with wackybutton. we live together in north london.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

i spend horrifying amounts of time staring at computer screens. i work for an online marketing agency, which allows me to put my degree in ancient history to extensive use. at weekends i like to wander round art galleries, museums, clothes shops, or parks. i can often be found in goth clubs, either hiding in dark corners or attempting to dance to bleep, depending on circumstances/substances.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

being quiet. geeking out over anything containing microchips. cuddling. thinking too much.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

that i'm wearing ineptly applied makeup.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

a) brave new world, stardust, fear and loathing in las vegas, the castle, gormenghast, breakfast of champions, jonathan strange and mr norrell, crime and punishment, the sandman, sherlock holmes stories, american psycho, the book thief.

b) mulholland drive, amelie, spirited away, david cronenberg's crash, closer, punch drunk love, eyes wide shut, a very long engagement, the barbarian invasions, fear and loathing in las vegas, the prestige, grave of the fireflies, garden state, in bruges, happiness of the katakuris, fire walk with me, bad education, v for vendetta, existenz.

i rate the films i see here.

c) ebm, electronica, futurepop, electro metal, hard trance, idm, neoclassical, neofolk, synthpop

my last.fm profile.

d) sushi, french cuisine, just about anything so long as it doesn't contain mushrooms or blue cheese.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

having music and a book with me wherever i go. my macs. spending time with people i can be myself around. being in cities at night. my amazing girlfriend. daydreams.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

oh, everything... how much i miss wackybutton (when she's away at university) things that will never happen. the shambolic state of my country of residence. sex and drugs and futurepop. what to wear.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

playing where the darker kids play.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

i shave everywhere. even my arms.

You should message me if Propose an edit

you're articulate, and we're interested in similar things.

and i'm hopeless at initiating conversations, so i'm far more likely to be able to respond intelligently to a message than a woo :)

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lostinthecity: 3081 questions

Ethnicity
N/A
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn't matter
Education
Graduated from
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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