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49 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 38–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Let's see...Fireworks, dogs and snowstorms always make me happy. I’m kind and sweet, low-key but chic. My day-to-day life is pretty conventional, but the unconventional appeals to me. I'm passionate about great design and great fiction, and find people-watching a very relaxing pastime. I love good food and wine. I think it’s fun to ride my bike on a nice day. I do not tolerate meanness. I rate irreverent humor and unexpected silliness very highly. I like quirky and classic movies, and discovering music I’ve never heard before. I'm both sensible and sensual. I’m inspired by smart, creative people. And I'm really glad I live in NYC.
What I’m doing with my life
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When I'm at work, I'm creating marketing strategies, collaborating with graphic designers and writing copy for clients. Otherwise, I like to check out new restaurants and bars (or revisit old favorites), go to art museums, relax in the park along the river (my "beach"), wander around the city and notice things, and cook for friends. Lately I've been taking figure drawing classes for the first time in ages. I read fiction voraciously. I'm interested in all sorts of design: architecture, interiors, fashion, furniture, gardens. And I like to go to performances: modern dance (usually at BAM), plays (dramas) and a huge range of music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, baking, driving, finding the perfect gift, power napping, hosting parties, naming that tune, empathizing, speaking French, drawing, procrastinating, choosing hotels and restaurants and stacking just-washed pots and pans in elaborate but surprisingly stable arrangements because I hate drying.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My haircut.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything Pynchon, anything Sedaris, The Sheltering Sky, Infinite Jest, great detective novels, recently loved Tropic of Cancer, Anna Karenina and various Murakami; anything Antonioni, Godard, Lynch, Coen Brothers, most Fellini, what Wenders I've seen, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Planes, Trains and Automobiles, Bond movies without Jaws, The Party, The Anniversary Party, The Ice Storm, anything with Johnny Depp, Viggo Mortenson, George Clooney, Cary Grant or Audrey Hepburn, action/drama yes, horror no; Mad Men, House, MI-5, Family Guy, South Park, Masterpiece Mystery, Bill Maher, Top Chef, Entourage, Boardwalk Empire, What Not to Wear; ambient/chillout, minimal, techno, d&b, Stereolab, Morcheeba, Thievery Corporation, tabla, Grateful Dead, Bowie, Talking Heads, Smiths, classic and latin jazz, blues, reggae, baroque chamber music, Chopin.
Bacon, Freud, Schiele, Reinhardt, Diebenkorn, Nauman, Viola
For everyday purposes, relatively minimal, organic if possible, nothing processed. But I pretty much live to eat, and when I cook for friends or go out, bring it on. The most important thing is that it's well prepared from high-quality ingredients, whether it's simple or fancy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends who get me
Fresh, delicious food (espresso, too)
Something good to read
A sense of the absurd
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for drinks/dinner or bonding with my sofa and a book/movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't whistle.
You should message me if
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You're nice and fun and smart and confident. You're a grownup with a silly streak. You're creative or attracted to creativity. You ideally want to be in a relationship.