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loveofsoul

24 F West College Corner, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 13
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
just need to add i am pregnant. i am due december 5th. i can't wait to meet my son, after all, he's only been pulverizing my insides and bladder for a few months now haha :)

okay this is really outdated and boring but i'll leave it up for a basic idea of things. but basically, i am usually a hyperactive nutcase that has trouble shutting up. well not always hyper, but still have a problem shutting up, im mostly equal with what you put out when you first talk to me. if you're more quiet or put 1-2 worded 'sentences' i will a few times to see if you will speak up. if not, i'll quit talking to you, so i give you a chance. if you talk in 5 mile long paragraphs, i likely will too. so my talkativity often depends on just how talkative you yourself are. if you're looking for casual sex, im likely not interested in you in the slightest. for a male, you'd have to be pretty hot and with a big wiener for me to consider it HAH just kidding. i pretty much will pass off casual sex in your interests as you not being a serious or trustworthy person, so take note of that. i don't jump headfirst in to relationships, unless we mutually can agree upon/feel that we have clicked on another level, as though we have known each other years. meaning, just because you say "oh my god i feel like i've known you my whole life" doesn't mean i'm going to say "oh my god me too lets get married and put more children in to a world where theres a million children with a million struggles where we could help them but want to make one of our own to probably put through hell" thats not to say im an ass or have a bad view on life, just a little taste of how i see things, if i could adopt, that would be my first option. with a male, i'd prefer that be the option if our relationship got that serious. with a female, if you wanna get knocked up by someone go ahead if i feel the relationship, i will act as a parent to that child. if i dont feel the relationship, i'd still offer it, but it wouldn't be the same knowing at any moment that kid was gonna go away, so there might be bitter moments but never towards or infront of a child. i recently acquired my high school diploma via homeschooling for the 3 credits i needed to graduate. and i'm now enrolled in the art institute of pittsburgh - online division for a bachelors degree in media arts and animation. the main reason i don't capitalize things when i can is not really the convience, but for the informal feel of it. to try to show that im more of a relaxed person. though yes, i can be very lazy. i can also be cocky. i have my own apartment, through income based housing, which means as of right now until i can get a job, which hopefully will be in less than a month, i live off foodstamps and any other help i can recieve. that's not to be taken as me being a leech, i very much so do not enjoy relying on others to take care of me basically. thats also not to say i dont like presents, if you feel like buying me one haha i can appreciate things like that through a lot of reflection on how i've grown and a lot of time to see how things really are. and from that im going to go in to what im really looking for. i am looking for people to date. NOT saying im going to be in a relationship with many people, i take dating as the courting aspect. pre being with someone so in otherwords, talking somewhat seriously in the search to find someone most compatible with me. which means NO you are not the only person i'm talking to so don't be offended if i say so to you, that is sheer respect. i could be your every day average whore talk to 50 people, lead you on then decide i want to be with this person when you and i have been talking seriously as well and blind sight you with a oh hey im with someone, but i wont do that to someone. i may not tell you who im talking to or whatever, but you will be aware you are not the only person i am talking to in the quest for someone compatible with me to try and see if the compatibility is true. a fair explanation to point out, i have friends when i'm in a relationship and will not change that if you dislike it, but i dont talk to other people the same way i talk with who im with. i dont share all of the same things physically (kissing/sex blah blah) with someone that isn't the person i'm with. yes i hug my friends, regardless of gender. sometimes i try to cuddle up with my best friend as a comfort blanket (doesn't happen much these days) but thats the drawn line. if you get offended that i wont refer to you solely as my best friend and everything else, if you want to try with me you will have to get over that or under it one. meaning i wont call solely you certain titles unless they are relationship specific. or i wont reduce my actual closest friends from being my best friends down to just close friend or friend titles because you want that title reserved to you as well. thats greedy. i wouldn't do that to you and expect you not to do that to me. and my BEST friend is my BEST friend. dont like it, shove off. :3 now that im sure i've made myself sound like a pompous ass i must reassure you im not, though the easiest way to find out is talk to me. so why dont you hit that message button, and find out if we're compatible?

