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41 Pasadena, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Black, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Working on masters program
Politics / Government
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm fiesty!! I'll have a quick retort for your questions, but rest assured, if the lines of respect are crossed, I'll banish you into the land of peasants. I say this simply because there aren't many respectful men these days. I give respect, and I appreciate reciprocation of such. Yes, I'm really 41 and my pictures are all recent. I'm a mixture of Haitian and South American, British Guyanese, but from good ol' LA, so yes, this is where I get that "look" from.

You: Emotionally healthy, open and ready to love, communicator, high vibrational, handsome, articulate, well-written, respectful, sophisticated, well-dressed, monogamous, into commitment, under 49, dates interracially and not just curious. A gentleman who knows how to treat a lady with impeccable manners. You also know how to court a woman who allows the man to follow through. This means you won't wait for her to make a move. You go for what you want. Oh, were you waiting on me to give you my number? You'll wait forever. Just ask for it, hence going for what you want. I love that in a man. Last but not least, not into endless texting and emailing. If that's your thing, let me forewarn you: I will lose interest very fast. It's a huge turn off.

Me: Highly intuitive (to the point it's a gift) lI'm truly modest, sexy, fiesty, smart, driven, passionate, straight-forward, loyal, quick-witted, monogamous, loves to dance, sexy legs, curvy, beautifully dark and smooth skin, well-written, intellectual, sophisticated and sassy. I'm a to-the-point kinda' gal who cuts to the chase, so no game players. I'm way too intelligent. I have my own so I'm not looking for a savior. I'm unbiased, full of love, non-traditional and non-judgmental. I was raised Christian as a child, yet I also chant Indian mantras, so yes I chant and meditate. Aum Dum Duregayei Namaha!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard, being independent, working out and definitely making time for myself. I have thee best 11 year old who is an aspiring actor, takes karate and is learning Mandarin-so yes, he's very important to me. I also love to help others. Currently in the legal field for over 18 years. I'm also an Intuitive Life Coach as well as a Recovery Coach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, intellectual conversations, writing, singing, being super romantic, & being a good listener. Did I mention I'm a great dancer & an even better flirt? :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes & lips...then my sexy legs!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hunger Games, John Grisham books, The Joy Luck Club, 007, Memoirs of a Giesha. Alias, R and B, tribal house, house, progressive house, Reggae, Rap....Deadmau5, Tiesto, ATB, Paul Oakenfold, Bob Marley, Kaskade, Lady Ga Ga, Calvin Harris, Disclosure, etc.
Thai food, Italian food, Sushi, Mexican food, and of course my island food!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, an income, happiness, health, peace of mind, God
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My soulmate!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1. At home with Thai food and wine
2. Chilling with my son
3. Out with friends for a drink and/or dancing.
4. Meditating and the gym
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not one thing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not looking for a "hook up, " but something meaningful.
You can make me laugh or you can't resist beautiful ebony women.
You believe in establishing a friendship first.
I've hypnotized you with my eyes.