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28 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 1
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm a fairly private person. paradoxically gregarious, outgoing. i've been told by friends i should do stand-up. my typical response is to curl up into a fetal position and cry. my awkwardness serves me well in social situations--it puts people at ease, is ever so slightly hypnotic.

places i'm from: dallas, tx; queens, ny; bayou la batre, al; miami, fl; nashville, tn. i've settled in the bay area for the time being and have developed an addiction to steamed buns, lotus filling. (just found out: lotus is psychoactive. thank you, knowledgable members of okc.)

having an intellectual rapport with you is important, but it's your soul-stuff that gets me. also, can you make me laugh?

no pressure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being simultaneously hyper-observant and completely oblivious, listening, half-listening, catching things before they break, writing premature eulogies for friends, and assembling bedroom furniture to teddy pendergrass.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that my ancestral continent is, perhaps, asia. and maybe somewhere else? my cheeks. dimple. the sun-sapped pallor of my skin.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: east of eden, the idiot, in cold blood, franny and zooey, the things they carried, short stories by fitzgerald, carver, chekov, yates, etc.

movies: lost in translation, stranger than fiction, infernal affairs, fargo, in bruges, the departed, the hunt, shawshank redemption, toy story, the princess bride, cool hand luke, little miss sunshine, blade runner, nights of caibiria, seven samurai, departures, gone baby gone, se7en, miyazaki films, kon films, etc.

TV: true detective, breaking bad, twin peaks, sherlock, louie

music: sam cooke, talking heads, michael jackson, talk talk, prince, chet baker, count basie, nat king cole, roxy music, james brown, sidney bechet, nujabes, joy division, new order, modern lovers, nina simone, marvin gaye, the isley brothers, the jacksons, recently: arctic monkeys, wale, nas, kendrick lamar, drake.

food: indian, mexican, japanese, italian, thai, french toast--i don't discriminate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
let's narrow it down to one: imagination.

okay, two: french toast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the outrageous, the mundane.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading, writing, watching a movie, binge-watching a show, solo-strolling through the city, hanging out, etc.

truth: most likely working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
________________! phew.
You should message me if
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