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lovingkindness4

60 New York, NY Woman

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Taken by Nanfu Wong.

Sarah and I, 11/12

My current wheelchair dance class, after performance in June, 2012.

After a dance performance. I'm in green. Alice is a professional dancer. I get to use her old, awesome wheelchair.

Roatan, Honduras Diving For Life

If it's cold enough for a wetsuit and hat, why am I in my pool? Doing physical therapy with my dog with leg cancer. Eventually, though, I got that she was asking the same question.

Self portrait 11/14/11.

Taken by my friend Melanie Long.

NYC pride in the 80s. I'm in the red shirt.