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44 Brockton, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–63
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 27
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Big Sigh! I don't have anything to offer right now, but I didn't want to be unfindable for too long, so I'm back.

Well, we tried. Yes I am poly, but my sweetheart isn't and he makes it too difficult to get to know anyone, so we put everything on hold for a while. I played monogamous couple for a while. It was okay, but ...I miss having multiple partners. Le Sigh.

Also I have had some health issues. Nothing majorly major, mostly a stomach bug that was going around. But, in taking so long to recover, I realized that I could be a lot healthier. I gained a lot of weight in the last 2 years (I'm heavier than in these pictures now!) and now I need to focus on my health.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I AM a cog in a wheel by day. Don't work on my novel enough by night. Mainly, I blame Netflix.

Though who is to say I am not watching all documentaries? Except I am not.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Nothing apparently. Well, lapping, but this is hardly the time or the place ... I need a saleable skill.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It used to be my smile. Now, I don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently re-watching House of Cards
the new season of Survivor.

I've read about 16 young adult science fiction / fantasy / dystopian books since January. Some of them are really terrible, but some are all right.

food, I love a lot of things, especially a burger
but I am trying to eat more healthfully to whip myself into better shape. turkey burgers are pretty perfect for me.

music, eh, I bore myself now.
time to discover some new music.

books are my thing. if you let me, I'll go on and on.
Well, that and movies. I like to curl up with someone and watch those movies :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books. I have "the need to read"
the freedom to choose anything
some time to myself (except I do. but I shouldn't)
Google Play, where I can buy books for a few dollars and read them on my phone anywhere, like in bed or in the bathroom at work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how our dystopian books and movies are probably right and I should learn something useful like how to pipe water into a village or how to get the lights back on
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being confused by the latest episode of 12 Monkeys on Syfy with my sweetheart. Probably having yummy 'we-deserve-this' chicken, and letting the mental and emotional sludge of the workweek fall off onto my feet and shoes while I eat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've kept other people's secrets for so long, sometimes I don't remember who they were about...
You should message me if
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you can be patient with a sometimes cranky me. it's not constant or permanent. it's just for right now.

you want to chat about poly life

you want to play a board game with me

you want someone to watch movies with

(gasp!) You are the one who wants to come love us! and show him how wonderful polyamory can be!