Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


62 Prospect Heights, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 51–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:53am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would like to spend time with someone where each of us feel "that chemistry" with each other. Where eventually both consider the other special. Intimacy (closeness, etc.) I found is important to me and cannot compromise it. I feel I know myself and believe the future holds in it the excitement of the unknown. Knowing what is ahead though, has its own advantages.

I feel I'm a very lucky and fortunate person and look on the bright side of life. To those I love and care for, I believe & have been told can feel that love and care coming right through to them. My goal though, is to have fun with the one i'm dating, the details will sort as we still feel the attraction. I feel I know how to make that one lady feel desired and special both emotionally and physically as we move along.

I'm loyal, love my two grown children and work at keeping a close relationship with each. I even maintain a good rapport with my X. As far fetched as it may seem, I meditate, have depth of self, am in touch with my feelings and i believe my karma is in plus territory. i usually can make you laugh and both of us enjoy it. I never charge for it. lol. I don't even want to think how awkward it would be If you didn't laugh or smile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a certified kitchen and bath designer. I spend most of my time though, being a Sr Specialist working for a law firm helping people with their options facing possible foreclosure.

I consider officiating an important & serious passion of mine. it's my hobby/ avocation. I look forward every year to have the opportunity through my association to give speeches, talks, seminars, and classes to my colleagues, but mainly H S kids starting out. i enjoy participating, officiating, and viewing sports & sporting events. All these activities help keep me in top physical shape, mentally sharp, and feeling good too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
happen to win a lot of trinkets and stuffed animals at carnivals and festivals. So far, my age has not been guessed within seven years. Did i just jinx myself? It's mainly in the genes but as I mentioned, i do work at keeping myself in good shape.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll add yours to my survey answers when you tell me the first thing you noticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i enjoy pretty much all types of music. from R & B and classic rock, to classical and all in between. my favorite is definitely the "the blues". I enjoy festivals, going to see cover bands, tribute bands, and i especially enjoy dancing when the venue allows it. it would be a huge plus if you did too. (more about that when i see you) Comedy clubs, plays, musicals, road trips, travel... really most anything interesting or liked by "the one" will be enjoyed by

I don't care much for fiction at all. I definitely enjoy different types of non-fiction. I've also found that my personality and interests in general, are usually broad enough to over lap most other people's interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My basic freedoms
A love/romantic (it's who I am) connection & a proper environment to express it
The closeness i presently share with my two children
The innate ability to connect & communicate with others
My faith and the part my religion & spirituality relate to it
Wonderful memories of the past, the excitement of what the future holds, and the effect of the present
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Once we meet, i hope it will be an awful lot about you. In the mean time these thoughts have crossed my mind once or twice:

Ladies, putting it all together, what I’m looking for is an attractive, toned, slim or athletic type, down to earth, enjoying life but especially the simpler things, a sensuous lady with a big heart for love and who knows herself. Who amongst other things enjoys live music and dancing. Given those traits, I give to you my sincere promise to do my best not to disappoint and pay close attention to the things that are important to you.

One might be contemplating whether this all adds up. The one I’m looking for would think of it as simple; “Yes, that’s pretty much me”. My goal is for one not to feel limited or feel there are specifications from the above, but use it as a realistic guideline. As humans we are all different and bring many unique & wonderful attributes to the table. I have a soft touch and lips. I enjoy slow kisses with feeling and I love what makes you special and loving.

Meeting in person in my opinion far, far out weighs the written word. So ladies as soon as you possibly can let's do this; I know it’s kind of scary, but believe in a leap of faith, you have everything to gain and very little to lose. Let’s get together and see and feel if it’s right instead of thinking of what it might be or might not be. Our mutual dreaming could get us both into trouble when we think of how perfectly this match/profile would fit in our lives. Other then time, please use all you have that makes you comfortable and secure to expedite seeing someone for the very first time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
enjoying a live band with a female dance friend. great for the soul and expression.// going to a live sporting event with my buddies. (high school on up) // stay at home and catch up// or just hang.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll just have to hear it in person I guess. No, I'm sorry no details at ten. at least not on TV that is.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you feel there is a 1) match. 2) the parting of ones lips starting a smile. 3) the slightest twinge of excitement felt inside. 4) Or, if you would just plain like to.