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lotus_unfolding

26 / F / Bisexual / Single

Wichita, Kansas

Her Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Summarizing myself is such a tricky business. I love to sit around with friends and discuss the things we're learning about ourselves, sexuality, books, religion, gender, dreams, life, the universe and, y'know, everything.

I am fascinated by faith and religion. I suppose I identify as a spiritual atheist. I received a Field Studies degree in Religion for my undergrad. I believe that all religions contain wisdom and truths and I enjoy contemplating the ways that faith and belief affect our daily lives.

I'm also queer. I don't identify as bisexual because it seems to communicate that there are only two distinct genders for me to be attracted to, while I'm often attracted to people who are gender-benders, trans, etc.

I also adore the outdoors. And trees. Oh man, I love trees.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working in customer service and enjoy it, though I don't want to do it forever. I'm looking into getting my master's in counseling.

Generally in my life, I'm aiming to enjoy every moment, be generous, be kind, live with passion and intentionality, and to leave this place better than I found it.
I’m really good at
-finding the good in a tough situation
-over-analyzing
-hugs
-being silly and a little ridiculous
-listening
-introspection
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I really enjoy dystopian novels, sc-fi and fantasy. I also enjoy reading about religion and spirituality. The Dispossessed, The Hunger Games, The Ender series, A Wrinkle in Time, When Things Fall Apart

Movies: I like most movies, but my favorites are usually the ones that invite me to examine my life. To End All Wars, The Fountain, Life of Pi, Life in a Day

Food: I'm especially partial to sushi and Indian food, but I'll eat almost anything.
The six things I could never do without
Stimulating conversation
Community
The outdoors
Wonder
Silliness
Cuddly blankets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ways that thoughts and reality interact, how incredible people are, my to-do list (that I'm generally putting off)
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling at home with a book or movie or out for drinks with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a dream of someday owning an aviary with lots of beautiful and tame birds. I would love to have it open to the public so other people could enjoy them as well. I currently only have one bird, but this is *so* going to happen.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to get a beverage and shoot the shit, take a walk through a park or museum, or if you think we'd click!