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28 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:02pm
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm a fairly private person. paradoxically gregarious, outgoing. i've been told by friends i should do stand-up. my typical response is to curl up into a fetal position and cry. my awkwardness serves me well in social situations--it puts people at ease, is ever so slightly hypnotic.

places i'm from: dallas, tx; queens, ny; bayou la batre, al; miami, fl; nashville, tn. i've settled in san francisco for the time being and have developed an addiction to steamed buns, lotus filling. (just found out: lotus is psychoactive. thank you, knowledgable members of okc.)

having an intellectual rapport with you is important, but it's your soul-stuff that gets me. also, can you make me laugh?

no pressure.
What I’m doing with my life
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'missing thunderstorms. the kind that turns the sky black, but for its jagged snaps of white-hot judgment. the kind that charges the air around you, pricking up the little hairs on your arms and neck. the kind that rumbles low and deep, shaking the earth, rattling that window you're looking out of from the inside, watching its mournful fury as you take a shaky sip of cooling honey-lemon tea,' said the southe'na.

watching clean clothes wrinkle.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not capitalizing, being simultaneously hyper-observant and completely oblivious, listening, half-listening, catching things before they break, writing premature but nevertheless heartfelt eulogies for friends, compulsively vacuuming with my convenient hand-held, and assembling bedroom furniture to teddy pendergrass.

The first things people usually notice about me
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that my ancestral continent is, perhaps, asia. and maybe somewhere else? cheeks. dimple. the sun-sapped pallor of my skin.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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get to know me, via these lists of things:

books: east of eden, the idiot, in cold blood, franny and zooey, the things they carried, short stories by fitzgerald, carver, chekov, yates, etc.

movies: lost in translation, stranger than fiction, infernal affairs, fargo, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, in bruges, the departed, annie hall, the hunt, shawshank redemption, toy story, the princess bride, cool hand luke, little miss sunshine, blade runner, star wars, nights of caibiria, seven samurai, departures, gone baby gone, se7en, miyazaki films, kon films, etc.

shows: dinklage, the wire, true detective, breaking bad, twin peaks, sherlock, louie, frasier, firefly, currently: the sopranos (sleep is for the weak), stand-up

music: sam cooke, talking heads, michael jackson, talk talk, prince, chet baker, count basie, nat king cole, roxy music, james brown, sidney bechet, nujabes, joy division, new order, modern lovers, nina simone, marvin gaye, the isley brothers, the jacksons, etc.

food: indian, mexican, japanese, italian, thai, french toast--i don't discriminate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
let's narrow it down to one: imagination.

okay, two: french toast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the outrageous, the mundane.

the strange whistling sound the wind makes when it passes through the hole in my heart.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading, writing, solo-strolling through the city, watching a movie (home base or big screen), binge-watching a show, stumbling into dive bars with a buddy in tow, y'know.

truth: most likely working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
sometimes i do things i regret.
You should message me if
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(social experiment/profile pt. ii: mari_n_lisa)