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lulujanen

56 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 53–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:49pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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i am healthy, fit, trim, articulate and like chocolate.
i crochet & knit hats for my business. i love books. i read every day and usually have 3 going at once; the public library is my very best friend.

i paint in acrylics, & oils...watercolors when i'm on the fly...and draw cartoons, which are, to the chagrin of most, based on punning & wordplay.

i have never used the acronym LOL. ever.

i subscribe to the atlantic ; harpers, the new yorker, the nation, & i just got a kindle...the latter being a royal pain in the Y K What because the battery life is awful.

i like the theater--straight plays, musical theater too -, NPR & the BBC, .fine art ; looking at good architecture , so many kinds of music, but mostly JAZZ !!! i like my 2 very friendly, UNscratchy and not at all mean cats Buster & Winkle, driving to a new undiscovered location and then eating dinner there.

i was born and raised in NYC; central park was my front yard. if i had to be exiled somewhere, it would be the UWS. i KNOW that the obscene rents and vanishing middle class values will never take away the heroic NYC i knew and still love.
i spend a fair amount of time in Columbia county, and like to drive into Vermont, a state that appeals on so many levels: political, environmental, aesthetical [is that a word?], and the people are so nice....

i was a tom-boy in my youth and admit to that proclivity now...even as i know how to wear a skirt.

i was lucky to have lived in paris for 2 yrs.... i learned the language, and most importantly it taught me how to be humbled by and flooded with respect for a culture that's not my own. they have excellent jazz clubs, too

caveats: if you don't like to sit with a good book several afternoons or evenings a week, if you are a conservative right winger, if you don't like a stroll thru MoMA or the Met, or if you only want to SIT staring into a Device! or if you sneeze after meeting les chats, Buster & Winkle.....well then....let''s not waste our hard-earned spare time [actually TOO much time] carved out for this rather strange way to meet people.
What I’m doing with my life
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knit & crochet..i do free-lance publicity for jazz musicians, actors, visual artists.... mostly for first and second orbit friends, their friends..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
knitting for my little biz
listening if you need a shoulder
being amused by amusing fellows
punning
rec'mending books to friends
The first things people usually notice about me
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oh come on
i guess that'd depend on what direction yr coming from.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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words: dickens, jared diamond, george kaufman, salter, jess walter, "tenth of december"was pretty spectacular, roth, bellow, vonnegut, updike, durrell, SJ perelman, andre dubus III, hemingway, richard ford, jane jacobs. e.b. white : 'here is ny', 'the elements of style' are indespensible & re-read.. colwin, styron, heller, calvino, price, nicolson baker, hitchens, dawkins, amis, sam harris, lasdun, more more --

plays: odets, miller, guare, stoppard, chekov, norman, R & H, shanley, o'neill, some new musical theater----

music: jazz is a big part of my collection. Benny Powell, a dear friend *rip* --coltrane -- esp "lush life" w/ johnny hartman---, louis armstrong, brubeck, King Oliver, mulligan, baker, billie, shorter, blakey, Prez, billie, jarrett, jj johnson, fats waller, corea...reggae, brazilian , I DO like the blues a Lot--just heard a Ungandan record. wonderful...Steely Dan, sondheim, little feat, clapton, hot tuna, david bromberg, Bechet, stevie, havens, bernstein, chopin, stravinsky, mahler.

movies: some like it hot, hitch., woody allen, scorcese, coen bros., goddard, ---von trier, alec guiness, cassavetes, peter sellers, all cary grant, lost in translation [most all of bill murray's], citizen kane, Bunuel, Kaufman, manchurian candidate [the ORIGINAL one) w. afr. of Va wolfe, the misfits, marty, hugo, most indie documentaries that say something important and teach, all fellini, all goddard, all renoir... many to mention in this category [dad worked in movie biz so they've been part of my dna as much as air]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
humor , humanity and humility, pistachios, passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life and death & why I don't practice my uke more often
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
oxymoronic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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come on,
this is a contradiction in terms
You should message me if
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you have an inclination