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45 M Fairfield, CT

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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
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Graduated from university
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Suo mai troppo tardi per gioia!


I am a tall (6’4”), college educated man who is always smiling trying to find the humor in the things that life throws my way. I consider myself bright, witty, charming, creative, down to earth and very open to the idea of a relationship. I am looking for a woman who is comfortable with herself, likes the simple pleasures in life, shared intimacy, communication and appreciates my nature. As nice as the luxuries of life are, I find its the simple pleasures shared between two people that mean the most and nourish the soul - an unexpected kiss, shopping together at the grocery store, long walks, the magic of looking into each others eyes exchanging unspoken words, and falling asleep in each others arms to name a few.

I love the way the sky is pink after it snows, the way puppies sit sideways on one of their legs, tingles right before a first kiss, and old Nike commercials. I sometimes crave salt, lemon popsicle’s and popcorn for dinner when no one is looking. I like to cook. I love throwing perfectly tasteful cocktail parties. Road trips when you don’t really know the exact destination, the smell of fresh coffee, making beautiful things, laughing, and fireflies. Weekend getaways but really find that any place is special as long as I’m with someone I care about.

I think one of my greatest personal assets is my sense of intuition about people, places, and things – I am usually right on the money. I would very much like a dog someday, but at the present feel to guilty leaving the animal home alone while I’m working. I am considered handsome by people other than my parents but not fond of pictures of myself - not sure what that says about me.

I believe in…………embracing myself as a self analytic and gravitate towards others who are like me: spontaneous, comfortable in their own skin and aren't ashamed of those inner quirks we all have. Smile, admit you're imperfect and be proud. I believe in ordering in and chilling on the couch on Sunday afternoons, while watching and critiquing Brady and the Patriots, and catching up with Sports Center.

I believe romance is built and developed by two people over time and is a team sport all its own. I believe in a lifetime of teasing and flirting. Nothing less. I don't want time to continue to pass me by without sharing my life with someone. Life is too short and we need to make the most of it while we can. I am looking for someone with similar interests & if we have chemistry, we can take it from there. I am interested in something that has potential, something substantial and meaningful.

I only live each day to learn. I consider myself to be a very fortunate person and I am thankful for everything and all the opportunities that I have been blessed with in life. If you feel me, and you think we could be a match hit me up, just do it….
say hello.
What I’m doing with my life
Lived in a brownstone,
I lived in the ghetto
I've lived all over this town.
You ought to know not to, stand by the window.
Somebody see you up there.
I got some groceries,
Some peanut butter.
To last a couple of days.

We dress like students.
We dress like housewives.
Or in a suit and a tie.
I changed my hairstyle,
So many times now,
Don't know what I look like.

This ain't no party.
This ain't no disco.
This ain't no fooling around.
I'd love to hold you,
I want to kiss you.
I got time for that now.
I’m really good at
Landscape construction, home improvement projects and renovating houses.
The first things people usually notice about me
Gee your tall!
Stop it hurts, your so f'in funny!
Your so wise!
Holy crap that what a very astute observation!
Why am I paying my therapist when I have you?

A newlywed couple moves into their new house. One day the husband comes home from work and his wife says, "Honey, you know, in the upstairs bathroom one of the pipes is leaking, could you fix it?" The husband says, "What do I look like, Mr. Plumber?" A few days go by, and he comes home from work and his wife says, "Honey, the car won't start. I think it needs a new battery. Could you change it for me?" He says: "What do I look like, Mr. Goodwrench?" Another few days go by, and it's raining pretty hard. The wife finds a leak in the roof. She says, "Honey, there's a leak on the roof! Can you please fix it?" He says, "What do I look like, Bob Vila?" The next day the husband comes home, and the roof is fixed. So is the plumbing. So is the car. He asks his wife what happened. "Oh, I had a handyman come in and fix them," she says. "Great! How much is that going to cost me?" he snarls. Wife says: "Nothing. He said he'd do it for free if I either baked him a cake or slept with him." "Uh, well, what kind of cake did you make?" asks the husband. "What do I look like," she says, "Betty Crocker?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Its diverse lets talk about it. Currently listening To that smooth and silky Bossa Nova beat....... you and me slow dancing to some Bossa Nova as we drift away lost in a kiss.

I feel I must comment on the passing of a real disciple of World Music, Ravi Shankar. Your dedication was total, producing sublime music and compositions with musicians from every corner of the earth. Yours was genius, and will live on and inspire many generations to come. You were India's gift to the world and you showed that music has no boundaries. Your music made people, the earth, plants, water, mountains and sky sing. I bid farewell to your beautiful soul.

50 Shades of Grey trilogy? I'm not so sure what all the hub-bub is all about. Its really just a poorly written romance novel with some BDSM thrown in. Now, what it says about women who just love this book is another thing entirely. Ladies? Secret desires?

Food wise my latest kick is making my own hummus and pita chips......theres no snack better! WOW curried pearl barley instead of rice! Eating delicious snacks while watching the Dodgers and Bruins play.

this is an amazing mini vacation...
Its not porn ladies its all things cabin geesssss!
The six things I could never do without
Charcuterie. Buffalo wings, creme brulee, and a good steak salad are firm food staples. Being the consummate kid at heart, throwing a football in a spiral, and pigtails. I believe in sensuality and intimacy. That there is still beauty to be found in this world: tropical fish at the pet store, a great glass of wine, fresh tomatoes and herbs from the garden, the lazy sun on one’s skin, a worn-in ball cap, wrought iron gates and railings, a jazz album playing slow and low, your soft pillow lips, the smell of cut grass, and the sound of genuine deep belly laughter.

Ok thats more than six things grrrrr.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The beach, a cool breeze, a cooler full of Stella and looking over at you laying next to me smiling back at me smelling like coconut suntan oil...
On a typical Friday night I am
Thinking about making dinner together, perhaps cajun shrimp over bowtie pasta with an nice cold Pinot Grigio. Followed by some slow dancing on my brick terrace under the stars to some Maxwell. Where I can't help but nibble on your neck and ears for dessert....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
So here we are, Men and Women looking for relationships. Ive developed some thoughts, tho not really private, heres what ive learned about the dynamic between men and women: at their very core women are emotional and men are physical. Most tensions in relationships come from women wanting men to be more emotional and men wanting women to be more physical. If more time was spent between couples celebrating what the other offered instead of trying to make someone conform to behavior that is in conflict with their very core we'd all be happier. Men are most successfull in relationships when we operate from a position of strength. Men are aggressive, rational, dominant, and objective. Ladies enbrace that. Women are intuitive, and subjective and value love, communication, beauty, and relationships. As Men we need to be more conscious of that and embrace it as well.
To much time is spent between women and men in relationships where they agonize over what the other is not instead of celebrating what it is they offer.
Just my thoughts, not very private but perhaps it may be cause for discussion.
What do you think?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Your adventurous, passionate, down to earth and if your short a good climber. You've gotten this far and you think you might enjoy this particular cocktail of humanity.

"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude."

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
― Rumi