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kind hearted, open minded, and music lover

My self-summary Propose an edit

Kind-hearted, free-spirited, music lovin',open minded compassionate and passionate woman! I like hangin w/ my 4 year old son, going to live shows, camping, hiking, cookouts, country drives, thirft stores and more!!!!!!!!!!

I see life in a different light than others. I'm pretty optimistic. I notice things some don't. I like nature. Sunsets, sunrises, mountains, the ocean, but more of a mountain Mama. I have a good sense of wonder or maybe I just over analyse a lot. Why things are the way the are or people are the way the are. I suppose I just try to get a better understanding instead of being too judgemental.

I love to surround myself with kind, genuine artistic beings! I am known to be blunt and say what's on my mind. I am pretty out-going, but I can be shy @ first. I feel communication and honesty are great traits to have. We should skip all of the bullshit of pretending to be someone we are not or try and protect others from who we really are. It's best to be who you are and everything will fall into place from there weather it be a negative or a positve. I feel most negatives turn into postives eventually.

I am a short, green-eyed curvy girl.

My profile makes me seem really boring. I feel much more exciting in person.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Oh! What am I doing with my life? Well I'm evaluating and transitioning into a different spectrum! Learning from the past and attemping to move forward in a positive direction. Seeing things in a new light. Other than that just trying to be the best Mom I know how to be.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Being a good friend and listening! I can give a good massage for an amatuer! I can make a good vegetable soup! Can hold a good conversation. :)

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My eyes or my breast. Maybe my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Movies:7 faces of Dr. Lao, Walk the Line, Lord of the Rings (all of them)!

Music:Love all kinds of music except New country, gangsta rap, screaming metal or all of the top 40 trendy crap!!!!!!!! I like Blues, bluegrass, blue note, classic rock, indie rock, Rock~n~roll! Some punk! Reggae, Gypsy and 50's, 60's, some 70's and 80's!

Food: Thai, Mexican, Japanese, Carribean!!!

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My kid
Air
Water
Food
Music
Sun

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

my kid, music,work (unfortunately), those I love, the earth, different cultures, diffrent places, people in general

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Hanging with my son or friends!

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Well, it wouldn't be private if I were to share!

You should message me if Propose an edit

If you have an open mind or if you have common interests as I do! No offense if I do not message you back. If I notice that we have no common interests, most likely I will not message you back.

~Turn offs:
~Men that have a photo with a girl unless you are pusuring an additional partner with the current partner you have and are honest about it.(makes you seem like "hey, look @ me with this hot chic" and if she is a tid bit older you come off as a Mama's boy.)
~ Guys that wear sun visors (what a dork and not the good kind of dork either) or just sports a singular mustache (this screams 70's porn star/used car salesman/complete scumbag). Other than just the stache, I totally dig facial hair.

~BTW, I'm not here for cyber sex or naughty instant messaging. Not a prude, just like to get to a know a person better before I share any intimate details about myself. Also, I like to know who I am talking to. Pics and info on your profile are a must!

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lotuslover7: 292 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus and it's fun to think about
Education
Job
N/A
Income
N/A
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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