I might be hard to get to know, but I'm sure you'll find something about me that you'll like. My passion is music, especially when it comes to metal, rock and jazz, and I've been playing the piano/keys and singing since I was a kid. The Finnish melancholy has deffo gotten a hold of me, as some of my favourite bands are Nightwish, Stam1na and Apocalyptica, but I love soundtrack music (Hans Zimmer, Howard Shore, Klaus Badelt, Danny Elfman) and any good voice will have me stop to listen (which is the case with a cappella choirs such as Rajaton). I'm also a fan of all things beautiful: (alternative) art, good books, fantasy, good movies, languages, body mods, colours and colourful make-up ^__^ I'm a terribly geeky person, so don't bother if you're scared of gaming chicks!

I'm very open-minded as a person, and (I'd like to think that) I'm living my life so that I experience all I can, yet without regrets. I'm horrible with definitions, but I guess the correct term to describe me would be pansexual, because I find my friends'/lovers' sex chromosomes pretty damn trivial. At the moment my path seems to be polyamory, I love having fun, but I never know what kind of situation I will be in by the end of the year. I dislike the idea of having to "reject" interesting people because of an exclusive partner, but I might be able to see myself in a monogamous relationship at some point in the future. I've been, playfully, called "the whip-wielder" by my friends before, and consider bdsm and all sorts of kink a way to make my life a lot richer and happier. This switch can't imagine being in a relationship with a vanilla person, because seriously, why give up something one enjoys so much?

Currently I'm not doing much, as I'm having a break from my studies. My whole life revolves around music, friends, lovers, having fun and enjoying myself right now. I like body pump and poledancing. Oh and I'm studying Japanese in 'iltalukio' somewhat nonseriously..

analyzing, cooking and empathizing. I'm also good at a lot of useless things, such as reading really fast and remembering song lyrics.. I've heard I'm a decent pianist, but I wish I was even better :)

The first things people usually notice about me is how passionate I am about doing things I like. I laugh a lot and nearly anything will make me giggle, I'm up for most things and I love being in the center of attention. Physically I guess it would be a colourful make-up, hair quite out-of-control and a bunch of piercings.

Books:
I like fantasy, sci-fi, dystopian literature, biographies and (mental health-related) non-fiction. My favourites would include the Lord of the Rings-saga (and other Tolkien masterpieces), Stephen King's The Dark Tower-septology, the Potter-saga, Orwell's 1984, Pullman's His Dark Materials-trilogy, books by Paulo Coelho.
Food:
Spicy, Mexican, vegetarian (but I do eat fish), Indian, Thai, Japanese (who DOESN'T love sushi?), salads

My instrument (be it keys or vocal chords), writing equipment, my computer, pain, other people and my make-up collection, shallow as it seems.

LGBTIQ-issues and sexuality in general, politics, freedom of speech, environmentalist-issues, ideological issues, religion (or rather the lack of it), human rights, justice, mental health, logic

cooking, music, writing, self-expression

bdsm, sex, relationships, feelings, human beings, love, caring

out with friends, laughing and having fun, dancing, listening to music or at a gig, or just at home.. There is no such thing as a typical Friday night :)

There is no "if", you SHOULD message me. Seriously, what is there to lose?

Tell me something about yourself, about how you had a near-death experience when you were younger, about your views on polyamory and human sexuality, about the new jacket your mother bought last week. Surprise me, make me laugh, make me cry (in a good, "I'm-so-touched"-way), tell me off for wearing too much bright red lipstick.

I would appreciate you being an open-minded person. I'm not really as elitist as I might seem, if you're tolerant and respect others and their views we can probably get along. Alas, I'll probably find you annoying if you have issues with differing sexualities/politics/perspectives, and if this is the case, you should probably go find someone as intolerant as you are ^___^

Oh, and I also do appreciate proper punctuation and capitalization.. Just a hint! I'm not so good with instant messages, so drop me a proper one, and make sure you have a profile pic or I'm not very likely to respond.