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38 Sunnyside, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:32am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a native Brooklynite and I know my hometown well, but where I'm from is far less interesting than who I am. A little punk, somewhat quirky and totally NYHC. I've spent my time wandering around aimlessly and finally catching up with life.

I'm a project manager at a small IT firm, love what I do and the people I work with. Focused on family, my career and making the most of everyday. I'm a well travelled, compassionate and experienced human being. I'm a person of color and color is my world.

I don't have too many photos of myself but have included some in my profile. The pictures are current but the camera doesn't like me lol. I do hope the ones that are here give you a better idea of who I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in IT at a small MSP by Times Square and I love my job, but what I'd really like to do is solve homelessness, poverty, hunger and mental illness. If you got the answers, I'm taking notes.

In the meantime just going from here to there, back to nowhere. Basically roaming around and taking pictures till I'm happy. Travel as much as I can even if it's only on the 7 train or in my runners.

Making the most of what life and the day brings. Trying to be helpful to those who may need help. Life, one step, one photo and one memory at a time. Running, running and running; looking for the right something and getting closer to it everyday.

Please visit me to check my photos and travels out on instagram @klulu4755. Thank you!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making children laugh and adults sometimes (without really knowing) laughter is awesome!
Knowing useless trivia (not sure why) Jeopardy is one of my favorite game shows.
I'm very familiar with NYC (this is my home town) I've probably been at every train station in NYC at one time or other.
Eating (I'm definitely a glutton)
Bowling (at least at one point) I bowled a perfect game and it helped me pay for college!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My genuinely evil look!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too much to list but a few I can put down are:
Books - The Kite Runner. I'm a fan of Dylan Thomas.
Movies - The Princess Bride, Mel Brooks is a genius!
Shows - The Wire
Music - Tell me if you know NYHC. Otherwise I grew up in the 80/90's so music of that era I am fond of.
Food - Yes
Do you know who Wayne Thiebaud is?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The beautiful natural earth
Different cultures and customes of the world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The social issues of the day and the changing landscape of demographics in the city.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preparing for the next adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do things on my own a lot. I'm a Mog; half man half dog. I'm my own best friend....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in meeting or speaking to me. Made it this far down my profile and comfortable with someone who seems average. Not glued to the neighborhood you live in and like to take an adventure in exploration. I find that it's alright to take chances, it's the only way you'll really know.

If you're training for the zombie apocalypse. I'm actually very easy going, so please don't mistaken me. I've never killed a zombie.

If you're ultra arrogant, frequently look down on people, are a racist and think you're too good to get your hands dirty. I understand, but I'll also take a pass and recommend a left swipe. Thank you.