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lovestopsfear

38 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:26pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Construction
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Mindful, pensive, free thinking, affectionate, anarchistic, fixer of all things. Wondering why I'm in nyc but trying to enjoy the ride.

I love you music and dancing! Clubs, house parties, in the kitchen, head bobbin and finger tappin on the subway, I am notably expressive when I'm dancing, and it juxtaposes my laid back persona.

Traveling is life at its best. I often hitchhike and camp. Adventure begins beyond the comfort zone. Can you hang?

My body was molded from cross-country running, soccer, and building.

In my teens, I was busted for shoplifting, did community service, and then won a humanitarian award. I <3 quotes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Many days I am working with my hands, building, fixing or making improvements in my home or someone else's. I'm a self-employed handyperson/maintenance fella. I enjoy a lot of free time to study, be a father, meet new people, and engage in activism--the good life.

Learning massage, public speaking, writing, djing, bass guitar.

Recently in Hungary, Germany, Czech, Holland, Poland, and Mexico (learning Espanol). Other forms of travel include occasional psychotropic and medicinal plants.

My little daughter is 3 years old, and shes pretty fantastic. Coparenting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being mindful, giving a shit, understanding complexity and shades of grey, adapting, kissing, relating to dogs and cats, dancing, living simply, fixing stuff, hitchhiking, being resourceful, eating, driving for hours, persistence, not stressing, collecting and sharing music, scrabble, guessing your age, catching food in my mouth,
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hair does different things every day. sometimes it stands straight up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't know about you, but this is my favorite section. because I see what media people value. So I'm going to be comprehensive for the purpose of turning YOU onto some cool shit...

Books: Ishmael, Tao Te Ching, Tao of Pooh, Against Empire, Awakening Spirits, Ecotopia, Life After Life, We Don't Die, Mutant Message Downunder, Savages, Fifth Sacred Thing, Monkey Wrench Gang, A Language Older than Words, Meeting Jesus Again For the First Time, The Peaceful Warrior, The Holographic Universe, The Turning Point, Autobiography of Malcolm X, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Dumbing Us Down, Teenage Liberation Handbook, Continuum Concept, Siddhartha, Catch-22, Dharma Bums, Nonviolent Communication, Brave New World, 1984, We, The Dispossessed, dictionary

Movies: Baraka, V for Vendetta, Fight Club, The Matrix, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Dune, The Shining (anything Kubrick), Contact, Airplane, Twelve Monkeys, American Beauty, Waking Life, I Heart Huckabees, Shawshank Redemption, Emerald Forest, Spirited Away, Whale Rider, Mists of Avalon, Bladerunner, Cloud Atlas, Platoon, JFK (anything Oliver Stone), District 9, Samsara, Idiocracy, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Schindlers List, The Pianist, The Color Purple, Hunger Games, Children of Men, Donnie Darko, Samsara, anything Coen Brothers, Tampopo, Cool Hand Luke

Documentaries: The Corporation, The Take, Loose Change, The Power of Community, What a Way to Go, An Inconvenient Truth, Life After Life, Capitalism: A Love Story, Inside Job, Zeitgeist, 9/11 Mysteries, Blueprint for Truth, Bombies, The Day My God Died, Hiroshima and Nagasaki Speak, Wild & Wonderful Whites of West Virginia

Music: world/folk music, bluegrass, electronic, ambient, downtempo, mashups, swing, big band, sissy bounce, funk, dub, RnB, soul, disco, reggae, minimal EDM, electropop, electroswing, organ and piano jazz, classical... Herbie Hancock, Ratatat, The Police, Luke Vibert, The Budos Band, Boards of Canada, Crystal Castles, Aphex Twin, Deadmau5, Basinski, The Knife, Miles Davis, The Meters, Dead Prez, Us3, The Flashbulb, Mad Professor, Nightmares on Wax, Fila Brasillia, Fela Kuti, Girl Talk, Funkadelic/Parliament, Grant Green, Ronnie Foster, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, old Metallica, Woodie Guthrie, Phil Ochs, Johnny Cash, Stevie Wonder, Beck, Detektivbyran, MGMT, Django Reinhardt, M.I.A., Knxwledge, Tito Puente, The Xx, The Meters, Tipsy, Dead Prez, Beirut, Andres Segovia, Vince Guaraldi, John Fahey, E*Vax, Beats Antique, Erik Satie, Chopin, Dvorak, Daft Punk, Skrillex

Food: my favs: Indian and Thai and Mexican. dark chocolate, yogurt and granola, honey and tahini on toast, salty avocados, sprouts, fresh garden tomatoes, cherries right off the tree, steamed greens with oil and vinegar, cashews, bran muffins, blueberries with ice cream and biscuits, barbecue anything. any kind of root veggie especially baked or in soups, jasmine rice, salmon

Booze: India Pale Ale, White Russian, Vodka Tonic, Margarita, Hot Toddie

Comics: Bill Hicks, George Carlin, Robin Williams, Jim Gaffigan,

https://soundcloud.com/kodomo/04-concept-1
https://soundcloud.com/viveretro/eddy-grant-electric-avenue
https://soundcloud.com/blackrattt/the-meters-cissy-strut
https://soundcloud.com/erik-satie/gymnopedie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Some things I regard highly:
Internet
Power tools
IPAs
Sex
Nature
Breaking rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
culture change and activism strategies, what happens after physical death, Robin Hood type fantasies, industrial collapse/peak oil, what my daughter is newly discovering, how tragic it is when friends and loved ones fight each other, fukushima radiation, why women choose asshole guys, aliens, psychic skills, what the universe is trying to tell me, why people aren't more humble,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing. Bars or clubs with dancefloors and a DJ. I'm also content to stay home, shoot the shit with my hilarious homies, or watch a movie or a show, or read by the fire. Friday and Saturday just happen to be the normal big dance nights, but there are perfectly good other nights of the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I say: "Woot!"
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just do it. If you are particularly excited about going dancing, sharing music, activism, building (or learning how to), please please please reach out! Bonus points if you hitchhike.