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37 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:46pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm really sweet, but I have an edge. I'm quick witted, and I love a man who is just as quick witted as me. I'm incredibly emotionally intelligent (does that sound braggy? It's not meant to be braggy). When people talk about things with intensity I feel confused and immediately start to wonder what is so important that makes this so intense. I don't take food pictures. I really love pugs and if it was a totally normal thing to do I'd live in a forest with like 9 million of them. I'm compassionate, empathetic, and love people who make it very easy for me to be around them.

I would be happy to find a serious relationship with someone loving, playful (I'm not goofy, but I'm playful) and affectionate whom I adore, in an ideal world. I love and appreciate a man with an intuitive knowledge of his inside voice and knowing how to use it, who is self aware, has an awareness of others and their personal space, a man who values keeping his word, and who understands and considers how his actions affect other people. If you are super handsome that isn't going to hurt (obviously).

* By the way, I'm 42 years old and I hate the feeling of lying .... but I don't feel good getting messages from guys who look like my dad (no judging), so putting this age felt like the lesser of two options, neither of which felt great.
What I’m doing with my life
Living my life to the most medium. I live close on the border of Hancock Park and Koreatown and I have my own small business doing something creative. I wrote and performed comedy for a long time, and I transitioned from performing to working behind the scenes - I work with a range of creative types from directors, photographers, comedy people to rappers to skateboarders to regular actors and advertising agencies. I go boxing 4x a week and I love it, but I am not a butchy lady. I also am still very excited about email, even though it's not 1994.
I’m really good at
Relating to other people. Finding humor in almost everything, which I find makes my life more fun and, and, well, fun, and having a good time during the process. I am also a good spelar.
The first things people usually notice about me
Freckles. I have them. Or maybe something I said, that is not uncommon. Mostly, how much I am living my life to the medium.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dr. Suess is one of my favorites of all time. I like books like Letters From a Nut all the way to The Glass Castle. I also really like reading psychology books about how we process our thoughts and feelings etc. I can get pretty into that. I like a lot of hip hop and have been listening to (and working around) hip hop and music for a long time. I also grew up on classic rock and reggae / dancehall. I like all kinds of music though - other than Country and crazy techno music. I love E.T., and I really liked Borat.
The six things I could never do without
People I get that 'funny' feeling just being around- like I can say or do anything around them. I love and really appreciate that feeling.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to remember what i'm supposed to be thinking about again.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got kicked out of my own bat mitzvah but i'm not that private about that. I can be a bit shy with new people.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to, especially since I generally don't send first messages... not because I'm an asshole but because I can be a bit old fashioned in that way and it feels better.
A real committed relationship is something you want in your life at this time.
Your words and actions match.

*Also, I'm not really interested in texting and messaging anyone forever. If I reply to messages I'll probably like being asked to meet in person eventually.