Right now I am just taking things as they come and looking to just hang out and see what happens. I play tennis on three different gay tennis teams and enjoy seeing the faces of the country club ladies when our team walks in with wife beaters and plaid shorts on, its priceless. I have recently just started a new job as psychiatric therapist working on a locked in-patient until in a hospital for teenagers suffering from severe mental health issues. Getting to help those kids is pretty much my dream job and for the first time that I can remember I can truly say that I love my job.

I play the guitar, work at a non profit, have a cat named Kitty Boy, drive a Subaru and as I write this I am realizing just how gay I actually am. Martina's got nothing on me ;)

I am currently plotting/ actively working on how I am going to build my queer empire/therapeutic ranch for kids/ vineyard. Also i am a licensed MFT and have a private practice on the side, I specialize in working with families and with kids who have been adopted, so there's that.

being nice. Its kinda a lost art in my opinion.

I'm stopped on the street and in stores a lot and asked random questions. I guess I look like I know things!

I don't have enough time in my life to fill out this section but rest assure that I love to read, write, create, invent and eat really good food!

My guitar
My cat
My friends
My family
Sex
not necessarily in that order...

The war on women and how I am "outraged" about it. Where the heck am I going to park my car and not get a ticket. Tennis, boxing, beautiful women, bourbon, therapy, my clients, how much fun I am going to have as soon as I get off work, my inventions (usually having to do with the next most needed app), my life when I am rich and....sex :)

With friends... I think I may have the best friends in the entire universe.
You will probably find us out and about the mission exploring the wine bars or all the new yummy restaurants or in the Castro dancing!

I am super handy.... meaning I am good at fixing things!

I have historically been attracted to women who are more fem then I am including high fems though lately I am realizing that there are and always have been exceptions to that rule. Turns out that I find butches, boi's and FTM's just as attractive as beautiful more feminine women. I don't like to pigeon hole myself and maybe miss out on something that could be really great. If you are athletic that is a MAJOR plus! I usually don't like talking or thinking in terms of labels because I don't like being put in a box but for simplicity sake I'm going to talk labels. People have described me as butch or boi which I guess I would agree with, with that said, I am not into roles in relationships, there needs to be room for both people to be able to be themselves. I am currently looking for someone who wants to have fun, knows themselves well, knows what they want in life, is passionate about at least one thing, has ambition, understands the importance of loyalty and communication, and is not afraid of a good adventure.
(I'm talking Goonies kinda shit people)!