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53 Sacramento, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 24
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Art / Music / Writing

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My self-summary
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This is my 2nd revision of this profile and since I believe in the power of transparency I thought I would put all the cards on the table.

It's been a couple of years since the divorce and I'm glad that is in the review mirror. I feel grounded in my being and hungry for new passion. Don't get me wrong, in connecting with someone new, it's about intimacy. Sex is the icing on the cake. I'm looking for someone that I can connect with deeply. Someone that can I can be vulnerable with who has the capacity to reciprocate.

I'm driven by creative expression while questioning my purpose. I will do whatever it takes but question what the F' I'm doing. Does this ever get any easier? Probably not. It's all part of the human condition. Something we all share.

I have experienced the feeling of lightness when we surrender to what is and that is a perspective that I cultivated in my daily experience. I supported the flow of peace and joy in everyone's life. I know we all have our own perspectives and belief systems and if yours brings you joy and ease I support that.

I am a devoted father of two teenage boys that I have every other week. I think I am doing a good job. They seem happy and well-adjusted. They are creative and free-spirited much like their father.

I have been putting funds away with the vision of traveling to Asia for 3 weeks. As soon as I can connect with a lover that is up for a romantic adventure I am ready to start making plans.

Enough about me. What is it that I have to offer you? I am compassionate, empathetic, and sensitive. Sometimes I wonder if I am sensitive to a fault. I am a good listener. I believe that I have the capacity to meet you where you are without judgment. It is my desire to empower you to be the best person you can be, as I am looking for the same in a mate. I may push you to to your edge, call you on your BS, but you can relax knowing that I won't abandon you.

I am looking to create an enlightened relationship and want to attract a woman who has a mutual desire. Someone that has the strength, clarity, and vision to communicate her needs. Someone is willing to put it out there. Believe me, I know we all struggle with feeling like we are not enough. Let me tell you right now, you are. As am I. Ultimately I do believe we deserve our hearts desire. Most of the time we just need to get out of our own way.

I think that about does it, for now. If any of this inspires you, please reach out.
What I’m doing with my life
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Striving to live life on the creative edge.
I’m really good at
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Being creative and empowering others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm really good at listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have been reading a lot of material around raising consciousness,
like Eckart Tolle and David Deida for example. When it comes to
music I tend to be a rocker. I love the blues and like to get my
groove on with house music. I can't imagine life without Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Connecting with nature, family, dinner with friends, experiencing art, road trips, and rockin' out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much stuff, then catching that and getting present with the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin' with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I am a romantic. Passionate and committed. To all things sensual. To that which brings us joy.
You should message me if
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If you were openhearted, brave and willing to take intimacy to a whole new level.

You should probably not message me if you are homophobic, ultraconservative, religious right, have a problem with people smoking pot, or feel you are justified in imposing your views and values on others.