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50 F Elgin, IL

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Last Online
Today – 5:15pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Space camp
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
*** Wanted a man looking for a relationship. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK-UP.

Ok, gonna change this up some. Apparently I was dreaming when I previously wrote what I was looking for. Lol I'm going to make it simple.

I would like to meet someone GENUINE. Funny a must. Not into arrogant, self serving, ego maniacs. Table manners? Great. Kind? Even better. Has a reliable job and transportation? Now we're talking!! Lol
Simple, yet adventurous. Did I mention funny?? Deal breaker if you don't have a sense of humor.

As for me, I like reading, movies, long drives on a country road, country breakfast, mexican food, sushi, coffee, red wine. Dancing while I clean, Singing even though I am no good at it. Spontaneous moments. Wink wink. Lol. No particular order. I am low maintenance, not high maintenance. I prefer pizza and a glass of wine rather than fine dining. (Although fine dining once in awhile is nice), a local band instead of an opera, a pair of nice leather boots over heels. I am short, curvy, a little extra padding . I'm just getting back into the exercise and healthy living scene. Be patient with me. If you think I'm going to climb a mountain with you it's not happening. Unless of course you want to push my ass up the mountain then fine : )
I prefer a tropical beach over Paris, A cabin on a lake vs a 5 star hotel. This is who I am. I am comfortable in my skin and with who I am.

Again... I like FUNNY guys. Someone who can laugh at themselves at times. Affectionate, good communicator, kind, can get silly and playful now and then. Someone gentle yet strong so I can lean on them when needed. I am not a serial dater, prefer someone who is ready for a relationship and not stuck in the past. I am a sucker for a goatee. I like to hold hands, hugs, kisses, miss having that someone to cuddle up with. Also, someone who is family orientated, and doesn't mind that spending time with my daughter and grand daughter is very important to me. Please read the previous line again.

If you spark my interest I will read your question/answer section. Most of the questions are lame, but I still learn a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
My life can be a little hectic or busy at times. But..... I'm pretty good about making time for the right guy.

I've been at the same job for 24 years now. Guess you can say I'm loyal. Lol

I'm working on me right now. I see nothing but good things ahead. Life is good.
I’m really good at
Picking the wrong guy. Lol
Enough said.
The first things people usually notice about me
Idk. Eyes? That I'm short ? Lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmmm. Love all kinds of books.
Dinner with a stranger (David Gregory) Love him
The Shack
The Stand
Alice in Wonderland
Of mice and men

Movies, Old Bette Davis & Joan Crawford.
On Borrowed Time (my #1 fav movie )
Wizard of Oz
Wille Wonka (original)
Strangers on a Train
Zoolander Lol.
Not into Horror flicks or Westerns,
Dexter, ID Channel
** I won't watch movies that make me cry, like people dying of cancer, or dogs dying. etc... I do not like to cry : ( ***

As for music , country, rock, Christian , Spanish.
Oldies, Disco, Classical, Andre Bocelli
Love old Rod Stewart, Bruno Mars, Zac Brown Band, Marshall Tucker , One Republic Santana , Chris Stapleton❤️❤️❤️Blake Shelton
. The list goes on and on.
The six things I could never do without
My faith
My Daughter
My Grand daughter
Hopefully YOU!
Ok, 6 things is not enough.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately been thinking about what exactly is " normal" anymore in the dating scene. Why do people have to make everything so complicated ???? Good grief Charlie Brown. Lol. It's not rocket science.
On a typical Friday night I am
Im cranking up the music and cleaning. Or sitting on the couch with a good book and a glass of Pinot Noir.
Would rather be spending it with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate cotton balls. They freak me out.
Oh, I also can't stand the smell of cantaloupe or popcorn. I know. Weird.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you think we might "click ". Or want to get to know me better. If your serious about a relationship. I prefer a man who believes in God,

**Update** I am not looking for "casual sex" or a "hook-up" I am not looking to mother or dominate a man. i don't want them wearing my lingerie or shoes or into women's clothes. I'm not into threesomes or sharing. So don't ask : ) if your wanting to lick or smell my feet , walk on. No pun intended. Well, maybe. Lol.

I am looking for a manly man. I'm hoping to find the real deal : ) I am looking for someone who wants a serious relationship with a future together in mind. I'm saving my heart to give to him whomever or wherever he may be.