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lovenlife153

45 M Fairfield, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Construction
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: If you have had problems here with other people dont bring that to my door, its ugly!

Hello....

I am a tall (6’4”), college educated, fierce gentleman who is always smiling trying to find the humor in the things that life throws my way. I consider myself bright, witty, charming, creative, down to earth and very open to the idea of a relationship. I am looking for a woman who is comfortable with herself, likes the simple pleasures in life, shared intimacy, communication and appreciates my nature. As nice as the luxuries of life are, I find its the simple pleasures shared between two people that mean the most and nourish the soul - an unexpected kiss, shopping together at the grocery store, long walks, the magic of looking into each others eyes exchanging unspoken words, and falling asleep in each others arms to name a few.

I believe romance is built and developed by two people over time and is a team sport all its own. I believe in a lifetime of teasing and flirting. Nothing less. I don't want time to continue to pass me by without sharing my life with someone. Life is too short and we need to make the most of it while we can. I am looking for someone with similar interests & if we have chemistry, we can take it from there. I am interested in something that has potential, something substantial and meaningful.

I love the way the sky is pink after it snows, the way puppies sit sideways on one of their legs, tingles right before a first kiss, and old Nike commercials. I sometimes crave salt, lemon popsicles and popcorn for dinner when no one is looking. I like to cook. I love throwing perfectly tasteful cocktail parties. Road trips when you don’t really know the exact destination, the smell of fresh coffee, making beautiful things, laughing, and fireflies. Weekend getaways but really find that any place is special as long as I’m with someone I care about. I believe in…………embracing myself as a self analytic and gravitate towards others who are like me: spontaneous, comfortable in their own skin and aren't ashamed of those inner quirks we all have. Smile, admit you're imperfect and be proud. I believe in ordering in and chilling on the couch on Sunday afternoons, while watching and critiquing Brady and the Patriots, and catching up with Sports Center.

I only live each day to learn. I consider myself to be a very fortunate person and I am thankful for everything and all the opportunities that I have been blessed with in life. If you feel me, and you think we could be a match hit me up, just do it….

say hello.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lived in a brownstone,
I lived in the ghetto
I've lived all over this town.
You ought to know not to, stand by the window.
Somebody see you up there.
I got some groceries,
Some peanut butter.
To last a couple of days.

We dress like students.
We dress like housewives.
Or in a suit and a tie.
I changed my hairstyle,
So many times now,
Don't know what I look like.

This ain't no party.
This ain't no disco.
This ain't no fooling around.
I'd love to hold you,
I want to kiss you.
I got time for that now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzORu1dqEE0
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Running my business, landscape construction, home improvement projects and renovating houses.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Gee your tall!
Stop it hurts, your so f'in funny!

....3 drunk guys enterd a taxi. The taxi driver knew that they were drunk so he started the engine & turned it off again. Then said, "We have reached your destination". The 1st guy gave him money & the 2nd guy said "Thank you". The 3rd guy slapped the driver. The driver was shocked thinking the 3rd drunk knew what he did. But then he asked "What was that for?". The 3rd guy replied, "Control your speed next time, you nearly killed us!".....

Your so wise!
Holy crap that was a very astute observation!
Why am I paying my therapist when I have you?

I have to add this somewhere. Can you believe someone asked me if Catholics and Buddhists mix? HOLY CRAP! Does that mix? Really? Come on its not a cult! Its a simple guide for living. One of the guiding principles is karma. Basically you reap what you sow. At their basic essence most religions have a common thread in that they seek to define what we should believe. Buddhism is no different.

Does catholicism/other religions and buddhism mix? In life I dont look for things that separate but rather bring us together. You noticed my profile took alot of thought and self awareness ad im guessing that attracted you. Lets work from there and possibly build on that instead of looking for things that might divide us.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Its diverse lets talk about it. Currently listening To that smooth and silky Bossa Nova beat....... you and me slow dancing to some Bossa Nova as we drift away lost in a kiss.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmXw7zJFDr0

If you are moved by this we GOTTA talk.....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X66I35Q4BS0

50 Shades of Grey trilogy? I'm not so sure what all the hub-bub is all about. Its really just a poorly written romance novel with some BDSM thrown in. Now, what it says about women who just love this book is another thing entirely. Ladies? Secret desires?

For those of us that can see the beauty in Manhattan beyond the concrete, asphalt and steel.....
http://vimeo.com/43561025

Food wise my latest kick is making my own hummus and pita chips......theres no snack better! Sriracha! WOW curried pearl barley instead of rice! I love soup especially pho and miso ramen! Eating tasty snacks while watching the Red Sox, Patriots and Bruins play.

I am interested in architecture, arts, music, documentary, social & environmental issues. also love traveling, hiking and biking. I like the mountains and the beach.

this is an amazing mini vacation...
http://freecabinporn.com/
Its not porn ladies its all things cabin geesssss!

R.I.P Robin Williams ... you gave the world so much joy, you will be remembered!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Charcuterie. Buffalo wings, creme brulee, and a good steak salad are firm food staples. Being the consummate kid at heart, throwing a football in a spiral, and pigtails. I believe in sensuality and intimacy. That there is still beauty to be found in this world: tropical fish at the pet store, a great glass of wine, fresh tomatoes and herbs from the garden, the lazy sun on one’s skin, a worn-in ball cap, wrought iron gates and railings, a jazz album playing slow and low, your soft pillow lips, the smell of cut grass, and the sound of genuine deep belly laughter.
And....
Coffee
An excellent book
$1 oyster happy hours
Rosebud salve
Yelp
Putting sriracha sauce on everything.

Ok thats more than six things, life is a buffet!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The beach, a cool breeze, a cooler full of Stella beer and looking over at you laying next to me smiling back at me smelling like coconut suntan oil...

Why can't I have a penguin as a pet?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking about making dinner together, perhaps cajun shrimp over bowtie pasta with an nice cold Pinot Grigio. Followed by some slow dancing on my brick terrace under the stars to some Maxwell. Where I can't help but nibble on your neck and ears for dessert....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
So here we are, men and women looking for relationships. I have developed some thoughts, tho not really private, about the dynamic between men and women: at their very core women are emotional and men are physical. Most tensions in relationships come from women wanting men to be more emotional and men wanting women to be more physical. If more time was spent between couples celebrating what the other offered instead of trying to make someone conform to behavior that is in conflict with their very core we'd all be happier. Men are most successful in relationships when we operate from a position of strength. Men are aggressive, rational, dominant, and objective. Ladies embrace that. Women are intuitive, and subjective and value love, communication, beauty, and relationships. As Men we need to be more conscious of that and embrace it as well.
To much time is spent between women and men in relationships where they agonize over what the other is not instead of celebrating what it is they offer.
Just my thoughts, not very private but perhaps it may be cause for discussion.

What do you think?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your adventurous, passionate, down to earth and if your short a good climber. You've gotten this far and you think you might enjoy this particular cocktail of humanity.

And if this kind of music moves and speaks to you, we share the same passion.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbVjEjqeW8Y&list=RDxbVjEjqeW8Y#t=1151
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"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude."
DENIS WAITLEY

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“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
― Rumi
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Be here now.

Dont let your mind get weary
And confused your will be still, dont try
Dont let your heart get heavy
Child, inside you theres a strength that lies

Dont let your soul get lonely
Child, its only time, it will go by
Dont look for love in faces, places
Its in you thats where youll find kindness

Dont lose your faith in me
And I will try not to lose faith in you
Dont put your trust in walls
Cause walls will only crush you when they fall.

Be here now.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hEk-k68jZc