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WISDOM?

WELL... LEVELS OF WISDOM CANNOT BE ANALYZED BY WAT ONE SAYS... BUT MORE FROM HOW MUCH OF THAT HE/SHE ACTUALLY PRACTISES...
WISDOM IS ACTUALLY ONE'S ASSET, THROUGH WHICH HE/SHE MAKES LIFE OR D PATH TOWARDS GOAL EASIER FOR HIM/HERSELF OR FOR THOSE HE/SHE LOVES OR CARES... IN GENERAL PEOPLE'S IDEA OF WISDOM MAY VARY FROM PERSON TO PERSON... BUT D BASIC PURPOSE OF WISDOM IS TO KEEP ONESELF INTACT N ALIVE AMIDST ALL ADVERSITIES WITH HEAD HELD HIGH... N IF ONE IS NOT DOING THAT OR FOR SOME REASON IS NOT BEING ABLE TO DO THAT, THEN ALL D KNOWLEDGE OR WISDOM THAT HE/SHE POSSES IS NOTHING MORE THAN GARBAGE OR JUST USELESS.

ANALYZING ONE'S WISDOM OR A PERSON'S WISDOM LEVEL IS NOT A CRITERIA OR CLAUSE FOR BEFRIENDING SOMEONE; AT LEAST NOT FOR ME... FOR ME FRIENDSHIP IS SOMETHING THAT HAPPENS ON ITS OWN... FOR E.G. 2 PEOPLE MEET... APPRECIATE EACH OTHER, EACH OTHER'S THOUGHTS N EACH OTHER AS A PERSON... DEVELOPS LIKING FOR ONE ANOTHER... N D BOND IS ESTABLISHED

IF A PERSON LACKS MATURITY, HOW CAN HE IMPLEMENT IT IN HIS LIFE?... WELL... TO BE HONEST, IF D PERSON LACKS IT, HE REALLY CANT IMPLEMENT IT IN HIS LIFE...
AS I SEE... NO ONE ACTUALLY LACKS TRUE MATURITY (I MEAN AT LEAST AFTER A PARTICULAR AGE OR EXPERIENCE)... IT'S JUST THAT THEY DONT WANNA SEE OR DONT KNOW HOW OR DONT REALLY WANT TO IMPLEMENT IT IN LIFE FOR SOME REASON OR ANOTHER...
HENCE PEOPLE MOSTLY END UP PLEASING THEMSELVES THINKING OF SELF AS MATURE IN SPITE OF ALL THEIR FOLLIES...

IT TAKES A LOT TO ACHEIVE TRUE WISDOM... N D FIRST MOST ESSENTIAL THING IS TO RISE ABOVE ONE'S SENSES N THOUGHTS... TO HAVE THEM IN CONTROL OF SELF N NOT LETTING SELF BEING CONTROLLED BY THEM

WELL... LEVELS OF WISDOM CANNOT BE ANALYZED BY WAT ONE SAYS...BUT MORE FROM HOW MUCH OF THAT HE/SHE ACTUALLY PRACTISES...
WISDOM IS ACTUALLY ONE'S ASSET, THROUGH WHICH HE/SHE MAKES LIFE ORD PATH TOWARDS GOAL EASIER FOR HIM/HERSELF OR FOR THOSE HE/SHELOVES OR CARES... IN GENERAL PEOPLE'S IDEA OF WISDOM MAY VARY FROMPERSON TO PERSON... BUT D BASIC PURPOSE OF WISDOM IS TO KEEPONESELF INTACT N ALIVE AMIDST ALL ADVERSITIES WITH HEAD HELDHIGH... N IF ONE IS NOT DOING THAT OR FOR SOME REASON IS NOT BEINGABLE TO DO THAT, THEN ALL D KNOWLEDGE OR WISDOM THAT HE/SHE POSSESIS NOTHING MORE THAN GARBAGE OR JUST USELESS.

ANALYZING ONE'S WISDOM OR A PERSON'S WISDOM LEVEL IS NOT ACRITERIA OR CLAUSE FOR BEFRIENDING SOMEONE; AT LEAST NOT FOR ME...FOR ME FRIENDSHIP IS SOMETHING THAT HAPPENS ON ITS OWN... FOR E.G.2 PEOPLE MEET... APPRECIATE EACH OTHER, EACH OTHER'S THOUGHTS NEACH OTHER AS A PERSON... DEVELOPS LIKING FOR ONE ANOTHER... N DBOND IS ESTABLISHED

IF A PERSON LACKS MATURITY, HOW CAN HE IMPLEMENT IT IN HISLIFE?... WELL... TO BE HONEST, IF D PERSON LACKS IT, HE REALLY CANTIMPLEMENT IT IN HIS LIFE...
AS I SEE... NO ONE ACTUALLY LACKS TRUE MATURITY (I MEAN AT LEASTAFTER A PARTICULAR AGE OR EXPERIENCE)... IT'S JUST THAT THEY DONTWANNA SEE OR DONT KNOW HOW OR DONT REALLY WANT TO IMPLEMENT IT INLIFE FOR SOME REASON OR ANOTHER...
HENCE PEOPLE MOSTLY END UP PLEASING THEMSELVES THINKING OF SELF ASMATURE IN SPITE OF ALL THEIR FOLLIES...

