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41 Pasadena, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:58am
Black, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Working on masters program
Politics / Government
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm fiesty!! Expect an intelligent conversation from me. Yes, I look alarmingly young, but I really am 41! I'm a mixture of Haitian and South American, British Guyanese, but from good ol' LA, so yes, this is where I get that "look" from. I'm tired of men asking why such a "beautiful woman" such as myself is single. Bottom line: I have no tolerance for b.s. Take that elsewhere. Only a strong, secure man can handle me and I have yet to meet one here. Who's ready to prove me wrong?

You: You'll take the time to read my ridiculously long profile! You're confident, masculine, emotionally healthy, open and ready to love, communicator, high vibrational, handsome, articulate, well-written, respectful, sophisticated, well-dressed, monogamous, and under 49. You're a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady with impeccable manners. Last but not least, not into endless texting and emailing. If that's your thing, let me forewarn you: I will lose interest very fast. It's a huge turn off.

Me: Highly intuitive (to the point it's a gift) l'm truly modest, sexy, fiesty, smart, driven, passionate, straight-forward, loyal, quick-witted, monogamous, loves to dance, sexy legs, curvy, beautifully dark and smooth skin, well-written, intellectual, sophisticated and sassy. I am a begginner bikram yoga student and I love it! I totally expect to bend my body like a pretzel in the future! I was raised Christian as a child, yet I also chant Indian mantras. My favorite of all is Goddess Durga. Forty-one day discipline is my way to go. By the way, I date interacially so men of other races, don't be shy! 😊
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard, being independent, keeping in shape and definitely making time for myself. I have thee best 12 year old who is an aspiring actor, takes karate and is learning Mandarin-so yes, he's very important to me. I also love to help others. Currently in the legal field for over 18 years. I'm also an Intuitive Life Coach as well as a Recovery Coach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, intellectual conversations, writing, singing, being super romantic, & being a good listener. Did I mention I'm a great dancer & an even better flirt? :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes & lips...then my sexy legs!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hunger Games, John Grisham books, The Joy Luck Club, 007, Memoirs of a Giesha. Alias, R and B, tribal house, house, progressive house, Reggae, Rap....Deadmau5, Tiesto, ATB, Paul Oakenfold, Bob Marley, Kaskade, Lady Ga Ga, Calvin Harris, Disclosure, etc.
Thai food, Italian food, Sushi, Mexican food, and of course my island food!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, an income, happiness, health, peace of mind, bikhram yoga and God
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My soulmate!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1. At home with Thai food and wine
2. Chilling with my son
3. Having a last minute session with a client.
4. Meditating
5. Bikram Yoga
6. Relaxing, doing nothing.
7. Dancing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not one thing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're confident and not easily intimidated!
You're not looking for a "hook up, " but something meaningful.
You're positive and high vibrational.
You can make me laugh.
You can't resist beautiful ebony women.
You can handle being with around an intuitive person.
You believe in establishing a friendship first.
I've hypnotized you with my eyes.