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28 M Berkeley, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 21
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, C++

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My self-summary
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I’m open to many unfenced relationship types (monogamy, polyamory, platonic). What matters most to me is meeting awesome people with similar core values. I'm seeking intimacy in all forms (physical, emotional, intellectual, experiential), in as much depth, and with as many amazing people, as possible. I enjoy both one on one and large group event interactions and do both weekly. Some relatives gave me the relationship advice to look for people who are self-sufficient, adaptable, and who are/can be your best friend. That sounds like a good place to start to me - if we’re awesome friends and genuinely enjoy spending time together, I’m confident we can figure the rest out with time :)

On the note of spending time together, while I could probably benefit from more spontaneity, I’m pretty clear on what I want and enjoy. Most are pretty simple for me - hiking, cooking (omnivore preferably) and playing sports/games are sure wins and pretty much anything outdoors and/or fitness related. I love spending time with people in pretty much anything I do so if we can work, workout, or cook together, those are 3 things I do pretty much every day and would be delighted to share with you if you’re similarly passionate!

Keywords that sum up me, and what I'm looking for:
happy, humble, genuine, kind, loving, grounded, open-minded, integrity, solid (family) values, laughing uncontrollably, massage, health, fitness, no drugs/smoking, outdoors, leadership, entrepreneurship, growth/continuous improvement/learning, challenge, people/relationships, humor, transparent, communication, honest, questions, deep conversations, philosophy, poly-friendly, sex-positive, orgasmic meditation, self-awareness, confidence, trust, compersion, nerdy, coder, fun, coaching, volunteering, passionate, hard working, drama free, optimistic, idealistic, purposeful, logical, organized, goofball, efficiency, intensity, blunt/straight forward, cooking, maturity, high standards, energy, enthusiasm!

That said, “you don’t know what you don’t know”, “opposites attract”, and we often fall in love with people who aren’t our “type” so I’m open to many possibilities and the fact I may have very little idea what I should be looking for! If you think we’ll jive, I’ll generally be glad to meet in person and see if there’s chemistry.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
UC Berkeley grad now doing and teaching web/mobile development and training/coaching. Life dream: building "Happy Homes".
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing so hard that I cry and my eyes hurt and everyone around me is so confused but also laughing simply because I'm on the floor laughing. Seriously, ask my brother, sister, or family - it's bizarre. But laughing is good for you right? And I'm an optimist. So I'm going to call it a gift :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes. I honestly don't know what color they are. I used to say hazel but now they've changed..
Oh, and that I'm almost always wearing sandals. Or Five Fingers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Documentary: Happy

Atlas Shrugged (no I'm not a crazy Republican. Yes John Galt's circle is awesome). Harry Potter (of course). Bourne Identity (books = AWESOME. Movies = ruined it!). Golden Compass - fantasy wonderland.

Soooo many nerdy non-fiction books, ranging from fitness to leadership to people and sensuality: Three Simple Steps, Switch, 4 Hour Body, Good to Great, Outliers, The Ethical Slut, Slow Sex, Omnivores Dilemma, Chi Running, ...

Matrix 1 and 7/8. No that's not a typo. Matrix Reloaded, up until where Neo gets powers in the real world (wtf?!) is my favorite movie of all time. Matrix Revolutions was a huge letdown.

COMEDIES! Zoolander, Old School, Wedding Crashers, Austin Powers, Weekend at Bernie's, etc.

Shows: How awesome would it be to be on Survivor or Amazing Race (accepting teammate applications.. ;)

Music: You don't want to know.. From crazy techno/trance mashups to Nintendo music to Call Me Maybe. I have "songs of the week" since I'll literally listen to them 50+ times..

Food: Healthy & home cooked.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Mind, Body, Love, The question "why?", Growth Mindset, Great People (Relationships). Bonus 7th: Balance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This is by far my favorite question and I will gladly answer this in person. Bonus points if you too are an (over) thinker who delights in profound questions and deep conversations (including, but not limited to, "taboo" topics - anything's game!).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- game night + potluck: friendly (or not so friendly if you can hang ;) competition in charades, board games, bean bag toss, ping pong, sports, you name it!
- out in nature - on a weekend camping/backpacking adventure or just lying under the stars or walking around. The best things in life often are the simple things.
- volunteering / mentoring
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm 100% an open book and more private is often more interesting. No topic is off limits, nothing is too soon, and you can't go too far - try me :)
You should message me if
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You think we could be best friends and share lots of laughs, smiles, and happiness together :)