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26 Staten Island, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So after long evaluation I'm going to finally clarify what I'm looking for. Someone who I can share my life with and be real around. Someone who mutually accepts every side of me and I of them. To hold each other afloat when we feeling like sinking. To motivate and learn from each other. Someone open minded and excited about life. Someone who can take an adventure and just as easily chill back. Someone who prefers a quiet lounge to a wild club but can just as easily go to a rock show or have night of gaming and fun. In essence someone who will give me the chance to be the person I'm proud to be and I will give them that same space to be the person they want to be.

Finally let my past ghosts fade out; feels a whole lot better. I encourage everyone to stop harboring emotional doubt.

The world is an ocean, and we'd do best to learn to swim

I believe in equivalent exchange.

And for the record, I have hair again.

"Remember us better than we are"

I enjoy loud, colorful and often Japanese things. As a yang to that yin, I also enjoy dark, often melancholy things.

Don't be afraid of yourselves. Don't hide. Take it easy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being. Being positive most of all. Its not easy, but I'm just being there. Floating, my head like a whirlwind. My heart like an anchor. I want to live comfortably without becoming a workaholic.

Enjoying living through this experience, even though I am ultimately optimistic I'll have many existences beyond this one.

Trying to preserve my beginner's mind

I need more positive influence in my life.

I love metal, punk, hardcore...soft spot for female vocalists and ballads and crooners...old timey sounding music. Noisy, chaotic music, cute music...slow, heavy, dirty music It's a diversity I embrace fully and enthusiastically.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having a good time.
Pretending I'm having a good time.
Writing poems.
Freestyle rapping.
Discussing philosophy, music, and art.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People say I'm Charlie Day (Charlie Kelly). Otherwise, my laugh, my love of strange noises and sound in general. My open mindedness about things that make most uncomfortable. My eccentric tastes in music. People have cited my jaw-line and facial structure as outstanding.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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HP Lovecraft, Tolkien, Nabokov, Haruki Murakami, Phantom of the Opera by Gaston Leroux, Madame Bovary, Marvel comics, Matt Wagner's Grendel, Dostoevsky, Nikolai Gogol, The Descent of Alette, Nightwood by Djuna Barnes, Edgar Allan Poe, Shakespeare, Dr. Faustus by Christopher Marlowe, Faust by Goethe, Waiting For Godot, May We Be Forgiven by AM Homes, R.A. Salvatore, Watchmen by Allan Moore, Brave New World, Algernon Blackwood, Chuck Palahniuk, Paradise Lost, Siddhartha by Herman Hesse, Trilogy by H.D., Henry David Thoreau, Oscar Wilde, The Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison

Breathless (About de Souffle), Buffalo '66, David Lynch films, In Bruges, The Big Lebowski, Spiderbaby, Sunset Boulevard, Down By Law, Evil Dead Trilogy, American Psycho, Girl Interrupted, Drop Dead Fred, Dark City, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, The World's End, The Dreamers, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Donnie Darko, The Shining, The Abominable Dr. Phibes, The Toxic Avenger, Citizen Toxie, Citizen Kane, Top Hat, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Crow, The Boondock Saints, A Clockwork Orange, The Doom Generation, Ka-Boom!, Altered States, Holy Mountain, Brother From Another Planet, Pi, Hard Candy, Running With Scissors, Casablanca, The Big Sleep, DeadAlive, The Neverending Story, Labyrinth, Ghost in the Shell, Akira, Paprika, Kaze to Ki no Uta, Ringu, Interview with the Vampire, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, The Forty Blows, Star Wars, Flash Gordon, The Day The Earth Stood Still, 12 Monkeys, The Fisher King, Into the Wild, Marx Brothers films, The Three Stooges Meet Hercules, The Company of Wolves, Stage Door, Gilda, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Cemetery Man, Monty Python films, Dogma, Clerks, Natural Born Killers, Office Space, Freaks, The Invisible Man, Night of the Living Dead, Metropolis, A Trip To The Moon, Un chien Andalou, Doctor Stranglove, Planet of the Apes, Inglorious Basterds, Battle Royale, Velvet Goldmine, Trainspotting, American Beauty, North By Northwest, Don't Be A Menace in South Central While Drinking Your Juice In The Hood, Fear and Loathing In Las Vegas, Yellow Submarine, Zombieland

Doctor Who, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Breaking Bad, Dexter, Adventure Time, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, The Walking Dead, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Shingeki no Kyoujin (Attack on Titan), Cowboy Bebop, Kill La Kill, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagan, Katekyoushi Hitman Reborn!, Samurai Champloo, Kuroshitsuji, Arrested Development, Workaholics, Broad City, South Park, Trigun, Hellsing, The Twilight Zone, Game of Thrones, Tales from the Crypt, Bravest Warriors, Futurama, Avatar The Last Airbender, Orange is the New Black, Carl Sagan's Cosmos

