Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! My name is Panda, I'm a queer choir geek with a passion for
glittery make-up and cuddling.
Quick infomercial: I identify as non-binary genderqueer (mostly
androgynous leaning towards femme boy, it's a little fluid and
timey-wimey-gendery-bendery). My pronoun preference is the singular
"they", and I am androromantic. I'm a happily and proudly owned sub
I'm poly and always open to new people but am not going to be your
average boyfriend and I hope I'm not expected to, either.
Sounds easy enough, right? Good! Carry on! ^___^
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently a student at a humanistic polytechnic - my major is
cultural management and administration. Various random internships
and projects help taking me closer to my dream of working with
culture one day - I can't decide if I'm more passionate about
accessibility in culture (where I could use my gender studies
background) or classical music.
I'm also well on my way in a very important physical process that
involves hormones and a recent mastectomy. It has given me a whole
new perspective on my body and I actually really enjoy working out
for its intrinsic value nowadays.
Other than that I spend a lot of time hanging out with wonderful
people, often combined with good food. Reciprocity thrives!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being honest and open, and trying my best to communicate. I am
fluently trilingual, which sometimes creates more trouble than
opportunities. I've been told that I'm a good, attentive listener
and that my face can be read like an open book.
I'm also a decent cook, brilliant at touching and cuddling and I'm
so easily excited that I'm actually leaning toward calling it a
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am extremely fond of random noises. Especially imitating
animals...or velociraptors...or Pokémon. I laugh _a lot_. I'm very
shy in the beginning, but when I open up it gets exceptionally hard
to shut me up.
I've also had a number of people ask me "which way" I'm
transitioning, "what gender" I am and if I'm 17 or 27. Go figure.
Androgynous appearance combined with a wonderfully cute baby face
seems to be confusing, and I secretly enjoy it when people can't
figure these things out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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J.R.R. Tolkien, Stephen King's The Dark Tower-septology, Terry
Pratchett, (high) fantasy / historical fantasy, queer literature
and/or non-fiction, contemporary to some extent...
Burton/Depp/Bonham Carter/Elfman/Rickman-combos of various types.
Visually impressive stuff. Studio Ghibli. Musicals. Les Misérables.
Phantom of the Opera. Disney. Mulan! I like watching movies but I
rarely remember them - book nerd all the way, I guess ^_~
The Big Bang Theory, Sherlock, Sailor moon, Pokémon. Doctor Who.
and as green
as possible! Mexican, Indian, Japanese. Herbs. Salt. Bell peppers,
zucchini, lentils, avocado, sweet peas... Nom! I'm currently trying
to move toward a more raw and alkaline diet to support my health.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Vocal cords, music, sleep, good food, hot showers and writing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
tend to focus on the queer aspects that touch my own life) and
politics, freedom of speech
environmental issues, ideological issues, religion and the
resulting phenomena, human rights
, justice, mental health
cooking, music, writing, self-expression, self-improvement
. My body. How
green smoothies and subspace have solved all my health
Good pain. My interactions with and relationships to other people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, at the gym, checking out some new venue
by drinking sparkling water, at home hosting a get-together,
cooking or playing (music, board games, PS3 or BDSM, choose any!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think I kind of came out of every closet there is earlier. I'm
pansexual, kinky, genderqueer, a vegan, straight-edge, polyamorous.
I write a rather well-visited BDSM blog.
Oh, right. I'm also a Swedish-speaking Finn. Gasp!
You should message me if
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…you're queer(-minded) and patient. I'm talkative but shy, I am
easily amused and bewitched but experience has made me slow to
trust and feel comfortable.
And if you want to tell me something real. Anything goes; about
your near-death-experience, about your new lipstick, about how
you're afraid you'll never be able to come out of the closet to
your family. I'm very adamant about distancing myself from the
whole glossy façade-kind of world social media is trying to force
me into. Give me something authentic and I'm sold!
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