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43 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Artist, interested in the healing potential of creativity, in grad school.
Creative, kind, smart, funny...

I am almost insatiably intellectually curious. The ability to think, analyze, exercise our imaginations and ultimately laugh together is the glue for a good relationship in my opinion.

I am interested in meeting someone who is honest, kind, funny, smart, and creative.
Also, I am learning that intellectual and creative compatibility are extremely important...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working and going to school, having fun during and in between.
Pondering the meaning of life, creative expression, freedom and what that magic is that makes our hair stand on end...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, writing... lots of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Netflix: Portlandia, The Sarah Silverman Program, Louis C.K., Parks and Rec, Rockumentaries, documentaries: How to Survive a Plague
Neil Gaiman, Graham Roumieu, John Irving, nonfiction psychology
Anthony Burgess, Flannery O'Connor, Nabakov, Dr. Seuss

Art: Picasso, DeKooning, Graham Roumieu, Klimt

Music: all of it! Classic rock, 80s metal, 90s grunge, 70s singer songwriters, anything that makes me want to dance (Calvin Harris remixes) classical, piano, guitar, the perfect bridge, the perfect melody, harmony, lyric, what gives me goosebumps...

I love sweets, seafood, scary movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, career, New York City, art, music, books(Kindle)

In a relationship:
Intellectual conversation, a partner who is a great listener, humor, chemistry, true intimacy or at least the search for it...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working... Tuesday is the new Friday. My schedule is offbeat but flexible
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you one day.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are serious about getting to know me not just as pen pals.
And if you are interested in exploring the possibilities that new relationships provide.