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lovebylistening

28 State College, PA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 22–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:13pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When I was a little boy my mother asked me what I wanted to be? I replied confidently, "A garbage man!" She was curious and inquired why? I then explained to her how fun it would be to ride on the back of the garbage truck. When she asked me why I didn't aim higher, I replied "okay. I will be a garbage man on the moon."

I'm older now and never became a garbage man or an astronaut. Instead, every day I dress up in my capitalist costume and dance to a local hotel where I exchange anecdotes with kindred travelers and replace their account numbers with their all too human stories. In reality, we are all guests in the world, and I've dedicated this season of my life to serving those who are on the road, while simultaneously saving up for my next artistic migration.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently I'm writing a stand-comedy act about my experiences in life and also very slowly hand-writing a book of poetry with my non-dominant hand.

A more general answer is putting my spirit into everything I do, whether it is appreciating the beauty found on a hike or conversing with strangers I meet on the street. I also spend time buying and selling antiques, photographing birds and scribbling on postcards from the places I've been.

And although I have graduated from college, I will forever remain a copious note-taker in the school of life: My philosophy is that to live is to learn and to learn is to love. As a result, my life is dedicated to cultivating an attentive awareness of all the people I am fated to encounter and then recording the adventures we have together in a scrapbook of words.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-finding the quotidian seductively poetic
-giving reading recommendations
-planning trips, misplacing the plans, and having a wonderful time anyway
-overhearing strangers say things which would make amazing book titles
-being spontaneously influenced and sometimes even paralyzed by beauty
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
horizons, nests, bridges, beehives, mountains and metaphors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-how to translate experiences/feelings into words
-how to strengthen my relationship with the unknown and open to the millions of opportunities that arise each day with the morning sun
-unique ways to use less water and electricity: (good for the environment and my bank account)
-the night sky and how it says everything so perfectly
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sitting on a street bench with my notebook and watching the various costumed actors and actresses dance along college avenue while reciting their drunken monologues.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The exploration of the unknown through metaphor and relationship inspires me most and gives me hope that, no matter what challenges I face, a few well-placed and sincere words can help increase my awareness of the profound meaning within every experience. This love of language makes me a romantic at heart, not because I seek pleasure and comfort, but because I seek intimate connection and transformational growth with my partner.
You should message me if
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you are an instrument to something larger than yourself and you want to start a band;

you think attending the farmer's market is a good idea for a date; you think planting a garden together is an even better one;

you punctuate each sentence with compassion;

you need a weekly date for church or the local art-museum or you think it would be interesting to say a few prayers in the art-museum or make art in a local and perhaps even abandoned old church;

we are more than 75% enemies and you would like to share a meal together;

or if you are imperfect, but realize that true success is creating something beautiful out of your weaknesses;