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25 M Staten Island, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:54am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Looking for companionship garnished with romance. Miss having someone. Free spirit, artist, I've chosen to live life my own way with minimal regrets. Don't know how far I want things to go, but I'm open minded. Tired of pussyfooting. Child at heart, black and white movie romantic in mind. People say I have an old soul.

The world is an ocean, and we'd do best to learn to swim.

I believe in equivalent exchange.
What I’m doing with my life
Being. Being positive most of all. Its not easy, but I'm just being there. Floating, my head like a whirlwind. My heart like an anchor. I want to live comfortably without becoming a workaholic.

Enjoying living through this experience, even though I am ultimately optimistic I'll have many existences beyond this one.

I need more positive influence in my life.
I’m really good at
Having a good time.
Pretending I'm having a good time.
Writing poems.
Freestyle rapping.
Discussing philosophy, music, and art.
The first things people usually notice about me
People say I'm Charlie Day (Charlie Kelly). Otherwise, my laugh, my love of strange noises and sound in general. My open mindedness about things that make most uncomfortable. My eccentric tastes in music. People have cited my jaw-line and facial structure as outstanding.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
HP Lovecraft, Tolkien, Nabokov, Haruki Murakami, Phantom of the Opera by Gaston Leroux, Madame Bovary, Marvel comics, Matt Wagner's Grendel, Dostoevsky, Nikolai Gogol, The Descent of Alette, Nightwood by Djuna Barnes, Edgar Allan Poe, Shakespeare, Dr. Faustus by Christopher Marlowe, Faust by Goethe, Waiting For Godot, May We Be Forgiven by AM Homes, R.A. Salvatore, Watchmen by Allan Moore, Brave New World, Algernon Blackwood, Chuck Palahniuk, Paradise Lost, Siddhartha by Herman Hesse, Trilogy by H.D., Henry David Thoreau, Oscar Wilde, The Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison

Breathless (About de Souffle), Buffalo '66, David Lynch films, In Bruges, The Big Lebowski, Spiderbaby, Sunset Boulevard, Down By Law, Evil Dead Trilogy, American Psycho, Girl Interrupted, Drop Dead Fred, Dark City, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, The World's End, The Dreamers, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Donnie Darko, The Shining, The Toxic Avenger, Citizen Toxie, Citizen Kane, Top Hat, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Crow, The Boondock Saints, A Clockwork Orange, The Doom Generation, Ka-Boom!, Altered States, Holy Mountain, Brother From Another Planet, Pi, Hard Candy, Running With Scissors, Casablanca, The Big Sleep, DeadAlive, The Neverending Story, Labyrinth, Ghost in the Shell, Akira, Paprika, Kaze to Ki no Uta, Ringu, Interview with the Vampire, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, The Forty Blows, Star Wars, Flash Gordon, The Day The Earth Stood Still, 12 Monkeys, The Fisher King, Into the Wild, Marx Brothers films, The Three Stooges Meet Hercules, The Company of Wolves, Stage Door, Gilda, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Cemetery Man, Monty Python films, Dogma, Clerks, Natural Born Killers, Office Space, Freaks, The Invisible Man, Night of the Living Dead, Metropolis, A Trip To The Moon, Un chien Andalou, Doctor Stranglove, Planet of the Apes, Inglorious Basterds, Battle Royale, Velvet Goldmine, Trainspotting, American Beauty, North By Northwest, Don't Be A Menace in South Central While Drinking Your Juice In The Hood, Fear and Loathing In Las Vegas, Yellow Submarine, Zombieland

Doctor Who, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Breaking Bad, Dexter, Adventure Time, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Cowboy Bebop, Samurai Champloo, Kuroshitsuji, Arrested Development, Workaholics, Broad City, South Park, Trigun, Hellsing, The Twilight Zone, Tales from the Crypt, Bravest Warriors, Futurama, Avatar The Last Airbender