I enjoy music, mostly all kinds though there is some I do not like. I write poetry, but do not share it often. It is more of an emotional outlet. I do have a rough past but am trying to make the best of it. I love animals. I'm really fond of reptiles but do not have any. I'm looking to find hopefully a long-term relationship but you don't have to be seeking that to talk to me. I am really terrible about talking about myself, I'd much rather hear about you first. It takes me a little to open up, sometimes anyway. It all depends on the topic for what I will talk about immediately without having to really trust you. I hope I don't sound really negative, but actually I try to be a really fun person. I'll wear santa hats in the middle of summer or just randomly during the christmas season through the mall just to get a smile out of someone. ^_^ One thing I must tell you no I'm not by any means the skinniest girl. I weigh 290 lbs and am working on losing it. So if you're not shallow and are still interested thats awesome. ^_^ I love hanging out with my best friend Samantha, she is like family to me so she is very important in my life. Well I hope if you're interested you message me. ^_^

by the way, if you "tlk lyk dis" dont bother. i find it rather annoying and unattractive.
What I’m doing with my life
i have finally achieved my legitimate high school diploma, and am now enrolled in the art institute of pittsburgh's online division for an associates degree in graphic design, i was intending to pursue a bachelors degree in media arts and animation, but my high school gpa fucked that up. so now i must wait until i bring that up to change what i'm going to school for, but if not i'll just go back to get my bachelors in media arts. i'm still in those classes. other than that, i'm currently actively seeking employment, as i do not drive, my neighbor and i are working together to find a job together so i can ride with her to work. she's pretty chill. :3
I’m really good at
starting to ask people questions then break off mid question and answer myself and either get laughed at for it or get asked what the hell i was talking about XD also, im really good at intending only to say something brief and wind up writing miles upon miles of words (figuratively, but see the above first paragraph in the my self summary, i just wrote it a few moments ago all in one go, anything below it in that section was old condensed, and trying to suck up basically. put out the sweet, then show the sour. and see if people stay or run the other way haha. im also pretty good at being a smartass, usually entirely unintended. you can tell when i think it through first XD hmm theres other things, but whats life without at least a few surprises (take this how you will XD)
The first things people usually notice about me
eh it varies from person to person. whats the first thing you notice about me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
currently im pretty into the twilight series and harry potter, but thats just because i generally read fantasy type books. but my favorite book actually is a book called the woman who loved reindeer. if you've never heard of it, don't judge it by the title. check it out it's really good :D

i have a lot of movies i like but top two right now are edward scizzorhands and hocus pocus.

i dont really watch a lot of tv but i like family guy and the simpsons. and on occasion glee. i also like anime.

my two favorite bands are the cranberries and alice in chains (old school with layne) but i listen to just about everything. country not so much but sometimes i do listen to it too.

hmmm food. i like a lot of it but my favorites have to be chinese (or any oriental food for that matter) and pizza.
The six things I could never do without
music, family, friends, my best friend, my cat, and my grandma! i know two of those fall under already listed categories but they're listed because they're that important
I spend a lot of time thinking about
an update here is i also find myself reflecting a lot on life, be it mine or others. i spend a lot of time alone

honestly i dont spend a lot of time thinking about any one thing. if i have to pick two things i think about the most its my best friend samantha and my grandma. samantha just because she's pretty much the most awesome person i know and my grandma because i love her to death and dont get to see her as much as i used to. without those two people i'd be nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
usually sitting at home with my cat then sometimes a friend will come over...or sometimes i'll go over to a neighbors, but i just typically sit here bored.

used to be i'd be out somewhere be it the clubs or a friends house but now i spend a lot of time sitting at home just because i have nothing to do and dont have my license so that puts a damper on things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hm well theres nothing too private about me im pretty open about most things. but i guess if i had to pick something i guess it would be that im terrified of dying even though i know its going to happen one way or another
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you know you should just doo eeeeeeeeeet :P no, seriously, just do it. :P