I am a guy that has been described as having many layers. I can be best described as genuine, and an enigma.
I am a single male who is accepted in the swinger lifestyle. All of my closest friends are swingers and most of my activities revolve around the lifestyle.
I enjoy referring to myself as a boy-toy who gets utilized for my talents, whether it be my dancing or my other talents, or a combination of both. I will date couples as well as women. With that being said, I am straight. I am comfortable in close proximity to guys, and even flattered when they hit on me, but I am completely straight.
If I started dating someone, this does not necessarily mean we would partake in all of the swinger activities, but whomever I was with would have to be comfortable being around the lifestyle. The best part about my friends is the socializing and friendly environment.
In my non-swinger life I enjoy country dancing. I spent a few years competing in dancing and love having fun with it. I am a very strong lead while being very smooth. I will never critique how you dance, and love to laugh when I and my dancing partner mess up.
I am also a participant in Burning-Man-type events locally, and have it on my bucket list to eventually make it home to "Burning Man".
Through all of my travels, I have never been on a trip with a significant other. A major life fantasy is to go on a vacation trip -- a week, maybe extended, or even a weekend -- with someone with whom I can share that experience.
I am an open book, but will be described as "complicated to figure out" by those who do not know me. If you ask, I will tell you. I don't drink, but I have no qualms about being with someone that does. I am a former smoker who quit cold-turkey a few years ago, and I do socially partake in party favors.