I enjoy embracing the unexpected and long rambling conversations leading to surprising places and having best made plans lead to an entirely different outcome. If all you do is what you intend to do then you'll never grow beyond yourself.
This all sounds too preachy but that's what I don't like about these sites. I'm forced to campaign for myself but it winds up giving the impression that I am self absorbed and talk about myself all the time, which is not me at all. I hope you'll find that out for yourself when we meet.
To address the elephant in the room, yes I am married and no I'm not wanting to end that but I have no desire to impose drama on you. I am happy to talk and I'm a very good listener but I'm looking for a friend, not a shrink.
I hope you are looking for the same thing, that you'll write to me and that our next conversation will be more about you.