I'm a musician first & that is the primary reason I'm a loner - any partner(s) will always vie for my attention wrt to music. But I'm also a very caring being, a great listener & soundboard and a great supporter of those with whom I'm emotionally involved. I just need my music time respected because I play shows, write songs and record every week.
I'm an intellectual, anarchist, feminist, radical egalitarian who is very engaged in the political arena. I read, I write, I march, I give what meager funds I can to organizations I support. I slack a bit on the local agriculture front because Saturday mornings [and hence farmer's markets] don't exist for me, but I do the best I can as a nocturnal urban dweller.
I make a point of hanging out with friends, having fun, dancing, drinking, etc. as much as I can & travel as much as I can afford to, because life isn't worth living if you're not sharing fun and experiencing new people and places.