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My self-summary
This is why you are cool, you are positive, compassionate and reflectively kind. You can't help but be curious, provocative, and creative. You are open to the world, extremely bright, funny, well read, and enjoy the people around you. You can't help that either. we are what we surround ourselves with. You are an aficionado more than a critic, doer more than a talker, a creator more than a consumer. You are fit, slim. You are strong both in obvious and secret ways

There are thousands of chances to connect everyday, what if you take one?

I am adventurous, spontaneous, and resourceful.
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing passion, purpose, and awesomeness everyday
I’m really good at
Singing Frank Sinatra songs
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses frame and big smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
it's hard to pick favorites. Japanese food is a must have in any city I visit.
The six things I could never do without
Wifi hotspot
Clean food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ways to inspire people
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love driving fast and the exhilaration it brings
You should message me if
If you appreciate this...

The Invitation
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for,
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow,
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shriveled and closed
from the fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own,
without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own,
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic,
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself;
if you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul;
if you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy

I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty, every day.
And if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure,
yours and mine,
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,

It doesn't interest me to know
where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair,
weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you,
from the inside, and when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

By Oriah Mountain Dreamer