Deftones, Circa Survive, Townes Van Zandt, Kvelertak, For Science, Faith No More, Tom Waits, Mr. Bungle, Rufus Wainwright, The Beatles, Placebo, Elliott Smith, Fever Ray, Feist, Baroness, Opeth, Agalloch, Boris, Melvins, Blood Command, Municipal Waste, Ghoul, Torche, Russian Circles, Chelsea Wolfe, The Magnetic Fields, Bright Eyes, Death Cab for Cutie, The Birthday Massacre, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Leonard Cohen, Jesu, Swans, Joy Division, New Order, The Dresden Dolls, Amanda Palmer, The Smiths, Beirut, The Decemberists, Meshuggah, The Pixies, Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins, Type O Negative, Woods of Ypres, My Morning Jacket, Grateful Dead, No Cash, The Distillers, Queens of the Stone Age, Blue October, Sublime, 311, Radiohead, Thou, Kill Hannah, Slowdive, Deafheaven, The Cure, Cynic, Gaza, Vaura, Isis, Pink Floyd, Intronaut, Devin Townsend Project, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Crystal Castles, Massive Attack, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Kanye West, Wolves in the Throne Room, Alcest, Amesoeurs, Regina Spektor, Third Eye Blind, The Format, Fun., Fugazi, Minutemen, fIREHOSE, Jawbreaker, The Postal Service, Belle & Sebastian, The Velvet Underground, Sonic Youth, Scarling., Echo and the Bunny Men, The Doors, R.E.M, Clutch, Red Fang, The Bronx, Emperor, Lantlos, Bjork, The Flashbulb, Eluvium, Boards of Canada, X-Japan, hide, Mucc, Plastic Tree, Portishead, Tiger Army, Stone Temple Pilots, Blonde Redhead, The Fall of Troy, Addaura, Vattnet Viskar, Balance and Composure, Touche Amore, Flogging Molly, Fantomas, Tomahawk, MF Doom, Aesop Rock, Royksopp, Ryan Adams and the Cardinals, Fair to Midland, HORSE The Band, Genghis Tron, Miyavi, The Pillows, Luna Sea, Electric Wizard, Eyehategod, Acid Bath, The Matches, Counting Crows, Between the Buried and Me, King Crimson, Flower Travelin' Band, Dir en grey, The Gazette, Dinosaur Jr., Sebadoh, Black Flag, Mono, Aphex Twin, Nobuo Uematsu, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Yoko Kanno, Maximum the Hormone, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Hum, Failure, Bush, Rob Zombie, Marilyn Manson, Ministry, KMFDM, Psyclon Nine, Lightning Bolt, KEN Mode, Agoraphobic Nosbleed, Pig Destroyer, Enslaved, Bathory, Mercyful Fate, Queen, Iron Maiden, Thin Lizzy, Coheed & Cambria, Metric, Death From Above 1979, Battles, L'arc en Ciel, Animals as Leaders, Minus the Bear, The Atlas Moth, The Mars Volta, At the Drive-In, Incubus, The Gathering, Shiina Ringo, Tokyo Jihen, old Metallica, Testament, Nekromantheon, Celtic Frost, From Autumn to Ashes, the brilliant green, Folly, Andrew Bird, Bomb the Music Industry!, Blaze Foley, Daniel Johnston, Silversun Pickups, Sparklehorse, Black Sabbath, Title Fight, Foetus, Godflesh, H.I.M, Zebrahead, Cypress Hill, Katatonia, Primitive Man, Nails, His Hero is Gone, Tombs, Zola Jesus, Grimes, Elton John, Jethro Tull, Eyedea and Abilities, Kylesa, Kyuss, Morbid Angel, Pygmy Lush, Mogwai, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Butthole Surfers, Frank Sinatra, Frank Zappa, Pinback, Beck, Shiny Toy Guns, System of a Down, Cunninlynguists, Dead Kennedys, Electric Light Orchestra, Erik Satie, Frederic Chopin, Henryk Gorecki, Jimi Hendrix Experience, Gojira, Gorod, The Lonely Wild, Anamanaguchi, blink-182, opera, Gackt, Rammstein, In Flames, Dark Tranquility, The Cramps, The Replacements, Neil Young, Air, Daft Punk, Justice, N.E.RD., My Bloody Valentine, Cocteau Twins, Suzanne Vega, TM Revolution, Arvo Part, Jaga Jazzist, Thelonious Monk, Billie Holiday, Louis Armstrong, The Young Gods, Graveyard, Skeletonwitch, Amebix, Discharge username: Belphegoria

Guilty pleasures: Paramore, 2Chainz, Rick Ross
The six things I could never do without
music, instruments, the arts, ideas, friends, beauty from every perspective
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Playing piano
How to become androgynous and pretty (more than I should probably)
Why am I cursed with hair loss and too much hair everywhere else (see how my dreams and nature clash?)
Learning Japanese.
My inspirations/motivations
If life was like a JRPG
Mastering archery and/or swords
Gay metal/punk/hardcore guys where the fuck are you?/ Where did you go?
How do people work when they're high because I seem to have trouble doing many things when I am.
Why men treat women like another species
Tom Waits
Cool clothes
Dressing in drag.
Learning to sew.
Turning off my emotions
The universe as a whole and Carl Sagan
Why I try so hard to please people who give me nothing
How to enjoy a moment beyond the "in the moment" edification I receive from it.
Words in general.
Sexuality and sex (whoever says they don't is a liar or at the least asexual)
Mike Patton.
The Marvel universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully something interesting. Going out with friends, playing music, perhaps reading. Overall entertaining myself and enjoying the present moment for exactly what it is because I'm breathing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am on meds for OCD and anxiety, and they are super-effective (Pokemon references are all over the place in my world)
I am socially okay, but not amazing. I certainly can call all the attention in a room if I want to. Or I can vanish like a ghost. Depends on the day.
I really like to party. Shows, get togethers, things of that nature. Meeting new people is A LOT of fun for me.
If I sit and think too long alone I get depressed, so I try to keep myself with consistent short term goals.
I really derive the most satisfaction from making you, the people, laugh and entertained.
I really wish I could be even more direct than I already am.

I don't drive yet. Took my test thrice, failed it, have to get back on the road. IF THIS IS A PROBLEM FOR YOU I DON'T CARE, YOUR LOSS.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are an unconventional free thinker. You want to enjoy the guaranteed present. You enjoy exploring the planet. You play music. You want to listen to music and just laze around, you care about music, you are literate to a higher degree perhaps, you want a real relationship or just a good friend. If you think you can make me reevaluate my assessment of human beings. If you despise being a sheep, you always wanted to talk to a guy who believes women are the better half of the species for more than just their sex appeal, you like beards (optional I suppose). You want to cosplay with me. You play Super Smash Brothers. You like to do stuff.

Do not message me if;

You do not value philosophical conversation or intelligent discourse along with troll random humor, you can't take a joke, you are too politically correct for your own good, you never want to go out and see the world. Clingers are self explanatory.