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luthieBean

31 / F / bisexual / Available

Garner, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am quiet, friendly, and geeky.

My Self-Summary

Well, to start with, I am married and have a son. My family is the number one thing in my life. My husband and I are in a polyamorous relationship. At this point, I am looking for friends. My "dance card" is about as full as time will allow right now. I'm not likely to have any other kind of relationship with somebody that I'm not friends with first anyway.

Anyway, I am a software engineer and a [geek] with varied interests (however I can also carry on a conversation). I love to read and love watching [good movies] and television. I'm definitely a feminist and a liberal commie **stard ;)

I lived in [New Jersey] until I was 16, so I'm a "yankee" at heart, but don't hold it against me as I've lived in the South almost least half my life now.

I do tend to be a bit shy at first, but I do open up as I really love to make deep connections.

What I’m doing with my life

Working as a software engineer, raising my son, fighting a losing battle with the mess in my house, loving being alive.

I’m really good at

listening. I

The first things people usually notice about me

Well, I can't be sure but I get the most comments about my smile and my eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

[Equus], [Doctor Who], [True Blood], [Dar Williams], [Modest Mouse], [Arcade Fire], [Lord of the Rings],[PodCastle],[EscapePod], [The Dark Tower], [Doctor Who], [Heroes], [Lost],

The six things I could never do without

Email, Vitamin B12, My husband and son, a good book, something to play music on, sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about

politics, how to make a difference, how to make my home network work more smoothly, home design, organizing things

On a typical Friday night I am

watching a movie at home with my husband. Babysitters can be hard to come by.

You should message me if

you feel like it. Even if just to be friends. You'll get no drama or judgement from me. I'm pretty laid back and really enjoy spending time with and getting to know other people.