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40 F Pasadena, CA

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Black, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Working on masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Many ask me where I'm from. I was born in good ol' LA, but I am half HAITIAN and GUYANESE. This is where I get "that look" from :-). Yes, I date out of my race but please no curious men or men who ultimately prefer their own.

I am seeking that guy who enjoys intellectual, stimulating conversation, who makes me laugh unexpectantly, believes that chivalry is not dead, can hold and keep my attention, emotionally available, & someone who is BIG on communication. I'm not referring to IM'ing, skype, etc. I am not into those things. I am into meeting in person to see if the connection is real.

YES, I REALLY AM 40 and will be 41 in the latter part of this year. I know I look young!

I LOVE to dance!! My favorite types of music varies from: tribal house, R&B, deep house, pop, jazz, and of course reggae :) Ex: Kaskade, Bob Marley, ATB, Disclosure, Maxwell, Deadmau5, Ghost Loft, Jill Scott, etc.

I'm the most honest, respectful, & straight forward woman (without the nasty attitude) you'd meet. I also love to laugh and be positive, so it helps if you're positive as well. I have a really big heart, and I'm wanting to share it with the right person. .

I've been called shallow because I want to see recent and clear pictures. I'm no skinny barbie, yet I'm curvy and I have sexy runner's legs. I have two pics up showing just that. What you see is what you get. On that note, I have a right to request your clear, recent photos.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard, being independent, working out and definitely making time for myself. I love to help others. Currently in the legal field for over 18 years and studying for credentials in RISE Recovery and Addiction coach
I’m really good at
Cooking, singing, intellectual conversations, writing, singing, being super romantic, & being a good listener. Did I mention I'm a great dancer & an even better flirt? :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes & lips...then my sexy legs!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Hunger Games, John Grisham books, The Joy Luck Club, 007, Memoirs of a Giesha. Alias, R and B, tribal house, house, progressive house, Reggae, Rap....Deadmau5, Tiesto, ATB, Paul Oakenfold, Bob Marley, Kaskade, Lady Ga Ga, Calvin Harrid, Disclosure, etc.
Thai food, Italian food, Sushi, Mexican food, and of course my island food!!
The six things I could never do without
My family, an income, happiness, health, peace of mind, God
On a typical Friday night I am
1. Dancing
2. Dancing
3. Dancing

I love to dance!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're not looking for a "hook up, " but something meaningful.
You can make me laugh or you can't resist beautiful ebony women.
You believe in establishing a friendship first.
I've hypnotized you with my eyes.