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lovehatesecret

21 / F / straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am shy, a bit weird at times, and a cuddle fiend.

My Self-Summary

Hmm, I really don't like describing myself.

My name is Jen and right now I'm a full-time student at UNF. If I could, I'd probably be a professional student just because I do like learning and having been a student for so long, I can't imagine not being one. I guess I would consider myself an introvert book-nerd type of person. I do like reading even if I get out of the habit occasionally because of school.

I'm shy, but I open up quickly if given the chance. I'm also extremely quiet at first. So if I don't say much, no, it's not because I don't like you. :P I think it comes from being in my head a lot and assuming there aren't many genuine people left out there. Feel free to prove me wrong. I like that. Also, I'm not some Barbie-figured girl. If you're looking for a thin waist with huge boobs, move along elsewhere. I may not be pencil thin, but I am taking steps to improve myself.

Likes: Art/art history, skulls/bones, concerts, platform boots, animals, symmetric piercings, tattoos, industrial/electronica, sarcasm, humor, laughing, the beach at night, taller guys, makeup, watching movies, driving around, reading, people watching, cuddling, affection, love, being goofy.

What I'm looking for: Such a complex thing to answer, but here goes nothing. Companionship. Loyalty. Passion. Chemistry. Someone who I feel comfortable around and not intimidated who can make me laugh. Someone who accepts that I can sometimes be socially awkward and prefer being a twosome rather than hang out in large groups or going to places where there is a lot of noise. Someone who is kind, will appreciate me and make me feel loved. Maybe I'm asking too much, though.

I don't actually think that OkCupid does a good job depicting people with their "personality." Yep, I said it.

Oh, and please don't message me with one-liners or "what's up?" That really doesn't give me much to go with.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm studying Psychology right now and I haven't decided if I want to pursue my master's or just take any decent job upon graduating.

I’m really good at

Listening and gauging people's emotions. I suppose this is where the psychology comes in. No, I do not analyze anyone. Don't worry.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hell if I know. You tell me!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books- White Oleander by Janet Fitch, the Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath, Blood & Chocolate by Annette Curtis Klause (thank you to those informing me), etc! :)

Movies- the Ginger Snaps trilogy, White Oleander, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill (both movies), Labyrinth, Pan's Labyrinth, Igby Goes Down, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Copycat, Silence of the Lambs, Antichrist (the most fucked up film I've ever seen, but anything that makes me that uneasy, I love), the Dreamers, Quills, etc.

TV Shows (For the hell of it) - Lie to Me, House, Gilmore Girls, The L Word, Buffy, Daria

Music- Combichrist, the Birthday Massacre, AFI, In Flames, a bit of Skinny Puppy, Icon of Coil, Rob Zombie, God Module.. I like loud, fast, scary.

The six things I could never do without

1. Family
2. Music/Concerts
3. A bit of makeup. I am a girl after all.
4. Internet
5. Good conversation and comfortable silences.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

...things. My brain won't shut off. Too many to list all, but here's an idea:

1. Where my life is going is a big one these days.
2. Love.

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably chilling at home watching a movie. I sometimes like to venture out by myself. Exciting, yes?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll leave that for when I'm getting to know a person.

You should message me if

we have the same interests in music or if you just want to.

I don't bite unless provoked. ;)