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38 • Encino, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–37
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Other, and very serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and dislikes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
I'm still very much a normal guy -- I've started businesses, I go to the gym, I listen to 90s R&B -- but now I try to remember that life itself isn't what matters so much as what life does to open my heart. (The fact that this sounds more enlightened than fruity to me is a sure sign of my progress).
And while I'm remarkably happy leading a pretty unremarkable life -- I've done both, I know the difference -- a sweet, playful, open presence in my world would be a wonderful bonus. Of course, I could always go get one of those today; but they'd pee on the floor and chew the couch, which I'm betting you've already outgrown. At least when you haven't been drinking.
After writing a couple of (published) books, starting a training business, launching a baby clothes brand (with my mom) and creating a line of novelty apparel, today I'm hustling in the advertising industry, learning video editing, and ...*wince*... shopping a script. But this one's different, I'm telling you!
More my speed: simple / clean / healthy cooking @ home or little holes-in-the-wall (especially sushi), followed by live jazz, ice skating, improv shows -- recently took a class at UCB and am going back for seconds -- readings & lectures, throwback hip-hop nights, movie marathons (Will Ferrell and fart jokes always appreciated), and dancing like a spaz to new wave 80s. Which is on purpose, mind you; I can move with uncommonly good rhythm for a white boy.
As far as TV goes, Netflix is my homeboy (can't believe I missed "Chuck" before), and book-wise I generally have a few in rotation. But I'm trying to be more of a "doer" these days vs. the theorist UCLA trained me to be. Apart from books about stuff like prison and heat stroke, I'm finding it's usually better this way.
2. Silliness and nonsense
3. A passion
4. Harmony at home
5. Sunny days and morning coffee
*#6 applies only to one woman, who may or may not be you. And, statistically speaking, probably not you. But say hi anyway :)
I'm also probably at the house, to be honest, and especially if there's a Kings game on (that started at age 12). I'm not a bar scene guy -- not even in college -- and my close friends are married / with kids, which should be self-explanatory for you. Truth is, I'm pretty content being alone; maybe even to a fault. This should do wonders for your jealousy issues.
Or more specifically, you're a girl who's genuinely fulfilled by the simple things in life, and who sees the greater beauty, meaning, and purpose of this big spinning rock we're on. You want to come explore with me -- our inside worlds just as much as outside -- and then come back home and buy groceries. If we happen to go to Europe (which we'd probably happen to), that's gravy; the real joy comes from the growth of our spirits, which can be an every-moment reality if you pay attention... That, and you also like to wear those little boy short things around the house. Drives me nuts.
Oh, and I'm closer to 5'11", but rounded down for honesty. In the place where you get least rewarded for being honest.
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