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loveyouselfmore

23 / F / bisexual / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Ethnicity
Height
4' 9" (1.44m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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I am silly, paranoid, and bright-eyed.

My Self-Summary

How does one summarize themselves? I never do a good job at it. Partly because I learn new things about myself all the time. But I guess I shall it a shot.
I love art. I am an artist and a writer. Currently not working on any visual art, though. Just writing, a lot. A book.
I get easily excited.

I am in my head a lot.
I love many things, I used to have a list of all of them.
I see beauty in everything.
I am extremely passionate. An animal lover, bookworm and vegan

My current award things describe me pretty well.

What I’m doing with my life

Writing a book(or taking a break from writing that book) Writing essays, poems, blogs, comics....
And just writing a lot in general.
Volunteering at my local feminist bookstore
Rollerskating-I am awful at it, but its fun. Mostly I skate in my kitchen
Cooking
Making stuff for awesome people and pouches.
I really want to start singing again. So Singing. I want to start a really awesome cover group but haven't found two girls to join me yet. Yet
Spending tons of time with my puppy, Gabe. He rocks, and I love him. He is currently lying on the couch with his belly in the air.

I’m really good at

Caring. I care, a lot. Sometimes to the point where it consumes me.
Art, writing.
Cuddling-I give great hugs. I have won awards for my hugs on several different occasions.
Getting really excited about something. I tend to throw myself into stuff(art, a book or subject, anything creative, or a way to better my life)
Dancing really crazy like no one is watching(and sometimes hurting people while doing so)

The first things people usually notice about me

that I am short.
Possibly that I have an expressive face
I am a fuzzball.
Possibly stripped socks or my big boots?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books-Cunt by Inga Muscio, Moominpapa at Sea by Tove Jansson, The Red Notebook by Paul Auster, The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera(even though he is horribly misogynistic I love his books) No One Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July, Love Invents Us by Amy Bloom. You're an Animal, Viskovitz! by Alessandro Boffa...and many more
Always open to recommendations. I love them!

Movie- Hedwig and the Angry Inch, You and Me and Everyone We Know, The Picture of Dorian Gray, Science of Sleep, Benny& Joon, Brain Donors, old Steve Martin movies, muppet movies, Camp!, Student Bodies, Itty Bitty Titty Committee, horror moives, anything silly(Get Over It!)

Music-
Duncan Sheik
Nick Drake, Fionn Regan, Ani DiFranco, The New Pornographers, Andrew Bird, Sergio Mendes, Tilly and the Wall, Sufjan Stevens, Tom Waits, Jay Brannan, Rilo Kiley, Los Campesinos!, female jazz vocalists

Food-
Lots. Vegan fare. Moo Shu(but good Chinese food is hard to find) Thai, mushrooms, veggies, almost all fruits. Pizza, risotto, delicious burritos and enchiladas. Desserts. I love pastries. Spicy food, my nose runs like crazy and it hurts, but is totally worth it.
trail mix
chocolate, chocolate and chocolate

The six things I could never do without

Gabe(my pup)
love(friends, family, previously mentioned canine, romantic interest)
art(in all forms including music, literature and my own creations)
food

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Art, literature, folklore, food(cooking! recipes! nutrition!) Life, death, connections, ties, memories.
gender, sex, sexuality, the future, community, relationships, dreams, ghosts, time, love

On a typical Friday night I am

alive.
whatever I want!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I go through everything in my head over and over again so I will not forget it. It keeps me from sleeping, but my memory is insanely amazing. (Also, when I do not remember something it worries me to no end. Forgetting is the scariest thing.)

You should message me if

You want to. I think you should.

If you want a new friend, I could be one! If you want to show me some awesome places, or just go exploring.
If you are rad and want to go on awesome fun dates with me!
If you know me, or would like to.
Please do not message me if all you have to say is I am cute. I know, I know. Or if you think I look very young, or just to comment on my height. Or if you just want to get in my pants. That will not happen

But if you want bubble tea, fried pies, dancing around the city, to talk about feminism and eat doughnuts, I am ALL for that.