Remember in our 20's when it was about how we felt about that person? The potential? The attraction? The excitement? I want that back!
I value intelligence most of all. Smart girls are the best. Someone who is a free thinker, and does not let society make decisions for her.
I think tolerance is very important, and I value open-minds. One does not need to agree with everyone, but I think it is important to listen, and decide for oneself.