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lotusinblue

36 / F / straight / Single

Cambridge, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
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Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
—
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am gracious, tenacious, and magically delicious.

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My Self-Summary

Smart, independent gal here who generally has her shit together. Open, warm and fun, and generous with said shit. I have remarkable, sustaining friendships. But, I'm itching to meet new people since I seem to have a well-worn path in this town.

What else can I tell you?

I'm sarcastic, spunky, and not afraid of being silly.

I'm sensual, and affectionate and love touch. I purr like a kitty cat.

I care about my work and feel incredibly fortunate to have a job that engages and challenges me, can be fun, and also allows me a lot of flexibility and freedom. I've traveled a fair bit, for work and pleasure. I have family and friends around the world and take advantage of it.

I make a mighty fine cheese plate. Life is too short to eat bad cheese.

What I’m doing with my life

Learning the difference between a groove and a rut.

I’m really good at

Scrabble and crossword puzzles. Laughing. Cooking. Singing like a rockstar in the car. Making people feel appreciated, welcome and comfortable.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair -- curly and lots of it!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Does it really matter? Are you going to decide to contact me based on this? Are relationships built upon a shared appreciation of [insert name of obscure or hip band]?

I love music across genres. I like to be exposed to new things, and to mix things up. I'm regularly surprised by what (and who) I am attracted to.

I love food--eating it, preparing it, learning where it comes from. I care about the relationships between people and food, and the way people relate with food. Food sustains more than our bodies.

The six things I could never do without

Coffee. Wine. Music. My down comforter. Fun socks. Elephants.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I'm going to have for dinner, or what might be a fun new recipe to try. Where I'd like to travel. Dreams from the night before. My nieces. How it is that my house always seems in need of cleaning. What new projects I'd like to get involved with at work. What other people might be thinking about.

On a typical Friday night I am

Meeting friends at the neighborhood bar, and taking it from there...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like my mashed potatoes with the skins on.

You should message me if

You can laugh with and be laughed at.

You can take turns teaching and being taught.

You believe that silly and sexy are not mutually exclusive.

You want to hang out with someone in a Perfect Day kind of way.

You like to tell and listen to stories.

Or, if you like cheese.

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