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53 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an analytical person who enjoys problem solving as a hobby. This also informs my sense of humor, which can be very literal and bizarre. I enjoy thinking games, riddles, learning things I don't know and generally being a student and teacher, though I am neither in real life.

I enjoy embracing the unexpected and long rambling conversations leading to surprising places and having best made plans lead to an entirely different outcome. If all you do is what you intend to do then you'll never grow beyond yourself.

This all sounds too preachy but that's what I don't like about these sites. I'm forced to campaign for myself but it winds up giving the impression that I am self absorbed and talk about myself all the time, which is not me at all. I hope you'll find that out for yourself when we meet.

To address the elephant in the room, yes I am married and no I'm not wanting to end that but I have no desire to impose drama on you. I am happy to talk and I'm a very good listener but I'm looking for a friend, not a shrink.

I hope you are looking for the same thing, that you'll write to me and that our next conversation will be more about you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Playing music, staying healthy (bourbon is good for the immune system, right?).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Actions speak louder than words. I know these profiles are all about selling yourself but I don't really have the taste for campaigning. I hope being good company will make this list. You tell me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair, my height, my laugh, the occasional cat hair
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've already done without them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't really obsess so this changes day by day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not being typical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am married but looking for someone who needs more as I do. I am not proud but not drama-filled either. A secret friend to be good to would be lovely.
You should message me if
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your curious