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lovebylistening

28 M State College, PA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 22–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I travel from experience to experience, laughing often, learning always, and finding time to write about it all when I can.

You can call me Benjamin
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
hiking, biking, scribbling, nibbling, learning, yearning and trying to photograph as many birds as possible!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being spontaneously influenced by beauty
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
horizons, nests, bridges, beehives, mountains and metaphors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-how to translate experiences/feelings into words
-how to strengthen my relationship with the unknown and open to the millions of opportunities that arise each day with the morning sun
-unique ways to use less water and electricity: (good for the environment and my bank account)
-the night sky and how it says everything so perfectly
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sitting on a street bench with my notebook and watching the various costumed actors and actresses dance along college avenue while reciting their drunken monologues.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The exploration of the unknown through metaphor and relationship inspires me most and gives me hope that, no matter what challenges I face, a few well-placed and sincere words can help increase my awareness of the profound meaning within every experience. This love of language makes me a romantic at heart, not because I seek pleasure and comfort, but because I seek intimate connection and transformational growth with my partner.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are an instrument to something larger than yourself and you want to start a band;

you punctuate each sentence with compassion;

you need a weekly date for church or the local art-museum or you think it would be interesting to say a few prayers in the art-museum or make art in a local and perhaps even abandoned old church;

we are more than 75% enemies and you would like to share a meal together;

or if you are imperfect, but realize that true success is creating something beautiful out of your weaknesses;