54 Sacramento, CA
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My self-summary
This is my 2nd revision of this profile and since I believe in the power of transparency I thought I would put all the cards on the table.

It's been a few years since the divorce and I'm glad that is in the review mirror. I feel grounded in my being and hungry for new passion. Don't get me wrong, in connecting with someone new, it's about intimacy. Sex is the icing on the cake. I'm looking for someone that I can connect with deeply. Someone that can I can be vulnerable with who has the capacity to reciprocate.

I'm driven by creative expression while questioning my purpose. I will do whatever it takes but question what the F' I'm doing. Does this ever get any easier? Probably not. It's all part of the human condition. Something we all share.

I have experienced the feeling of lightness when we surrender to what is and that is a perspective that I cultivated in my daily experience. I supported the flow of peace and joy in everyone's life. I know we all have our own perspectives and belief systems and if yours brings you joy and ease I support that.

I am a devoted father of two teenage boys that I have every other week. I think I am doing a good job. They seem happy and well-adjusted. They are creative and free-spirited much like their father.

I have been putting funds away with the vision of traveling to Asia for 3 weeks. As soon as I can connect with a lover that is up for a romantic adventure I am ready to start making plans.

Enough about me. What is it that I have to offer you? I am compassionate, empathetic, and sensitive. Sometimes I wonder if I am sensitive to a fault. I am a good listener. I believe that I have the capacity to meet you where you are without judgment. It is my desire to empower you to be the best person you can be, as I am looking for the same in a mate. I may push you to to your edge, call you on your BS, but you can relax knowing that I won't abandon you.

I think that about does it, for now. If any of this inspires you, please reach out.
What I’m doing with my life
Striving to live life on the creative edge.
I’m really good at
Being creative and empowering others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really good at listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have been reading a lot of material around raising consciousness,
like Eckart Tolle and David Deida for example. When it comes to
music I tend to be a rocker. I love the blues and like to get my
groove on with house music. I can't imagine life without Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Connecting with nature, family, dinner with friends, experiencing art, road trips, and rockin' out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Too much stuff, then catching that and getting present with the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chillin' with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am a romantic. Passionate and committed. To all things sensual. To that which brings us joy.
You should message me if
If you were openhearted, brave and willing to take intimacy to a whole new level.

You should probably not message me if you are homophobic, ultraconservative, religious right, have a problem with people smoking pot, or feel you are justified in imposing your views and values on others.