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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:22pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you emotionally available and ready for real love? These days it seems so many aren't, and are only interested in an activity partner or playthings.

There is great healing available to all of us when we’re ready for it—the healing of love and forgiveness, and letting go of what we can’t control and acceptance and surrender to “what is.”

But we have to “be willing to be willing” to open our hearts and minds to the healing light and love, and to the possibility that on some deep level we can’t understand at the time with our rational minds, everything is working in some way for our ultimate higher good.
~Nancy J. Wasson, PhD

Do these words ring true in your head and heart? Are you now ready for real love? Are you tired of saying you should have great love in your life now but you haven't found in yet? So now, here we are, looking for it. Could we find that love together?

I'm looking to find that special lovely lady to build a legendary friendship and deeply loving relationship with--someone like me with an open mind and heart, and a giving nature, who wants to love fully--hopefully a sensuous soul mate who is sensitive to the feelings and needs of others, and does openly and honestly share her needs and feelings as well. Together we can build the love of a lifetime.

I am a very honoring, loyal, friendly, cheerful, compassionate, affectionate, passionate, romantic and physical man, and want such qualities in my partner, so we can continuously ignite each other's passions and delight in each other’s presence and lives in most every way. Have you been ignited and delighted lately? We could be making every day like Valentine's Day together!

Considered to be attractive, fit, friendly, handy and versatile, I am a "Jack of all Trades", animal trainer and lover and music addict, with professional experience as an actor, sales guy, radio announcer, voice-over artist, photographer, journalist, handyman and office worker. I am adventurous, witty, intellectually stimulating, fun-loving, spiritual and very open-minded in every regard. And I also try to espouse and practice the values I learned years ago as a boy scout--to be "trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent."

Able to rise to any occasion, I can be your perfect companion to entertain and please. I have a warm and rich spirit, a grateful nature and warm heart to share. Playful and with a great sense of humor, I am always looking to make new friends and to expand my conscious experience!

I am youthfully young at heart so I'm always open to new people, possibilities and experiences of life. I enjoy the arts of Love and in-depth relationships, kissing, cuddling and holding hands, massages, playing in water and outdoors, music, photography, nature, my terrier Jack, animals and wildlife, art, science, technology, dramatics, communicating, the beach, fixing things as a handyman, playing and planting in the dirt, astrology, target shooting, camping and all sorts of new things. I have a page at fb as billschnier where you can find out more, become a friend quickly or message me there.

I'd really love to find the love of my life and best friend, so we can celebrate each other and make each day a gift we share together.

And although I would prefer a loving, committed and monogamous relationship with one special lady, I am also open to ideas of exploring other kinds of alternative friendship possibilities with the right woman, should that be the way things manifest for us. Life is short and we all need friends, so that could be considered.

A favorite quote:
“When we love, we are automatically placing ourselves within an attitudinal and behavioral context that leads to an unfoldment of events at the highest level of good for everyone involved. We don't always know what that unfoldment would look like, but we don't need to. God will do his part if we do ours. Our only job in every situation is to merely let go of our resistance to love.”
~Marianne Williamson
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to find my best friend, my soul-mate and the love of my life--a work in progress! Care to help in the exploration? Are you really ready for love?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Entertaining, pleasing, sharing and understanding...being a good partner, talker and listener, kissing, cuddling, giving massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, eyes and voice seem to please. Dogs and cats really like me, and kids do too--maybe because I still have a lot of puppy and kid in me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes in music? I listen to just about everything! Best to check out my billschnier fb page for more of me, or for many awesome examples of the music I enjoy.

Favorite movies? Avatar, Ondine, Don Juan DeMarco, Venus, Love Actually, Bladerunner, Henry & June, Harry & Tonto, and many many more.

I recently read "The Art of Racing in the Rain" by Garth Stein and absolutely loved it and similar books.
"50 Shades" was quite interesting, as are others in that genre. Other books that I enjoy reading? Psychology and human relationship books, and how-to books...too many to list.

Food? Anything that doesn't still wiggle too much. As Andrew Zimern says, "If it looks good, eat it!"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, Love, intimacy, communication, music, and animals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. much better life would be with the new love of my life in it, and she being my best friend for life. Could that be you, Dear Reader?

...are all the ladies I'd be most compatible with living at least a hundred miles away from me?

"You're great but you're not there when I go to bed at night or get up in the morning. You don't make me a cup of tea after a hard day at work, or rub my back in the bath. I'm sick of being lonely. Is that so wrong? "
~Eleanor Prescott, Alice Brown's Lessons in the Curious Art of Dating
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Somewhere, doing something, and wishing it was on a beach.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Call me and I'll probably tell you anything. I'm quite open and honest when encouraged. Want my number? Let me know and I'll give it to you.
You should message me if
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You think it could be interesting and fun, and you'd like to communicate to discover what life, love and spirituality can become when we find a special partner to share them with.

"If you want to know where your heart is, look at where your mind goes when it wanders."
~ Anonymous