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41 Pasadena, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:09pm
Black, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Working on masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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First things first: I'm fiesty! Prepare yourself for my quick-witted answers & humor! I cut to the chase and leave the child games behind. I'm surprised at the men who literally block me because I don't answer right away, as my phone keeps me logged in which makes me "online" at all times. I'm not the kind of woman to jump anyway. If you want to know me, you'll be patient. If you're not patient, shame on you!

Many ask me where I'm from. I was born in good ol' LA, but I am half HAITIAN and GUYANESE. This is where I get "that look" from :-). If you're in another state, please spare yourself the disappointment because I don't do the long distance thing.

Yes, I date out of my race, but please, no curious men or men who ultimately prefer their own, as I refuse to be your specimen. If you're looking for a fling, in not the one. Also, I know I look young but I'd much rather not be a cougar to you younger hot lads under 25.

I am seeking that guy who enjoys intellectual, stimulating conversation, who makes me laugh unexpectantly, believes that chivalry is not dead, can hold and keep my attention, emotionally available, & someone who is BIG on communication. You won't get a long email out of me. Endless emailing will get us nowhere and I will lose interest pretty fast. My goal is to meet and see if we click. I have no time for storytelling. Either we vibe or not, so don't be put off by my short responses. IM'ing, Skype and Kik, etc.- I am not into those things. I am into meeting in person to see if the connection is real, so yes, I'm seeking a deep connection with one man only.

I LOVE to dance!! My favorite types of music varies from: tribal house, R&B, deep house, pop, jazz, and of course reggae :) Ex: Kaskade, Bob Marley, ATB, Disclosure, Maxwell, Deadmau5, Ghost Loft, Jill Scott, etc.

I'm the most honest, respectful, & straight forward woman (without the nasty attitude) you'd meet. I also love to laugh and be positive, so it helps if you're positive as well. I have a really big heart, and I'm wanting to share it with the right person.

I've been called shallow because I want to see recent and clear pictures. I'm no skinny barbie, yet I'm curvy and I have sexy runner's legs. I have two pics up showing just that. What you see is what you get. On that note, I have a right to request your clear, recent photos.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard, being independent, working out and definitely making time for myself. I love to help others. Currently in the legal field for over 18 years and studying for credentials in RISE Life, Recovery and Addiction coach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, intellectual conversations, writing, singing, being super romantic, & being a good listener. Did I mention I'm a great dancer & an even better flirt? :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes & lips...then my sexy legs!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hunger Games, John Grisham books, The Joy Luck Club, 007, Memoirs of a Giesha. Alias, R and B, tribal house, house, progressive house, Reggae, Rap....Deadmau5, Tiesto, ATB, Paul Oakenfold, Bob Marley, Kaskade, Lady Ga Ga, Calvin Harrid, Disclosure, etc.
Thai food, Italian food, Sushi, Mexican food, and of course my island food!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, an income, happiness, health, peace of mind, God
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My soulmate!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1. Dancing
2. Dancing
3. Dancing

I love to dance!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm very private.
You should message me if
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You're not looking for a "hook up, " but something meaningful.
You can make me laugh or you can't resist beautiful ebony women.
You believe in establishing a friendship first.
I've hypnotized you with my eyes.

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