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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I consider myself to be a dynamic, wicked smart and forthright person.

I appreciate integrity, empathy and absurdity. I enjoy my life and I am looking for an amazing and special someone to share it with.

I'm a recovering audiophile who just can't help but to stand too close to the speakers at live shows.

I always try to follow my instincts; they keep me clear of unnecessary drama, compromising situations, and getting mugged by raccoons in dark alleys.

I have a great bunch of friends, who are always there for me. I try my best in life to be someone worthy of them.

I often still call people 'sir', 'ma'am' and 'miss' and wonder why people can't be more polite and kind, sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying the company of good friends. Programming for a leading automation control systems company. Honing my pool playing skills. Going to as many live shows as humanly possible. Ever looking for new challenges.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Losing my cell phone.

When entering an establishment with double doors, picking the the one that is locked.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I haven't aged a day since college.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is my passion. Its allure has swept me through a maelstrom of interesting experiences before depositing me here, where I am today.

I listen to all genres of music (yes even some country…) some of my favorites: Lucero (naturally), Wilco, U2, The Clash, Led Zeppelin, David Bowie, Radiohead, Cheap Trick, Miles Davis (especially Kind of Blue, Bitches Brew and his work with Gil Evans: Sketches of Spain) Marvin Gaye, Otis redding, Grace Potter and the Nocturnals, State Radio, Dave Brubeck, Hendrix (especially with Band of Gypsys), T-Rex, Wild Flag, The Band, Common, Tom Petty, Glossary, and so much more.

Movies: I am developing a keen appreciation of horror thanks to the guidance of my Uncle. Especially the Hammer films from the 50's (nothing beats Christopher Lee and Peter Cushing as Dracula and Van Helsing. I will also watch (and enjoy) the music documentary of your favorite band.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my iPhone (yes, I know so materialistic)
and a little luck now and then never hurts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Maybe it's too much "How I Met Your Mother", but I wonder where in NYC I can play Lazer Tag. Do you know?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Any and all of being with friends, playing pool, going shows, dinner, drinks, exploring this city. Sometimes I do just hang at home, too (Netflix got my back).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been known to belt out Journey songs under the right circumstances.
You should message me if
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You are someone who is attractive, intelligent, mature - yet still possess a heaping dose of quirky irreverence and a sense of child-like wonder.

You are open to new experiences, love New York City but also wouldn't balk at the idea of getting out now and again (be it camping, a music festival, a ball game or just a road trip to anywhere.)

You laugh and smile often and easily.

You can be found rocking out at a concert, even if it's a quiet sort of rocking. You will gleefully drag me to experience that band I should have heard of by now.

If you think this describes you or you are just really awesome and sweet, we should totally get in touch!