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66 • Surrey, British Columbia, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–80
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 5:51pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Has kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
BTW, I recently shaved my chin hair, but haven’t added any new pix
I’m also very easy going, especially since I’m not addicted to anything — except love & romance
Hopefully you’ll agree, my lifestyle, which includes healthy eating & cycling, has resulted in a positive, yet realistic outlook on life, which, along with a passionate nature, will not be satisfied until I find `The 1’ — who I hope would be *YOU* forever 3:-)
Indeed, I know it would be no trouble for me to be happily monogamous — especially if you’re as passionate & affectionate as I like to be 3:-)
So, what will you look like?
Quite frankly, I would tend to favor a lady in her 50s or up, who by taking care of herself, might look younger than her chronological/`real’ age, is likely (but not limited to being) on the thinner side & is a non smoker (or who has struggled to quit & may need a whole new approach) — because a non-smoking woman strongly shows she knows how nicotine & all those ridiculous additives, makes for a definite health & aging disadvantage
Consequently, because I know a non smoker is more likely to look after herself & can use her brain for something other than making sure she knows where her next butt is coming-from — or keeps on making-up &/or believing in useless excuses to continue her annoyingly terrible & smelly addiction, it’s why I’m definitely more attracted to a non smoker . . . can you blame me?
I also consider inventiveness part of my makeup — as I love to come up with alternative solutions to various vexing problems
And you will never find me watching anything like regular season sports on tv, or even more ridiculously, in person, *alone* at a stadium, although there is something to be said to sharing a blanket in the cold with the right lady — indeed, you will almost certainly *NEVER* see me sitting on the couch, watching regular season hockey, football, basketball or golf
OK, I might take a few peeks at the World Series or the Grey Cup/Superbowl or the Stanley Cup, but it’s more of a celebration of the end of their seasons 3:-)
While I used to be 5’9" with a full crop of thick, dark curly hair, time has taken its usual toll, so I’ve shrunk around an inch or more & my hair has turned much thinner towards what is often termed the `monk spot’, so it is almost totally gray & become much straighter over the last few years
Actually, I still think of myself as my much younger self (doesn’t nearly everybody?) & am still coming to grips with how my outward appearance is different than I used to remember it, as well as the image of myself in my head
Speaking about being younger, I lived with a young woman for nearly 20 years, but at some point she wanted kids, so I did my part & voila, now the boy is taller than me, a young man of 19 & my beautiful little girl is going to be 16 this fall
However since their mother & I no longer live together & haven’t for a few years, they live with her, but still, I try to call my kids frequently & see them when possible 3:-)
I grew up in a very nice part of Vancouver, went to school with a future Prime Minister & somebody else who became the current 2 term Mayor of Richmond — while my brother-in-law for the last 35+ years, is currently a BC Supreme Court Justice
I’m patient & full of faith by nature, especially when waiting for something I know will come — with an ever present sense of humor, especially regarding what I consider ridiculous & deserving of having fun made of it (see what I was reluctant to admit below)
I’m also old school when it comes to holding doors open or dining room chairs for a lady
Finally, priority is given to a perceptive, caring & considerate lady, who knows when to take the initiative & write me 1st, because until I find `The 1’, I believe every lady who takes the trouble to write me, deserves to be answered & without exception, will be — hopefully so we can arrange a meeting, as I further strongly believe I will never truly know whether *YOU* are the potential 1, unless we meet
Hopefully *YOU* are `The 1’, so we meet soon & fall in love, as it’s where I want *US* to be *FOREVER* — how about *YOU*?
I also think about photography, graphic & product design, traveling, scuba, philosophy, sailing, architecture, inventions & software design, chess, couch cuddling, hand holding, kissing & tongue-fu
On a simpler level, I admit to peeing in the shower, once 3:-)
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