I'm a musician first & that is the primary reason I'm a loner - any partner(s) will always vie for my attention wrt to music. But I'm also a very caring being, a great listener & soundboard and a great supporter of those with whom I'm emotionally involved. I just need my music time respected because I play shows, write songs and record every week.
I'm an intellectual, anarchist, feminist, radical egalitarian who is very engaged in the political arena. I read, I write, I march, I give what meager funds I can to organizations I support. I slack a bit on the local agriculture front because Saturday mornings [and hence farmer's markets] don't exist for me, but I do the best I can as a nocturnal urban dweller.
I make a point of hanging out with friends, having fun, dancing, drinking, etc. as much as I can & travel as much as I can afford to, because life isn't worth living if you're not sharing fun and experiencing new people and places.
Movies: Chinatown, The Constant Gardner, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Pixote, Last Exit to Brooklyn, Star Wars [all of them], Event Horizon, The Big Lebowski, Milk... Also a huge Trekkie.
I love all music except the stuff that masquerades as pop music for the last two decades [with some decidedly guilty pleasures exempted]. Favorites would include Joni Mitchell, Tom Waits, King Crimson, Patti Smith, Dr. John, Nick Drake, Levon Helm, Steve Earle, Bert Jansch, Radiohead, PJ Harvey, Pink Floyd, My Bloody Valentine, Bill Frisell, Iron & Wine, Miles Davis, Billie Holiday, and Bartok.
I'm a big foodie - French is my fave, but if it's well prepared, I'm happy - especially if it is organically and locally grown..