Deftones, Circa Survive, Interpol, Faith No More, Townes Van Zandt, Tom Waits, For Science, The Magnetic Fields, Death Cab for Cutie, Mr. Bungle, Panopticon, Al Bowly, Feist, Bat for Lashes, Isis, Converge, Type O Negative, Metric, Blue October, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Flogging Molly, Kvelertak, Bjork, Boris, True Widow, Royksopp, Fever Ray, The Knife, Chelsea Wolfe, Botch, Russian Circles, Pink Floyd, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Joy Division, Neurosis, Baroness, Torche, Pantera, Clutch, The Sword, Trampled By Trampled, Myrkur, Coheed and Cambria, Placebo, Krallice, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Wolves in the Throne Room, Thou, Die Kreuzen, Unsane, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Opeth, Failure, Jimmy Eat World, Brand New, Modest Mouse, Leonard Cohen, My Morning Jacket, Nirvana, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Thin Lizzy, Grateful Dead, The Pixies, Smashing Pumpkins, Cult of Luna, Poison the Well, Glassjaw, Swallow the Sun, Katatonia, Stone Temple Pilots, My Bloody Valentine, The Cure, Hank Williams, Johnny Cash, Ryan Adams and the Cardinals, Elton John, Bob Dylan, Pinback, Muse, Deafheaven, Son Volt, Yob, Tombs, Rwake, Kylesa, Skeletonwitch, Enslaved, Lantlos, Wolvhammer, Nasum, Daughters, Melt-Banana, Soundgarden, Massive Attack, Ufomammut, Tiesto, Sunn O))), Aphex Twin, The xx, Girl Talk, Black Sabbath, Cole Porter, Glenn Miller, Le Tigre, Shiny Toy Guns, Gorillaz, Portishead, Radiohead, Cynic, Mastodon, Between the Buried and Me, HORSE the Band, Cursive, Bright Eyes, The Matches, blink-182, Kill Hannah, Alkaline Trio, Arcade Fire, Intronaut, Woods of Ypres, Fugazi, Minutemen, The Replacements, Neil Young, The Mountain Goats, Eyedea and Abilities, Aesop Rock, MF Doom, Madvillain, Giant Squid, Cunninlynguists, The Format, Fun., Electric Light Orchestra, R.E.M, Billie Holiday, Thelonious Monk, Ella Fitzgerald, Washed Out, Little Dragon, The Postal Service, Rachel Yamagata, Black Monolith, Nux Vomica, Baptists, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Nine Inch Nails, Barghest, Suzanne Vega, Ash Borer, Earth, Melvins, Municipal Waste, Team Sleep, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Nobuo Uematsu, Ulver, Gorguts, Nachtmystium, Cannibal Corpse, Morbid Angel, Sublime, Summoning, Fen, Vaura, The Black Dahlia Murder, Discordance Axis, Cloud Rat, Carcass, Napalm Death, The Gathering, Goblin Cock, Gwar, Bloc Party, Queen, Pig Destroyer, The Old 97's, Waylon Jennings, Fred Astaire, Frank Sinatra, Helmet, Animals As Leaders, Minus the Bear, Bayside, Nile, God is An Astronaut, The Byrds, Counting Crows, Alda, Kate Bush, Winterus, Dissection, Emperor, Ihsahn, Devin Townsend Project, The Velvet Underground, David Bowie, Scott Walker, Tomahawk, Gallowbraid, Woods of Desolation, An Autumn for Crippled Children, Rise Against, Killswitch Engage, Pyramids, Judy Garland, Acid Bath, Behemoth, Depeche Mode, Tortoise, Blut aus Nord, Portal, Grails, The Dear Hunter, Fair to Midland, And You Will Know Us By the Trail of Dead, The Bronx, CKY, H.I.M, The Number Twelve Looks Like You, Gojira, Amon Amarth, The Chariot, Old 97's, The Gaslight Anthem, Tiger Army, Hot Water Music, Eyehategod, Kyuss, Dead Kennedys, Amebix, Obscura, Decrepit Birth, JEFF The Brotherhood, MGMT, At The Drive-In, The Mars Volta, Beck, Flaming Lips, Andrew Bird, Venom, Icon of Phobos, Bone Awl, Jesu, Godflesh, Om, Sleep, Peter Gabriel, Yes, King Crimson, Elliott Smith, Led Zeppelin, Blue Oyster Cult, Trash Talk, Sparklehorse, The Distillers, Queens of the Stone Age, Altar of Plagues, ambient, drone, opera, meditative chanting, swing....goes on forever username: belphegoria

Guilty pleasures: Paramore, 2Chainz, Rick Ross
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, instruments, the arts, ideas, friends, beauty from every perspective
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Playing piano
Zombie survival
Learning Japanese.
My inspirations/motivations
If life was like a JRPG
Mastering archery and/or swords
Where are we in the universe?
How do people work when they're high because I seem to have trouble doing many things when I am.
Why men treat women like another species
Tom Waits
Cool clothes
Learning to sew.
Turning off my emotions
The universe as a whole and Carl Sagan
Why I try so hard to please people who give me nothing
How to enjoy a moment beyond the "in the moment" edification I receive from it.
Words in general.
Sexuality and sex (whoever says they don't is a liar or at the least asexual)
Mike Patton.
The Marvel universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully something interesting. Going out with friends, playing music, perhaps reading. Often a concert. Overall entertaining myself and enjoying the present moment for exactly what it is because I'm breathing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish I was more attractive in terms of my own standards I impose upon myself.

I really like to party. Shows, get togethers, things of that nature.

I really derive the most satisfaction from making you, the people, laugh and entertained.

I really wish I could be even more direct than I already am.

I don't drive yet. Took my test thrice, failed it, have to get back on the road. IF THIS IS A PROBLEM FOR YOU I DON'T CARE, YOUR LOSS. I'm going to be taking it again soon.

None of these are necessarily things I wouldn't admit to anyone; for those things I encourage you to dig a little deeper.
You should message me if
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You are an unconventional free thinker. You want to enjoy the guaranteed present. You enjoy exploring the planet. You play music. You want to listen to music and just laze around, you care about music, you are literate to a higher degree perhaps,. If you despise being a sheep, you want to cosplay with me. You play Super Smash Brothers. You like to do stuff.

Do not message me if;

You do not value philosophical conversation or intelligent discourse along with troll random humor, you can't take a joke, you are too politically correct for your own good, you never want to go out and see the world. Clingers are self explanatory.