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25 M Staten Island, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for companionship garnished with romance. Miss having someone. Free spirit, artist, I've chosen to live life my own way with minimal regrets. Tired of pussyfooting. Child at heart, black and white movie romantic in mind. People say I have an old soul.

The world is an ocean, and we'd do best to learn to swim

I believe in equivalent exchange.

And for the record, I have hair again.

"Remember us better than we are"

My inner woman is definitely a cross between Chelsea Wolfe and Fiona Apple.

I enjoy loud, colorful and often Japanese things. As a yang to that yin, I also enjoy dark, often melancholy things.

Prove to me you're not all so vain and callous as you guys on here are seeming to be. Makes me want to give up; luckily for me (and possibly you) I'm tenacious.

Don't be afraid of yourselves. Don't hide. Take it easy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being. Being positive most of all. Its not easy, but I'm just being there. Floating, my head like a whirlwind. My heart like an anchor. I want to live comfortably without becoming a workaholic.

Enjoying living through this experience, even though I am ultimately optimistic I'll have many existences beyond this one.

Trying to preserve my beginner's mind

I need more positive influence in my life.

I love metal, punk, hardcore...soft spot for female vocalists and ballads and crooners...old timey sounding music. Noisy, chaotic music, cute music...slow, heavy, dirty music It's a diversity I embrace fully and enthusiastically.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having a good time.
Pretending I'm having a good time.
Writing poems.
Freestyle rapping.
Discussing philosophy, music, and art.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People say I'm Charlie Day (Charlie Kelly). Otherwise, my laugh, my love of strange noises and sound in general. My open mindedness about things that make most uncomfortable. My eccentric tastes in music. People have cited my jaw-line and facial structure as outstanding.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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HP Lovecraft, Tolkien, Nabokov, Haruki Murakami, Phantom of the Opera by Gaston Leroux, Madame Bovary, Marvel comics, Matt Wagner's Grendel, Dostoevsky, Nikolai Gogol, The Descent of Alette, Nightwood by Djuna Barnes, Edgar Allan Poe, Shakespeare, Dr. Faustus by Christopher Marlowe, Faust by Goethe, Waiting For Godot, May We Be Forgiven by AM Homes, R.A. Salvatore, Watchmen by Allan Moore, Brave New World, Algernon Blackwood, Chuck Palahniuk, Paradise Lost, Siddhartha by Herman Hesse, Trilogy by H.D., Henry David Thoreau, Oscar Wilde, The Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison

Breathless (About de Souffle), Buffalo '66, David Lynch films, In Bruges, The Big Lebowski, Spiderbaby, Sunset Boulevard, Down By Law, Evil Dead Trilogy, American Psycho, Girl Interrupted, Drop Dead Fred, Dark City, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, The World's End, The Dreamers, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Donnie Darko, The Shining, The Toxic Avenger, Citizen Toxie, Citizen Kane, Top Hat, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Crow, The Boondock Saints, A Clockwork Orange, The Doom Generation, Ka-Boom!, Altered States, Holy Mountain, Brother From Another Planet, Pi, Hard Candy, Running With Scissors, Casablanca, The Big Sleep, DeadAlive, The Neverending Story, Labyrinth, Ghost in the Shell, Akira, Paprika, Kaze to Ki no Uta, Ringu, Interview with the Vampire, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, The Forty Blows, Star Wars, Flash Gordon, The Day The Earth Stood Still, 12 Monkeys, The Fisher King, Into the Wild, Marx Brothers films, The Three Stooges Meet Hercules, The Company of Wolves, Stage Door, Gilda, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Cemetery Man, Monty Python films, Dogma, Clerks, Natural Born Killers, Office Space, Freaks, The Invisible Man, Night of the Living Dead, Metropolis, A Trip To The Moon, Un chien Andalou, Doctor Stranglove, Planet of the Apes, Inglorious Basterds, Battle Royale, Velvet Goldmine, Trainspotting, American Beauty, North By Northwest, Don't Be A Menace in South Central While Drinking Your Juice In The Hood, Fear and Loathing In Las Vegas, Yellow Submarine, Zombieland

Doctor Who, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Breaking Bad, Dexter, Adventure Time, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Shingeki no Kyoujin (Attack on Titan), Cowboy Bebop, Kill La Kill, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagan, Katekyoushi Hitman Reborn!, Samurai Champloo, Kuroshitsuji, Arrested Development, Workaholics, Broad City, South Park, Trigun, Hellsing, The Twilight Zone, Tales from the Crypt, Bravest Warriors, Futurama, Avatar The Last Airbender, Orange is the New Black, Carl Sagan's Cosmos