IT TAKES A LOT TO ACHEIVE TRUE WISDOM... N D FIRST MOSTESSENTIAL THING IS TO RISE ABOVE ONE'S SENSES N THOUGHTS... TO HAVETHEM IN CONTROL OF SELF N NOT LETTING SELF BEING CONTROLLED BYTHEM

WISDOM?

TRUE BELIEF

When you talk about something combining power, ability, competence and fairness together and incorruptible too, may be you searched for them at wrong places, as you forgot that these are the qualities present right there in you. Its just the matter of trusting those qualities or what they would bring along to us. There is a thing called self belief & that cannot be enforced but comes out naturally when you start respecting & believing your inherent qualities. Why to search for it all around you when its right there inside you. Nothing is guaranted in this world, not even our next moment but when you wanna acheive something, all you got to do is blend these qualities of yours with a bit of hope. I agree, counting on hope alone is cowardice, but blending it with your beliefs & moving ahead is courage. Look when you wanna go high, then you need to get rid of the fear of fall. Practicality is essential as it brings stablity along itself. But remember that the greatest risk in life, is not taking risk at all. Finally it's all upon us, how we wanna look upon ourselves at the end of the day. At last all i would say is, if you wanna achieve something then trust your instincts & go for it. Never think, what people would say or where would you stand if you lose, you are answerable only to yourself & trust me there's nothing great than trying even though you may fail for its still worth more than carrying regret towards the end of your life that if only i would have tried. Anyways thats my way of living; you have a life of your own, so choose or take a constructive stance that suits you the best; but whatever u choose, have complete belief & trust in it for they are the most essential things to live.

When you talk about something combining power, ability,competence and fairness together and incorruptible too, may be yousearched for them at wrong places, as you forgot that these are thequalities present right there in you. Its just the matter oftrusting those qualities or what they would bring along to us.There is a thing called self belief & that cannot be enforcedbut comes out naturally when you start respecting & believingyour inherent qualities. Why to search for it all around you whenits right there inside you. Nothing is guaranted in this world, noteven our next moment but when you wanna acheive something, all yougot to do is blend these qualities of yours with a bit of hope. Iagree, counting on hope alone is cowardice, but blending it withyour beliefs & moving ahead is courage. Look when you wanna gohigh, then you need to get rid of the fear of fall. Practicality isessential as it brings stablity along itself. But remember that thegreatest risk in life, is not taking risk at all. Finally it's allupon us, how we wanna look upon ourselves at the end of the day. Atlast all i would say is, if you wanna achieve something then trustyour instincts & go for it. Never think, what people would sayor where would you stand if you lose, you are answerable only toyourself & trust me there's nothing great than trying eventhough you may fail for its still worth more than carrying regrettowards the end of your life that if only i would have tried.Anyways thats my way of living; you have a life of your own, sochoose or take a constructive stance that suits you the best; butwhatever u choose, have complete belief & trust in it for theyare the most essential things to live.

TRUE BELIEF

HOW LONG DOES LOVE EXIST ?

One thing or one word that irrespective of your age makes your adrenaline rush, eyes glitter or brings a mysterious smile on your face is LOVE.But honestly answer yourself, how long as per you does love exist or when does love end? Love exists till you have the desire to have someone or the fear that you might loose the person. After marriage the desire to have is gone, as the person already belongs to you & with passage of time even the fear is lost, as people tend to take each other for granted. Thats the reason why most of the love marriages fail. Do you know what folly people make? They think they are in love, while actually they aren't. For true love is something well above this game of having or loosing. Its merely the desire of two hearts of staying together forever against all odds. People actually, are more in love with the feeling of being in love & hence end up fooling themselves or each other. Ya, even i have never been in love. But never let that passion filled side of yours get lost in this world, for its the only thing that will always remind you of your worthiness, make you stand high above the crowd & help you accomplish your dreams sooner or later. ALWAYS REMEMBER: THE ONLY THING THATS MAKING THIS WORLD RUN IS HOPE & BELIEF.

One thing or one word that irrespective of your age makes youradrenaline rush, eyes glitter or brings a mysterious smile on yourface is LOVE.But honestly answer yourself, how long as per you doeslove exist or when does love end? Love exists till you have thedesire to have someone or the fear that you might loose the person.After marriage the desire to have is gone, as the person alreadybelongs to you & with passage of time even the fear is lost, aspeople tend to take each other for granted. Thats the reason whymost of the love marriages fail. Do you know what folly peoplemake? They think they are in love, while actually they aren't. Fortrue love is something well above this game of having or loosing.Its merely the desire of two hearts of staying together foreveragainst all odds. People actually, are more in love with thefeeling of being in love & hence end up fooling themselves oreach other. Ya, even i have never been in love. But never let thatpassion filled side of yours get lost in this world, for its theonly thing that will always remind you of your worthiness, make youstand high above the crowd & help you accomplish your dreamssooner or later. ALWAYS REMEMBER: THE ONLY THING THATS MAKING THISWORLD RUN IS HOPE & BELIEF.

HOW LONG DOES LOVE EXIST ?
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