I am a delicious bundle of human contradictions that add spice to my character: really respectful though assertive, gentle though direct, social though solitary, serious and silly, capable of intimacy and independence, passionate and yet detached. I don't want to take over anyone's life and vice versa and want to enter the place of being able to mutually honour each other as whole individuals, rather than as objects or extensions of our own egos or desires, reveling in the joy of healthy union and taking the space in which that union was at first made possible.
At this age it must all be about being in that sacred place of gratitude for whatever our loved ones wish to share with us and vice versa. I no longer want to stake exclusive claim to another person's life. Having built strong communal ties with the people in my life, I no longer need or expect as much. I want you to be fully you, sharing freely and not because you have to. . I do not seek the perfect love, but just the perfection of whatever each moment of love can offer. I am a loyal and longstanding friend and will stand by my companion through high and low.