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28 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:23pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
I like to write but not profiles so much. Its a hard thing to do to make a real first impression not in person through a screen. But here i am on a dating site just like you are. What a dumb world. Im a weirdo and tend to like other weirdos. Im creative and like to do music a whole lot. I spend a lot of time thinking about how to write the next beatles record over and over again. I like a lot of obscure music but always go back to the beatles. Im quiet sometimes but only cuz im just stuck in my head deep in thought. I like to talk though and really like when i find people i mesh well with and it becomes very easy to talk. Im honest and straight to the point. Im a good listener. Ive got a lot of strong convictions so im looking for someone who shares those convictions. Not saying i have to agree 100% but i generally dont hang out with anyone who doesn't have at least some sort of critical veiw of the society we live in. I can be intense. I can be laid back. Pretty self actualized. Kinda random. Poetic. I like to dress in monochrome whenever possible. I like parlor games and games im not really that great at like bananagrams and tetris. That song in tetris is p cool
What I’m doing with my life
Working a lot now. Raising my daughter. What a sassy one she is. I want to travel a bunch. I play music in a band and its my favorite. It ties in my desire to write with my desire to hang out with my friends with my desire to travel (sometimes). Its a really cathardic thing to do hollerin on a microphone. I like singing so karoke is fun for me. If youve ever done punk rock karaoke thats a whole different animal. I like to have time alone but i also really appriciate being close to friends and large groups of awesome people. Sometimes i think those personality test are justcheap tricks filled with false dichotomies to tell you who you are. Bullshit. Just like most things in life its all about where you are on a spectrum. And maybe u can be at different spots on the spectrum at the same times. Im just mincing words now. Absolute and blanket statements are hard for me to grasp sometimes so i dont do so well around control freaks. That said its taken quite a bit of maneuvering to balance my anti-authoritarian tendencies with my responsibility as a parent. Its a struggle at times but most things are. Im glad to be a part of her life. I love my daughter she has taught me so much. She is as stubborn as me too so thats a lot of fun.
I’m really good at
Noticing patterns. Working with my hands. I work in kitchens now and i love to cook. I also like to collage. I make fliers for shows. I like to write poems and songs. Iplay guitar and bass. I wish i had a piano and a lot of other instruments. The drums are a lot of fun too. here are some sounds im proud of :
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe fuzzy unkempt hair. Im tallish? Have a beard sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Orwell, history written from the perspective of the oppressed like peoples history kinda shit. Preacher. Joe sacco books. Want to read xmen things. Parenting books. Situationist things. I heard the patti smith autobiography was awesome from several peeps.

scifi tv shows, bad horror films, i prefer the cheesy low budget silent film special effects over the most expensive cgi any day. Twilight zone. Journey to the seventh planet. Trailer park boys. Ilike fucking stoner cartoons. Reg show . AAdventure time. Flapjack. Fort awesome. Dr. Who. Orange is new black (so freaking intense). Horror movies. Ju-on scared the shit out of me.

surf rock classic rock and punk rock. Psychadelic rock/pop. Beatles who slowdive mbv nuggets comps neil young sonic youth beach boys bikini kill seven year bitch dead kennedys blondie r stevie moore (played a show on the same bill with him once be jelous) ariel pink pixies frank black breeders sound garden pumpkins vu link wray ventures atlantics bfucking52s weezer black sab sleep probably way more i listen to music as much as i possibly can stand.

Mexican and Mediterranean food. Try to eat a lot of vegetables but sometimes i fuck up and thats OK
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This slow apocalypse we are living. Why nuclear power still exists. Why i exist. How you can feel so alone even though you have access to what everyone of your friends are doing and that there are probably so many just as lonly as you on the other side of the screen. My awesome daughter.
On a typical Friday night I am
So we jumped up on the table and shouted anarchy
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a triforce stic-n-poke tattoo that i love. Crossdressing is fun.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You like music as much as me. You play or sing anything. You have rhythm of any sort? You like to laugh. If your artsy or creative. If you think we have some sameness. If you need a travel buddy. If you also want a different world and are overwhelmed by how impossible it is to change and have a broken heart because of trying but havent given up and also understand and dont mind superlong run on sentences.