Deftones, Circa Survive, Chelsea Wolfe, Deafheaven, Baroness, Feist, Tom Waits, Crystal Castles, Death Cab for Cutie, Bat For Lashes, Nirvana, Thou, The Atlas Moth, Kvelertak, Soundgarden, Pink Floyd, Die Kreuzen, Cult of Fire, Alcest, Agalloch, Boris, Aesop Rock, Eyedea & Abilities, The Reign of Kindo, The Magnetic Fields, Depeche Mode, Neurosis, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Between the Buried and Me, Anamanaguchi, Type O Negative, Ihsahn, Minus the Bear, Silversun Pickups, Strapping Young Lad, Devin Townsend Project, Fever Ray, The Knife, Bjork, Kate Bush, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Nine Inch Nails, Glassjaw, Florence + The Machine, Sunn O))), Fair to Midland, Jesu, At the Drive-In, The Mars Volta, An Autumn for Crippled Children, And You Will Know Us by the Trail of Dead, Ride, Slowdive, The Birthday Massacre, Leviathan, Stone Temple Pilots, The Distillers, Queens of the Stone Age, Massive Attack, Billie Holiday, Frank Sinatra, Scott Walker, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Cure, Interpol, Rufus Wainwright, Lana Del Rey, Cocteau Twins, A Tribe Called Quest, Metric, The Raveonettes, Sonic Youth, Nachtmystium, Plague Bringer, Sebadoh, Team Sleep, Emperor, The Pixies, Alda, Wolves in the Throne Room, Fiona Apple, Trash Talk, Converge, Melt-Banana, Coheed and the Cambria, Alice in Chains, Pearl Jam, Creedence Clearwater Revival, The Shins, Pavement, Neutral Milk Hotel, The Dresden Dolls, Amanda Palmer, Billy Joel, The Jesus and Mary Chain, Title Fight, Arcade Fire, Rwake, David Bowie, Queen, Thin Lizzy, Jethro Tull, Summoning, Panopticon, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Moving Mountains, Kill Hannah, Blue October, Scarling., Placebo, Silversun Pickups, Smashing Pumpkins, The Sounds, Barghest, The Kills, HorrorPops, Tiger Army, Hank Williams, Johnny Cash, Social Distortion, Jimi Hendrix Experience, Bloc Party, Fugazi, Botch, Russian Circles, The Young Gods, Electric Wizard, Acid Bath, Intronaut, The Faceless, The Black Dahlia Murder, Nails, Castevet, Diamanda Galas, Ufomammut, Ryan Adams and the Cardinals, PJ Harvey, Counting Crows, Bomb the Music Industry!, SubRosa, Muse, Coldplay, Radiohead, Sublime, 311, Cypress Hill, Kanye West, Minutemen, Blue Oyster Cult, King Crimson, Hawkwind, Insect Warfare, Red Knife Lottery, The Velvet Underground, Eyehategod, Opeth, Voivod, The Church, Katatonia, Morrissey, The Smiths, Brand New, Bright Eyes, Medicine Kit, Sharon Van Etten, Swans, Bone Awl, Broadcast, Cult of Luna, Lunar Aurora, Gaza, The xx, Ministry, KMFDM, Godflesh, Joshua James, The Postal Service, Delerium, BT, Tiesto, Beirut, MGMT, Squarepusher, R.E.M, Patrick Wolf, Jawbox, Drive Like Jehu, Third Eye Blind, Gorillaz, Mindless Self Indulgence, Thelonious Monk, Elliott Smith, Ella Fitzgerald, Little Dragon, Misery Signals, Next Life, Blut aus Nord, Enslaved, Dodecahedron, Woe, Wolvhammer, Lantlos, Dead Kennedys, Amebix, Torche, Winterus, Yes, Constantines, The Gaslight Anthem, Morbid Angel, Slayer, Municipal Waste, Skeletonwitch, Touche Amore, O'Brother, Oathbreaker, Bayside, Black Sabbath, Le Tigre, The Locust, Daughters, ABBA, Kurt Vile, Venom, The Doors, Echo and the Bunnymen, Solstafir, Vaura, Gorguts, Animals As Leaders, Dredg, Porcupine Tree, Nile, Gism, Bohren and Der Club of Gore, Daft Punk, The Bloody Beetroots, Aural Vampire, The Pillows, Mouth of the Architect, Ash Borer, username: belphegoria

Guilty pleasures: Paramore, 2Chainz, Rick Ross
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, instruments, the arts, ideas, friends, beauty from every perspective
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Playing piano
How to become androgynous and pretty (more than I should probably)
Being torn between describing oneself as masculine or femme and wanting to be extremely femme.
Learning Japanese.
My inspirations/motivations
If life was like a JRPG
Mastering archery and/or swords
Gay metal/punk/hardcore guys where the fuck are you?/ Where did you go?
How do people work when they're high because I seem to have trouble doing many things when I am.
Why men treat women like another species
Tom Waits
Cool clothes
Dressing in drag.
Learning to sew.
Turning off my emotions
The universe as a whole and Carl Sagan
Why I try so hard to please people who give me nothing
How to enjoy a moment beyond the "in the moment" edification I receive from it.
Words in general.
Sexuality and sex (whoever says they don't is a liar or at the least asexual)
Mike Patton.
The Marvel universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully something interesting. Going out with friends, playing music, perhaps reading. Overall entertaining myself and enjoying the present moment for exactly what it is because I'm breathing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish I was more attractive in terms of my own standards I impose upon myself.

I'm a bit intimidated by the opposite sex.

I really like to party. Shows, get togethers, things of that nature.

I really derive the most satisfaction from making you, the people, laugh and entertained.
I really wish I could be even more direct than I already am.

I don't drive yet. Took my test thrice, failed it, have to get back on the road. IF THIS IS A PROBLEM FOR YOU I DON'T CARE, YOUR LOSS.

None of these are necessarily things I wouldn't admit to anyone; for those things I encourage you to dig a little deeper.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are an unconventional free thinker. You want to enjoy the guaranteed present. You enjoy exploring the planet. You play music. You want to listen to music and just laze around, you care about music, you are literate to a higher degree perhaps, you want a real relationship or just a good friend. If you think you can make me reevaluate my assessment of human beings. If you despise being a sheep, you always wanted to talk to a guy who believes women are the better half of the species for more than just their sex appeal, You want to cosplay with me. You play Super Smash Brothers. You like to do stuff.

Do not message me if;

You do not value philosophical conversation or intelligent discourse along with troll random humor, you can't take a joke, you are too politically correct for your own good, you never want to go out and see the world. Clingers are self explanatory.